Trying To Conceive #1 Only Vent Thread

[despttc]

Facebook has become my least favorite thing haven't deleted anyone but pretty much want to stay off of it because of all the bfp announcements & prego complainers :/

same here jett55.. Everytime I enter Fb, I'm greeted by baby pics. Thank God,over here ppl don't post their bfp pics,or that would've torn me apart. A friend of mine who started TTC along with me has a one and half year old kid and she keeps complaining saying she can't go for picnics and functions and her kid is too fussy. The baby is so cute and I don't know how that woman can talk about her like that. And she keeps saying I'm lucky I don have a kid yet.. LUCKY? ME? Here I'm trying and trying just to get a baby. Ppl don understand us. Just that it was too easy for others to conceive don't mean its a bed of roses for us..

 

[Jett55]

exactly!! I have a friend who tells me all the time I'm lucky to not have one yet and all that crap & it just ticks me off soo much.

 

[trying2beamom]

my friends tell me we dont need a baby, but i just dont talk to them anymore. and now my dad has started hinting he wants grandkids, which is depressing because i cant even tell him that something is wrong with me and we probably wont conceive for another year or more. and to top it off af is here a day early put that means once she ends i can get the rest of my testing done.

 

[donkey13]

i love my dh sooo much, but cant stand his family. they always wanna compare him to his younger brother...and me to his younger brothers fiance.

yes...im overweight. yes, i dont have a 6 figure income. yes, i work too much,.....and sorry for being almost 30, i wasnt aware there was anything i could do to *fix* that.
my bad that im not some skinny prom queen stuck up witch who got a cushy job outta college because of her mommies friends. swear to god, if she gets pregnant before i do we are NEVER gonna hear the end of it....especially because she's the type that gains 2 whole lbs and runs marathons right up until her due date.


also...stupid genetics. how is it that both of my parents have 4 siblings, im the youngest of 6, and have 17 frickin nieces and nephews, but cant seem to get pregnant? did everyone in my family use up all the baby dust and leave me with nothing??

 

[ashntony]

Well, I know this one girl that wanted a baby so bad well she had twins and now all she does is get on facebook and complain about how her baby girls cry too much and how she has no money to do anything she wants. I am sorry but motherhood is about sacrifices.

 

[trying2beamom]

so tried to have sex in the shower and my husband couldnt get in. i feel in there and my uterus is so low its about an inch from coming out of me. i dont think thats good, does anyone know if thats normal or what it is im calling my doc in the morning if its still that low

 

[sc81]

Vent,
Hi to all n lots of baby dust to all. My vent is for my SIL and my MIL.
Well my SIL has a 5 month old daughter in the 1 st year she got married. She had made my life a living hell since she got pregnant. She just do not miss any chances of rubbing her pregnancy n now how her daughter is doing things everyday. PLEASE DON'T call me n tell me that the baby started to flip today or what so ever and how she is stuck with the baby. PLEASE give the baby to me if u do not want her n please stop accusing ur baby to be a hindrance in ur career. If u wanted to be a career women then why did u get pregnant in the !st place????


MIL- Please don't tell me to have a baby ASAP. Babies r not made in market where u go n buy them. Don't tell me that we r not trying enough. Do u know that how I feel when AF shows up ??? Or how I wish that I could just get pregnant accidently and most of all stop bragging about your daughter like she is the best and only daughter in the world who conceived in the 1st try.

PLEASE PLEASE BOTH OF U GET OUT OF MY LIFE N LET ME FOR A MOMENT BREATHE A LITTLE.

 

[Limm]

My husband seems to have forgotten that we need to have sex in order to conceive.

At my nephew's birthday party, I was casually chatting to my grandad about the kind of parties I would have for any future children. He replied "I'll be gone by then."
He's been worried about an upcoming appointment he has with his doctor and that comment hurt me so much for so many reasons.

