Trying To Conceive #1 Only Vent Thread

[tamithomas]

Oh and to the woman who wrote an article about how much she regrets having kids, up yours ten ways from Sunday! I can't believe how much praise she's getting for it for being "honest". BS, if I were her kids I would feel humiliated if I ever found that article. Especially since she decided a picture of the kids and their surnames would be acceptable in the article. If you didn't want kids then why in the world did you marry someone who wanted them?!?!? No one twisted your arm... omg these people.

 

[wellsk]

Was it this woman tami?
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/...says-having-children-biggest-regret-life.html

I'm ashamed to say that I live in the same city as her! Let alone having to live in the same country... What a hurrendous human being!

 

[Mini_Me23]

Was it this woman tami?
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/...says-having-children-biggest-regret-life.html

I'm ashamed to say that I live in the same city as her! Let alone having to live in the same country... What a hurrendous human being!

I read one paragraph and closed it, people make me sick, if you dont want them, give them to someone who does

 

[tamithomas]

Was it this woman tami?
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/...says-having-children-biggest-regret-life.html

I'm ashamed to say that I live in the same city as her! Let alone having to live in the same country... What a hurrendous human being!

Yes that's the one. It's sickening how much praise she's getting for it just for being honest. Just because she's being honest doesn't make it right

 

[AlliCat]

Was it this woman tami?
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/...says-having-children-biggest-regret-life.html

I'm ashamed to say that I live in the same city as her! Let alone having to live in the same country... What a hurrendous human being!

Yes that's the one. It's sickening how much praise she's getting for it just for being honest. Just because she's being honest doesn't make it right

That article just drove me up a wall.. What the hell.... Up yours is right for someone like that....

 

[wellsk]

I don't know what on earth went through that woman's mind to then go on and have a second child! The scars that her children must carry mentally must be awful! And now her own children feel like her, yet are continuing to have children out of obligation!

It's fine to not want children, but don't then go on to have them and blame them for ruining your life!

It's shameful and devastating for all women who'd give anything to be parents,

 

[Limm]

Read an article today about a woman demanding IVF treatment on the NHS so that she can have her 11th child and get more benefits, but she refuses to work.

IMHO, she should be grateful for what she has. It's not like she isn't already earning enough to feed, clothe and provide for her other ten children, not just on benefits but her partner's wages too.

 

[wellsk]

There's no way in hell this woman will get IVF for her 11th child! Firstly, she's over the age limit for NHS funded IVF. You or your partner usually cannot have any children. What's more, for IVF you actually have to have a fertility problem!! And with 10 kids she doesn't seem to have a problem reproducing (particularly since her last baby was born 7 months ago).

People like that don't want children... They want benefits.

 

[awifey]

Log onto facebook and what do I read? 'I hate pregnancy, I'm so achey and tired'. Eugh. This person knows that I'm beyond desperate for a baby, yet is constantly complaining about pregnancy or harping on about her 10 month old. This person fell pregnant after sleeping around for a week...and didn't even know who the father of her first pregnancy was (she was sleeping with my brother in law, but claims that he's now definitely the dad...). She then fell pregnant again (at this point, living with the bro in law), when her first baby was 6 weeks old. They're beyond irresponsible, can't even afford formula for their first child (so we're constantly bailing them out). Someone help me when she gives birth in May!

Why do people choose formula? The boob is free!

I know sometimes there are medical complications...but...

 

[laurac1988]

I would use formula. But that's because we will be a two mummy household and I want us to have equal responsibility. But I don't know why people would use it if they can't afford it

 

[laurac1988]

Read an article today about a woman demanding IVF treatment on the NHS so that she can have her 11th child and get more benefits, but she refuses to work.

IMHO, she should be grateful for what she has. It's not like she isn't already earning enough to feed, clothe and provide for her other ten children, not just on benefits but her partner's wages too.

The NHS should say NO. Simple as that

 

[awifey]

Daily mail woman who doesn't want kids is a psychopath.

 

[Ladybuggz]

Log onto facebook and what do I read? 'I hate pregnancy, I'm so achey and tired'. Eugh. This person knows that I'm beyond desperate for a baby, yet is constantly complaining about pregnancy or harping on about her 10 month old. This person fell pregnant after sleeping around for a week...and didn't even know who the father of her first pregnancy was (she was sleeping with my brother in law, but claims that he's now definitely the dad...). She then fell pregnant again (at this point, living with the bro in law), when her first baby was 6 weeks old. They're beyond irresponsible, can't even afford formula for their first child (so we're constantly bailing them out). Someone help me when she gives birth in May!

Why do people choose formula? The boob is free!

I know sometimes there are medical complications...but...

She doesn't have a medical problem. For some bizzarre reason she didn't even try breastfeeding for a week (she breastfed for a day or two, so the baby got the Colostrum and that was it...) When you know that you have £000, you'd have thought you'd atleast give breastfeeding a go! Not only is it free, but it has a number of fantastic benefits!

 

[Limm]

Got a call back from the doctor. Not only is my husband fertile, but twice as fertile as what's classed as normal.

Obviously I am thrilled with this news, but that must mean I'm the defective one then? My tests came back normal and everything, but I am 76 days late for no reason at all. It's like my body decided to play a cruel trick on me.

 

[ashntony]

CD90... got my vitex ordered today!!! Just aggravated its going to take a week...

 

[Hoping girl 2]

A bit sad and confused. Decided to get some blood work done while I was home and results seemed normal to me but when I saw my doctor (who is also my godfather) he said I have mild over active thyroid and very low iron. He said it's going to be difficult for me to conceive and if I conceive there's a very high risk I'd lose the baby. He's given me some tablets to try and sort things out and hopefully help with everything which is something I suppose. But when I then showed my results to my other doctor (nutritionist) he said that I don't have anything and I don't need to take anything. Now I'm scared that if I don't take the meds something bad will happen and if I do, they will harm me. All I know is, either way it's a very high chance I'm out this month already

 

[tamithomas]

Been having an itchy nipple for the passed 48 hours. I wake up this morning and it's gotten darker (only one nipple) and can't stop being horny yet AF showed Monday evening. Body y u no make sense?

 

[shorty42383]

Been having an itchy nipple for the passed 48 hours. I wake up this morning and it's gotten darker (only one nipple) and can't stop being horny yet AF showed Monday evening. Body y u no make sense?

I feel like our bodies should be our best friends yet most of the time they are a pain in the butt! One of my nipples started hurting this morning and I feel like mine are getting darker but I think it's because I want them to get darker ugh!

 

[Jett55]

:/ first news of the morning a girl I know is prego with twins waay to ruin my entire day I'm happy for her n all since she did wait til she finished her schooling but still it makes me feel so bad about myself hearing about others pregnancies :/

 

[FireLyte]

Been having an itchy nipple for the passed 48 hours. I wake up this morning and it's gotten darker (only one nipple) and can't stop being horny yet AF showed Monday evening. Body y u no make sense?

I have to say, you made me chuckle, Tami. Every time I get AF, that's the time I'm ALWAYS horniest! Seriously though, why can't our bodies make sense?