Trying To Conceive #1 Only Vent Thread

[sweet_18]

I just want to be pregnant. I can't take seeing another ultrasound or bump on FB, I just can't

Same here... I've had two in the past 30 mins... Seems like everybody else is super fertile except me

Its so annoying!!! Saw 2 announcements and a baby pic today morning, when I logged into FB! One of them is my school friend and the other one is younger to me by 4 years!
life is so unfair!

 

[Jett55]

So sick of my babys progress posts on facebook so annoying :/

 

[laurac1988]

"When you have a baby you won't be able to have nice holidays / nights at the theatre / do what you want"

SHUT THE F UP! Seriously!

 

[sammyttc]

Just incase the constant slew of pregnancy announcements on facebook weren't enough to send me over the edge, today, a friend announced her baby to be's name: Sawyer. Our number 1 name we hadn't shared with others for fear of it being taken. Sooo, sooo, sad.

 

[Limm]

Saw a show on TV earlier today called "Secretly Pregnant", which featured a 30 year old woman, still living with her parents, afraid to tell her parents that she is pregnant with her boyfriend's baby. YOU'RE A 30 YEAR OLD WOMAN. IF YOU DIDN'T WANT TO GET PREGNANT THEN USE SOME BLOODY PROTECTION. AND FOR CRYING OUT LOUD, GET YOUR OWN HOUSE ALREADY! Grrrrrrr.

To top it off (and not TTC related) I missed a promising job interview today because the bus I needed never bothered to show up. The company said there wasn't any other opputunities coming up atm so they're "keeping my details". I take one step forward and a million back.

I am sick of job hunting. I am sick of living with my parents (funny when you consider my comments above). I am sick of not being pregnant, being 74 days late for no reason and not getting help from the doctors because they think nothing is wrong just because a blood test done over a month ago says so. I am waking up every day, finally at a place in my life where my depression isn't taking over everything I do and I actually want to get out of bed and live my life, but it's as if the world doesn't want me to have anything and I don't understand why.

I have never been one to cause a scene, but I feel like I'm at the point of snapping.

I reached out to my "friends" earlier just in search of some cheering up, but instead just had the usual people being nosey so that they could talk about something when they get bored of talking about themselves.

What the heck am I honestly meant to do with myself right now????

 

[AlyCon]

"When you have a baby you won't be able to have nice holidays / nights at the theatre / do what you want"

SHUT THE F UP! Seriously!

THIS! I hate when people say stuff like that! Especially when it's coming from people who already have kids! And they say it as if i'm completely oblivious. I know that I will have to make sacrifices when I have a child and because my child will be PLANNED I will be more than ready and willing to make those sacrifices.

And also the next person who tells me "well when you have a child you'll understand." Will be promptly smacked across their face!

 

[AlyCon]

So sick of my babys progress posts on facebook so annoying :/

These especially get to me cuz they're a reminder that another week has gone by and I'm still not pregnant.

Idk about you but when some one announces a pregnancy I think to myself "ok I need to get my BFP before she gives birth!" So those progress things seriously give me anxiety!! right now there's four girls on FB and two in real life that are all in their second trimester so the clock is ticking for me to get pregnant before the summer

 

[Mini_Me23]

Just incase the constant slew of pregnancy announcements on facebook weren't enough to send me over the edge, today, a friend announced her baby to be's name: Sawyer. Our number 1 name we hadn't shared with others for fear of it being taken. Sooo, sooo, sad.

Omg that would piss me off so bad! and it's not like you can say anything about it to her ugh, I can't imagine your frustration. So sorry

 

[trying2beamom]

so frustrated with my husband im contemplating going on birth control not like i need it but just in case. hes so immature hes 3 years older than me and i act more mature now. he turned off the alarm so we didnt get up until right before he had to go to work so i could do anything i wanted to do to day. its not like he does it on accident he does this on purpose everyday i want to do something.

 

[sammyttc]

Thanks Mini Me! It's nice to know SOMEONE gets it! We haven't shared we are even ttc so yeah... definitely can't tell her it's my name and now, if we use it, it seems like we copied. The WORST. Honestly, I know there are so many other names and I will be thrilled to pick out another PERFECT one for little bean once we finally are anticipating one... it just stinks because I guess I just wish it was me getting to make that announcement! Jealousy rears it's ugly head again.