 

[Babydust28]

Hi
is over 1 week late. Symptoms are-
*tender as hell bbs
*quite a lot of cm, goes from ew to creamy and back to ew
*achy back
*tired
*eating myself out of house and home
*slight twinges and cramps on lower abdomen, was more left side but now it varies
*at least 3 dreams each night which I remember when I wake like they were real.

My bbs usually hurt right at ovulation, however this time they started about 4-5 days ago which I thought was odd, I do breakout in spots around the date is due but this time I've had them popping up thoughout the month and in places on my face I don't usually get them.

I've done 2 tests , IC (thin strip tests, pink dye) and each time I've used (fmu and tmu) this site I've found says tmu is more accurate... Not sure how true it is but here's the link....

https://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/pregnancy-test/pregnancy-tests-urine-sample.php

I don't temp chart or use opk..... Me and oh just bd all the time haha. If I haven't caught this month ill definitely chart and use opks nc.


So that's me and my cycle/body in a nutshell, what do you ladies think?

Xxxx

 

[Limm]

To top it all off, I just discovered that my husband has been watching porn.
Not even good porn.

 

[wellsk]

Why does every single doctor view my age as a 'get out clause' to not take my fertility worries seriously!?
Every time I get the, 'you're young, you've got lots of time'... If there's an actual problem, no matter what age I am it's not going to change things!

 

[ashntony]

To top it all off, I just discovered that my husband has been watching porn.
Not even good porn.

Same here! My DH and I have hadd argument after argument about sex.... I always get the I am too tired speel and then I find him in the bathroom with his phone... ugh....

 

[Limm]

My husband doesn't even bother trying it on with me. I have to do all the work (not just in the bedroom!) and you would think after having such an important talk with him recently he would show some initiative but all I've had is him clinging onto me like a koala and it's not what I meant when I asked him to show me more affection.

Can I even be bothered to be upset anymore?

 

[despttc]

13dpo and after

 

[trying2beamom]

wellsk Why does every single doctor view my age as a 'get out clause' to not take my fertility worries seriously!?
Every time I get the, 'you're young, you've got lots of time'... If there's an actual problem, no matter what age I am it's not going to change things!

mine started to use that then i told her its been two years and she kicked in to high gear to figure out whats wrong

 

[wellsk]

Unfortunately they know how long I've been trying, but they continue with the cliched old sayings!

I'm glad you have had better luck with that!

 

[despttc]

I had positive opk on CD11 12 13 and 14, but hubby says the CD14 one was most positive. That would make it 13dpo today(CD27). But I got on BFN 11dpo and 13dpo(today).. It does mean I should give up hopes for this month,right??? Was really hopin this month would give me a BFP
All hopes gone...

 

[tamithomas]

To top it all off, I just discovered that my husband has been watching porn.
Not even good porn.

DH watches porn too, bugs the crap out of me. Had a few fights over it, I don't bother with it anymore.. he gets defensive, I get defensive and it just goes into chaos. We just agreed that I am not to know about it. If so, I have a right to call him out. Secretly though I want to punch a wall when I think about it. And it's not even real porn, it's hentai *shiver*.

But I consider myself one of the lucky ones that it doesn't affect our sex life. He claims he keeps both porn and sex seperate . Still doesn't make it right though.

 

[tamithomas]

AF cramps have officially started. AF is due to arrive this weekend. I just want to ball my eyes out considering this weekend starts the week give or take that my baby was supposed to be due that we lost in August. So not fair..life is effing cruel! The only other AF I can think of that got me into this emotional state was the first AF after the M/C.

 

[sammyttc]

Why does every single doctor view my age as a 'get out clause' to not take my fertility worries seriously!?
Every time I get the, 'you're young, you've got lots of time'... If there's an actual problem, no matter what age I am it's not going to change things!

SO STRANGE! Like. I don't get why it wouldn't be she's still quite young, we should really look into this!! Annoying. I honestly wish I could pick a doctor who I knew had actually had to try herself....