Trying To Conceive #1 Only Vent Thread

[despttc]

Was at my sis-in.Law's place past four days. She's pregnant and is having bouts and bouts of nausea and vomiting. So I had to do all the chores. It was good that I could help but I was dead tired of that extra work and dead tired of being NOT PREGNANT ALL THE TIME. And HORRIBLE PIMPLES showed up yesterday on CD22 and I know my AF is on the way. I think this is PMS that's making me talk like this. FED UP

 

[Limm]

Is it just me, or does anyone else find it odd that so many of us are having problems with our husbands right now?

 

[ashntony]

I don't know if it's in the air or water...

 

[trying2beamom]

or both

 

[tamithomas]

Why do fertiles assume we're "too sensitive" and that we need to "get over ourselves" while having kids hanging off of their hips? You try invasive doctor appointments and the dreaded "you will never have kids" and then tell us we're over reacting. I swear, people are born without compassion.

 

[Ladybuggz]

Vent for today: Naively believed last year that I'd be 7 months pregnant right about now. I've never even seen a BFP. I welcomed in 2013 full of hope, thinking that this will be the year I have my baby, looks like it'll be atleast 2014...

 

[wellsk]

Better hope it's a sick late April Fool's joke...
Lindsay Lohan... pregnant?!

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowb...official-Pregnant--Please-say-April-Fool.html

 

[AlyCon]

Another ultrasound of a healthy baby that isn't mine

 

[Jett55]

Rant of the day pregnant girl on my fb complaining that she can't wear jeans are u for real gunna complain about jeans when ur lucky enough to be having a child uggg! Buy some maternity pants & get over yourself stop complaining about every little thing. Seriously want to block thia girl last week she complained about not being able to eat pizza & craving Chinese gaah! Fb annoys me don't even know why I get on anymore -.-

 

[Limm]

Had a long chat with husband last night and things seem to be working out. Early days but trying to be hopeful. His fertility test results should be back next week.
Had to go to the dentist and have a tooth removed. Dentist misunderstood what tooth it was at first and so I ended up having two extra injections I didn't need. I seem to have no luck whatsoever with the NHS.
Feel like crap and incredibly drowsy, so TTC isn't happening atm.
Oh, and I'm 67 days late and getting no help from doctors anymore. Feels like they've given up on me just because their initial tests said nothing was wrong.

 

[WhitheartsQ]

Just found out we have to pay on taxes. Dh is now stressed about having a baby, and will likely not want to try if I don't end up with a bfp this time, plus he will have a hard time if I do get a bfp now. Loose loose situation, neither one of us will be happy.

 

[ashntony]

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Had a long chat with husband last night and things seem to be working out. Early days but trying to be hopeful. His fertility test results should be back next week.
Had to go to the dentist and have a tooth removed. Dentist misunderstood what tooth it was at first and so I ended up having two extra injections I didn't need. I seem to have no luck whatsoever with the NHS.
Feel like crap and incredibly drowsy, so TTC isn't happening atm.
Oh, and I'm 67 days late and getting no help from doctors anymore. Feels like they've given up on me just because their initial tests said nothing was wrong.

I know how you feel cd81 for me... just waiting for my AF to come... no doctor wants to do anything fertility wise until we have been trying a year. He told mevto lose wait which isn't happening....

 

[tamithomas]

Just watched Hell's Kitchen..the preview for next week is one of the girls who thinks she's bfp and what's her answer ''This sucks! I want to win so bad, I don't want to have to go home!'' while having practically a nervous breakdown. I wanted to reach into my screen and punch her one so bad! What will the kid think one day when he finds this episode and finds his mother freaking out like as if her being pregnant with her is the worst thing to ever happen to her? Why is it always the ones who don't want it who get it?!?!?!?!?

 

[tamithomas]

Oh, and just deleted someone from my facebook for good because they shared the ''You don't know what love is until you've counted 10 little fingers ect'' post. Ef you..ef you times a hundred. She knows I've M/C, she knows we've had lttc problems. Not to mention, gave birth literally within the hour I m/c and she dares share bs like that to facebook? I don't care if I seem like I'm over reacting but it's offensive to the never end of the world to say stuff like that. Are we all heartless women because we don't have kids now? So angry right now steam is coming out of my ears!!!!!!!!!

 

[CakeCottage]

Oh ffs not another bfp announcement via Facebook... It may be time to deactivate!!!

 

[ashntony]

Exactly Tami! I am so sick of getting on db and seeing all of these women that now share every first little moment. I know it is the green monster but both of these women talked about how they didn't want kids....

 

[Twag]

So fed up with it all

Oh and I saw that thing on FB about the love and 10 fingers & toes and I too got really angry especially as it was posted by my cousin who accidently got preggo and has her baby now and she whinged like hell when she found out!

Sick and tired of not having my turn plus massive green eyed monster is out!

And I do NOT want to turn 33 next week

 

[AlyCon]

Omg yes Tami! I hate that whole "you don't know what love is until you're a mom" or "a mothers sacrifice is the most amazing thing" and especially those "the pain of giving birth proves our love for our kids" posts! I've ranted about this before but posts like that make it seem like childless women are grumpy old trolls or something. It also insults those who chose adoption or surrogacy to make it seem like a woman can't love a child unless she gave birth to them, which is so untrue!! I mean I get the point of those posts/ pictures but if you really loved your kid you wouldn't need to post a bunch of pictures to prove it!! And it's not like your one year old can log on FB and see it and be like "Aww mommy posted that for me!"

 

[jessandaj]

Everytime I get onto Facebook I see those kinds if post and I just wanna punch a wall. Then this girl yesterday randomly says "it's a boy due july 21st for those of you who didn't know Iam expecting again" I was like wtf you have to be like over 20 weeks and you've never said a thing on Facebook about it until now. I wasn't angry or anything I just thought it was weird but hey if everyone was like her and didn't baby brag every minute of the day women like us might feel comfortable on Facebook

 

[awifey]

Oh and to top it off (sorry, I'm on venting roll today) I watch a show called Castle. For a while I was so happy that it was showing signs of one of the characters was starting to have doubts of infertility issues. I was so happy that finally a show is going to shine light on it.

Wtf happens last episode? The Character goes for a SA and when he returns home, the wife says "honey I got some news" the character thinks that's it, he's got low sperm count and what not..turns out they didn't need the test results because she was bfp. Way to effing go, once again infertility shoved under the rug. Shame on you the writers of Castle! I had high hopes yet you portray as a "it will happen when you least expect it" stereotype once again for the millionth time in the media.

Greg's Anatomy had the decency to have Meredith lttc several years...