Trying To Conceive #1 Only Vent Thread

[VP1228]

I am so sad and discouraged that I am not anticipating my O on friday I have cried and hurt so much for the past 2 years that I can barely take feeling the O cramps and its not the physical pain that makes me cry. This is so frustrating and I feel alone because my friends either have a child or pregnant. I need a miracle or a ton of baby dust to get pregnant. I will lose my mind if I do not see a BFP soon!

 

[Jett55]

ehh a new batch of fb friends posting bfps or the gender of their babies It never ends... constant pics of ppl & their los ultrasounds yaah soo done with even being on fb all it does is upset me or make me angry

 

[ashntony]

Another friend being induced today.... Hopefully I will get a BFP before my 23rd beat in May of 2014...

 

[tamithomas]

Ugh, Mother's day next weekend even though I was supposed to be a mom right now. This is going to be the toughest mothers day in my life so far RIP little rainbow. Momma still remembers you.

 

[VP1228]

First I want to say I am so sorry for your loss, I can't say I know how you feel because I have never been pregnant but I can say I am sorry that you do not have your baby to hold. Maybe we both will have BFPs for Mother's Day or not too long after that

 

[tamithomas]

Thanks, I know for a fact that there will be no bfp for mothers day as AF is tomorrow and cramps are already here as they always do a day before,plus we didn't get to bd since dh threw his neck out pretty bad a day before O. Everything to prevent us from getting bfp again lol. Was the first one in 3 years, only to lose it a week later after I found out I was bfp.

According to my horoscope June is supposed to be lucky in regards to ttc

 

[Ladybuggz]

Using the Clear Blue Fertility Monitor for the first time this month. CD 20 and still LOW FERTILITY! Really hope that it's gonna work properly this month and not have an entire month of lows. I want my peak!

 

[Kelt1123]

Ok big time venting to do so here it goes. I think I may seriously freak out if one more person I know comes out to say they are pregnant. Yesterday was really hard, an old friend of mine hasn't changed since we were younger. Still out partying, doing dumb things, and making stupid decisions. Which don't get me wrong i like my occasional drink and everything but this girl has always been way over the top and still is, just posted a pic on FB of her holding her new baby......seriously, she never even said anything about being pregnant(shows I haven't be around this friend for awhile) how is that not something you shout to the world, or at least to anyone that listens or will read it???? She never wanted kids, hasn't settled down or anything and now of course she has a little bundle of joy. I don't get it!!! The hardest thing is that she is never going to appreciate anything that baby does for the first time or that she even has that to go home to every day. IT'S NOT FAIR!!! Sorry had to say, it's just so frustrating. It seems like everyone around me is getting what I want.

 

[Sam10]

AF is really starting to freak me out. It keeps stopping and starting again. I'm on day 6 now. Anyone have this kind of experience? The blood has been bright red the entire time. I've had my usual clots along with it. I don't know if I should be worried or not. Maybe it's making up for being late and short last time? Sigh.

 

[Limm]

DH's friend has been having a go at me, claiming I am "punishing" her and her baby for being irritated by her constant baby talk and photos every day. She even posted a photo of her and her child saying how grateful she is to be a mum and how much she loves her baby MINUTES after telling her my AF had shown up after being on CD129. She told me she can't get upset over me having 'another negative test'. This coming from a girl who supposedly was TTC for 6 months before getting her BFP.

What she doesn't know is that on that day, I got told by my doctor to go to A&E because I was bleeding a lot and had had a faint positive test the day before. I went on my own (I didn't want to worry anyone) and waited for over three hours just to be told they can't confirm anything, but I might have miscarried. Family and most friends still don't have a clue.

I don't honestly know how I feel.

 

[VP1228]

DH's friend has been having a go at me, claiming I am "punishing" her and her baby for being irritated by her constant baby talk and photos every day. She even posted a photo of her and her child saying how grateful she is to be a mum and how much she loves her baby MINUTES after telling her my AF had shown up after being on CD129. She told me she can't get upset over me having 'another negative test'. This coming from a girl who supposedly was TTC for 6 months before getting her BFP.

What she doesn't know is that on that day, I got told by my doctor to go to A&E because I was bleeding a lot and had had a faint positive test the day before. I went on my own (I didn't want to worry anyone) and waited for over three hours just to be told they can't confirm anything, but I might have miscarried. Family and most friends still don't have a clue.

