Trying To Conceive #1+ Vent Thread

[Ariannda]

Give UP and THEN it will happen ?! What happens when your NOT giving up leads you to the astonishing revelation that you CANT and WONT EVER conceive without assistance even though you have had other kids ?!

Dont listen to ANYONE who says when you give up it'll happen ! Trying and testing and asking for answers is what gets you answers !!!

 

[BunnyBunny]

Hello


So far my only vent on TTC since we are keeping it a secret from our relatives to keep their noses out of the process is when I am ovulating or so the little tests tell me, then my hubby is suddenly not having it. He will have a headache or just be tired. I don't tell him that I am ovulating after the 1st month we started testing I did that and he said it was a lot of pressure so I started keeping that to myself too. We just try to do the baby dance every other day or two so that way I am not over stressing him. I spice up things and keep them as spontaneous as we can since we both work. And also we have had a deep talk to make sure he is really really ready and he is. SOOOO that is why its frustrating to get the "not now" card when it needs to be now. Anyway so far this is my only vent so far...

 

[bluestars]

Hello


So far my only vent on TTC since we are keeping it a secret from our relatives to keep their noses out of the process is when I am ovulating or so the little tests tell me, then my hubby is suddenly not having it. He will have a headache or just be tired. I don't tell him that I am ovulating after the 1st month we started testing I did that and he said it was a lot of pressure so I started keeping that to myself too. We just try to do the baby dance every other day or two so that way I am not over stressing him. I spice up things and keep them as spontaneous as we can since we both work. And also we have had a deep talk to make sure he is really really ready and he is. SOOOO that is why its frustrating to get the "not now" card when it needs to be now. Anyway so far this is my only vent so far...

That does sound frustrating! My OH is the opposite he wants it every night ! We are trying to lay off every day and go every second day instead! Good luck! X

 

[rhysthedragon]

Give UP and THEN it will happen ?! What happens when your NOT giving up leads you to the astonishing revelation that you CANT and WONT EVER conceive without assistance even though you have had other kids ?!

Dont listen to ANYONE who says when you give up it'll happen ! Trying and testing and asking for answers is what gets you answers !!!

Yeah, I hate it when people say that. Like the act of trying is keeping you from success.

 

[lexilayla05]

I am 23 and trying to concieve, my bf is 38 and i am desperate for my own child, my periods have never been right since day one ive recently had a scan which said i am boarderline pcos but nothing definate im size 10 and about 9st so not sure why im possibly pcos, i can of the depo nearly a year ago and ever since ive had periods ive bled more than not bled but for the first time ever ive not had a period for the last 5 weeks NEVER happened before ive taken pregnancy tests but theyre all negative, i wouldnt have thought at 23 id have problems with getting pregnant. Am i doing somthing wrong or why have a not bled in 5 weeks

Any advice would be really appriciated

 

[MrsHouseWife]

had to wait over an hour yesterday for a simply vaccine booster. after waiting an hour and 15 minutes i went up to the counter to ask how much longer the nurse would be, only to be told that the nurse had already "ticked me off" as being seen. WTH?

after all that, my normal doctor ended up giving me the booster and now i have a very sore arm.

talked to her about my Rubella vaccine as well and now have a script for that.

worried about vitamin D levels stills so a script for that too.

i want to do this right. but i really hate needles.

 

[VictoriaIris]

Why is it that people that shouldn't be having babies, ie 14 year old girls, or people who get pregnant on purpose to trap nice men so they can not work and have everything paid for them (have one of these in my family) etc get pregnant without even a thought. Yet people who are ready, thought things through, prepared, investigated, taking pills, had injections and check ups, who just want to be a good and loving parent, struggle to catch.
Its just doesn't seem right at all.

 

[EMC00P]

I know exactly what you are going through. At first my hubby was excited and couldn't wait to try. Then out of nowhere he decided to change his mind. We had a little chat and he told me that we didn't need to label what we were doing because it made it more stressful. So glad we had that talk when we did, this week is THE week to be trying.
I do understand why he is so stressed though. We did have a miscarriage last August which was difficult on us as well as our family. We have since learned that, in the future, no matter how excited we are, that it is best to wait until after the 12 week mark to share the news.

Just think positive~!!!

Hello


So far my only vent on TTC since we are keeping it a secret from our relatives to keep their noses out of the process is when I am ovulating or so the little tests tell me, then my hubby is suddenly not having it. He will have a headache or just be tired. I don't tell him that I am ovulating after the 1st month we started testing I did that and he said it was a lot of pressure so I started keeping that to myself too. We just try to do the baby dance every other day or two so that way I am not over stressing him. I spice up things and keep them as spontaneous as we can since we both work. And also we have had a deep talk to make sure he is really really ready and he is. SOOOO that is why its frustrating to get the "not now" card when it needs to be now. Anyway so far this is my only vent so far...

 

[athensfroggy]

We are on month 2 of ttc and I have to admit that it was very disappointing to see the negative on the test last month.. we are right around ovulation week and I am trying to not over think everything. Finally got a flashing smiley this morning I think I have drove my guy crazy with Google searches! But still hopeful and fingers crossed. Good luck to everyone too!!!!!

 

[melly2]

My vent: My stepbrother's baby-mama (who he broke up with 15 years ago, and then took custody of their child, thank God) is on here 7th child with the 5th man!!!!!! Did I mention, that all of them have been taken away from her by the State, because she is an unfit mother. Seriously!! She had her first child when she was the tender age of 14. I was still playing with my Barbies at that age. Not only is she just a horrible mother, she's a horrible human being that doesn't deserve, nor can support, another child which will be forced into foster care. ARGH!!!