I'm CD23 also, and I find this time in my cycle to be the most wearing... I just want to know if I am pregnant or not so if not, I can move on to the next cycle.

 

[sammyttc]

Also... unrelated- I keep trying to change my profile picture on here and it appears I have in my control panel but it is not changing on my posts... WHY?!?!

 

[Ayjay]

have you refreshed the page? That happens a lot on a browser game I play and its because your browser cache is full and basically lazy, showing you the old photo

 

[sammyttc]

yeah! Well actually, in my cp it looks like it worked, but then everytime I post it's using my old one! Strange...

 

[tamithomas]

ffs! another bfp announcment this one pisses me off even more because DH called it a few months ago meaning he knew they would get bfp before us yet are the dumbest as a door nail couple in the world. The girlfriend who throws 5 year old fits all the time and throws all problems at everyone and calls out her family on facebook and a husband who disrespects her family to high hell. So not fair!

Right on AF, the AF that I'm supposed to be giving birth. Way to effing go mother nature, kick me while I'm down There was already fighting for them being together with the family and I don't blame them, the boyfriend really treats the family like shit. And now it's complete chaos now that she's bfp which I'm pretty sure she's done on purpose just to piss them off which is the worst reason to do it.

Why...Why...WHY do people get their bfp's out of the most outrageous, nastiest, stupidest reasons?!?!?!?!?!!? Yet we want a baby to start a family out of love, care and my maternal instinct is raging and it doesn't happen .

 

[wellsk]

Another day, another pregnancy announcement of someone who doesn't deserve it! She's a psychotic bitch who's trapping her boyfriend...
THIS IS NOT RIGHT/FAIR!!! I HATE THIS!

I just want to scream the place down!

 

[tamithomas]

Another day, another pregnancy announcement of someone who doesn't deserve it! She's a psychotic bitch who's trapping her boyfriend...
THIS IS NOT RIGHT/FAIR!!! I HATE THIS!

I just want to scream the place down!

you just described my step sister in law. She tricked my step brother into getting bfp by saying she had renewed her birth control pills when in reality she stopped taking them just so she could trap him in staying with him. Sadly it worked took her not even 2 months of no pills to get her bfp yet was still living at my mom and step dads place, no job except for him with a part time and neither of them had no chance in hell of getting a place at the time. Pretty much her family had to provide eeeeeeeverything for them. I was so mad when I found out!

 

[MissyLissy]

My cousin is in labor today. She'll have her baby in her arms by the end of the day.

When she got pregnant 9 months ago, I told myself I'd get my bfp before she gave birth.

Well, here I am on her child's birthday with not a hint of a bfp in site. Instead, I'm dealing with he heaviest day of my period yet, and major AF cramping. Yay.

 

[Mini_Me23]

UGGH these FB announcements I saw 2 today, Its making me sooo envious there was 2 ultrasound photos up, one announcing a GIRL and the other saying that theres ONLY one baby in there. I'm ready to delete FB! LOL

 

[Ladybuggz]

Log onto facebook and what do I read? 'I hate pregnancy, I'm so achey and tired'. Eugh. This person knows that I'm beyond desperate for a baby, yet is constantly complaining about pregnancy or harping on about her 10 month old. This person fell pregnant after sleeping around for a week...and didn't even know who the father of her first pregnancy was (she was sleeping with my brother in law, but claims that he's now definitely the dad...). She then fell pregnant again (at this point, living with the bro in law), when her first baby was 6 weeks old. They're beyond irresponsible, can't even afford formula for their first child (so we're constantly bailing them out). Someone help me when she gives birth in May!

 

[Jett55]

Wow this girl is tryin to tell me how hard & how much responsibility a child is. When the baby daddy smokes pot they both drink neither one of em r responsible at all. And she's going to try & tell me about kids wtf stupid idiot had her kid stay with her mother for 3 months cuz supposedly the baby daddy is abusive & she had to start takin xanex she missed the kids first steps & soo much more. She is the last person on earth I want tellin me about raising a child. I hope to God her mama gets the baby taken away from her that she swears going to happen cuz this girl is clearly unfit to be mom. And she pisses me off with her nonstop whining about not having fun anymore & how I've changed. Gaaah