I don't honestly know how I feel.

I wouldn't talk to her anymore because she is very rude and not considering your feelings but she want you to consider hers. She needs a reality check really fast. I am sorry that you had to go through a possible miscarriage and deal with a complete a-hole she should be ashamed of herself being so selfish.

 

[tamithomas]

DH's friend has been having a go at me, claiming I am "punishing" her and her baby for being irritated by her constant baby talk and photos every day. She even posted a photo of her and her child saying how grateful she is to be a mum and how much she loves her baby MINUTES after telling her my AF had shown up after being on CD129. She told me she can't get upset over me having 'another negative test'. This coming from a girl who supposedly was TTC for 6 months before getting her BFP.

What she doesn't know is that on that day, I got told by my doctor to go to A&E because I was bleeding a lot and had had a faint positive test the day before. I went on my own (I didn't want to worry anyone) and waited for over three hours just to be told they can't confirm anything, but I might have miscarried. Family and most friends still don't have a clue.

I don't honestly know how I feel.

Wow, I'm in agreement with VP's comment. I'd drop her sorry ass. What a b**ch.

ps I'm so sorry if you did in fact M/C.

 

[tamithomas]

I really wish Mothers day wasn't so narrow minded by the general public. Mothers day should be about all sorts of Mothers weather it'd be ones who suffered loss, mothering via adoption or even guardians who raised other peoples children as their own. Non of this just biological mother bs.

 

[Limm]

Thanks guys. The annoying thing is that I'm never going to know if I m/c or not, so I feel like I can't properly grieve.

I wish it was as simple as forgetting her. She's friends with my husband. She's even had her fiancee messaging DH asking for all three of them to meet up and talk while I'm out. Talk about what?? What have I done?? Why am I not invited to this conversation??

She's messaged me today apologising, but it just sounds snobby the way she's put it. I also kind of predicted she would end up apologising because she does catalogue-related business and will want to get money off of me now.

What frustrates me most of all is that she makes out she is DH's bestest friend, yet doesn't consider how he must be feeling about TTC.

 

[AlyCon]

I was talking to DH the other day and he said "you got two weeks to get pregnant or you'll miss this mothers day!" Needless to say my feelings were hurt and I told him this and he apologized. Then earlier this week we were at our friends house who have a daughter and another on the way and they mentioned something about Mother's Day and DH says "too bad for you" or something like that and it pissed me off!! I can't believe after already telling him those comments upset me he would still say things like that to me.

 

[Limm]

I was talking to DH the other day and he said "you got two weeks to get pregnant or you'll miss this mothers day!" Needless to say my feelings were hurt and I told him this and he apologized. Then earlier this week we were at our friends house who have a daughter and another on the way and they mentioned something about Mother's Day and DH says "too bad for you" or something like that and it pissed me off!! I can't believe after already telling him those comments upset me he would still say things like that to me.

He sounds like he's being really insensitive. This is something you should be going through as a couple and he sounds like he's putting it all on you.

Have you talked to him since the second comment?

 

[AlyCon]

I scolded him right after the second comment but since we were at our friends house I didn't want to start a fight. He wants a baby more than anything and so do I but we've been having some issue lately and I don't know anymore. I've started going to counseling and he's come with me once but we didn't really accomplish anything. He says he will come back with me to work on things so hopefully he's telling the truth and we can improve our marriage and keep TTC

 

[Sam10]

Sorry you're going through this Limm. Honestly I would cut her off. She sounds like an a-hole.

 

[mapletulip]

Sooo, our local radio station is throwing a contest...MAKE ME A MOM.
5 couples sign up, first couple to conceive gets $15k and a bunch of baby stuff.

I have no words.

https://www.ampradiocalgary.com/index.asp?id=1180&mn=11&cc=1

 

[tamithomas]

Sooo, our local radio station is throwing a contest...MAKE ME A MOM.
5 couples sign up, first couple to conceive gets $15k and a bunch of baby stuff.

I have no words.

https://www.ampradiocalgary.com/index.asp?id=1180&mn=11&cc=1

Is it a race to determine who's reproductive organs work the fastest or are they offering money to help out with fertility cost? If it's the first, shame on them!