 

[AmorT]

My vent:

I just want one. Before, while growing up I always wanted a big family. I loved children, I loved baby sitting my lil cousins and I couldn't wait until I got grown to have my own family. Some years ago, me and my ex. said we wanted children. I did almost everything, while keeping it from my family because I was only 20/21 at the time. I was ovulating we was having sex on the right time, and I just felt it was "him" because I was scared to go to the doctor, and as far as I was concerned I was healthy and normal. I just felt maybe it wasn't meant to be with him. As the years passed, and a new relationship blossomed, I found out that my tubes we're swollen during a lap. The reason ?! I dont know. My doctor didnt even explain anything, she told my mother after my sugery, I could get pregnant, but I'd have to be careful of it getting caught in my tube.. I was relieved because I just thought maybe things were looking good. Then when I went in for my follow up, basically my dreams we're crushed when she said the only way I could conceieve was through IVF .. I just cried, they did not remove my tubes.

My mother told me not to always believe what doctors say, because they told her she couldn't have children and she had 3. I was hurt, so I wanted to get another opinion. I went and basically she wanted to see my lap. and this new doctor went off what my old OBgyn was saying, so basically that was a dead end.

I see so many people have children back to back, and sometimes I wonder if i'll be able to experience the hapiness of carrying a child and hearing a child calling me "mommy". I prayed so hard , just saying I'll be happy with one. Thats all .. Lord knows I can not afford IVF, It just hurts alot, and to not think about it, it's hard to do, because I love children so much. I just had to let this lil vent out. And I pray I get my BFP soon.

 

[Miracle79]

I have been ttc since 2010 with unexplained infertility. I had and hsg and husband had an analysis and everything was normal. I have had two iui's the last one just yesterday. I am trying to remain positive. It's hard cause I work in a preschool and three of my parents are pregnant and now my co-teacher thinks she is and she's already complaining. The worst part is she knows what I'm going through and all I want to say to her is " I don't mean any harm and I'm happy for you but I really don't want p hear you complaining bout our aches and pains and feeling sick... I'd welcome the entire experience because its been so hard ttc"

 

[nmas106]

I'm freaking ovulating. He won't get home until about SEVEN LONG HOURS from now.
I'm on cd 42 and I'm JUST NOW OVULATING.
Ugh.
OVARIES! GET YOUR SH** TOGETHER.
I really just want to cry.
I had ewcm earlier, and now I'm having that and ovulation pains.
My husband just started working at his new job, so he's been stressed and having to catch up on sleep, so no bding for the past two days.
I can already assure you I'm out.
We've been trying for 17 months.
We are making an appointment with a specialist next month.
I hate waiting.

 

[xCarex]

I hate when random strangers pipe in and inform me I need to wait to have children! I've been trying for over a year and every time I hear it it just makes me so mad. They don't know anything about me! I hate that my husbands cousins get pregnant with out even trying or being in a serious relationship. I hate how my husband feels inferior because we haven't conceived. How he thinks there is something wrong with him. I hate how I think there is something wrong with me. I hate how everything I'm feeling and stressing over makes it harder for me to get pregnant. Why must I stare at one lone month after month. sorry I had to say it and get it off my chest.

 

[mariemongrain]

Hi, my husband and I (both 28 years old) have been together for very soon 9 years and have been trying for a baby since July 2013, so one year exactly. We found out that his sperm count is low (10 mil) so the doctor still wants him to take another test since it can change. I am having a hsg dye test in two days to make sure everything is fine with me, even though my cycles are everywhere, from 29 to 41 days. This morning, I read the post on Facebook and what do I not see, my cousin who got married last week, who has been with her new husband for 2 year (on and off), is pregnant. She even wrote to a friend's question that she stopped the pill two weeks ago. OMG! Like really!?! You had to write that. Especially that you know people on your Facebook have been trying for a year. I was so sad. Yes I am happy for her but I am getting tired of being happy and smiling for everyone else. I am 28 years old, in a very stable relationship, and I can't have one. So Facebook makes me mad once a week for other baby postings.

 

[schultzie18]

Hi, my husband and I (both 28 years old) have been together for very soon 9 years and have been trying for a baby since July 2013, so one year exactly. We found out that his sperm count is low (10 mil) so the doctor still wants him to take another test since it can change. I am having a hsg dye test in two days to make sure everything is fine with me, even though my cycles are everywhere, from 29 to 41 days. This morning, I read the post on Facebook and what do I not see, my cousin who got married last week, who has been with her new husband for 2 year (on and off), is pregnant. She even wrote to a friend's question that she stopped the pill two weeks ago. OMG! Like really!?! You had to write that. Especially that you know people on your Facebook have been trying for a year. I was so sad. Yes I am happy for her but I am getting tired of being happy and smiling for everyone else. I am 28 years old, in a very stable relationship, and I can't have one. So Facebook makes me mad once a week for other baby postings.

I know how you feel! I just found out this week my cousin and his wife are having a baby and it was a surprise! I found out on facebook!

 

[ErinHopeful]

with your 3 months of clomid .. did you O each time? Did your dose change? .. I'm on my 3rd round and still no + O ... ugh!!!

 

[megariri]

2 years of trying to concieve, while watching everyone around me have there own and not plan them. I've been diagnosed with endometriosis when I was 18. And the Dr. Says there isn't anything stopping mw, but I just can't seem to even concieve. I honestly don't think I'm even ovulating. Its just frustrating listening to people say "your next" and then someone else close to me gets pregnant.

 

[EMC00P]

AF was supposed to start today....crossing my fingers that this is our month.

 

[kristi99us]

we used follistim and fermera and after the 2nd time it took. I was 8 weeks when I lost the heart beat. Had a D&C 3 weeks ago and now I have 3 weeks to wait to try agian. I am hoping that this time it works without any medicines. Let me know if you have ever tryied it this way Thanks.