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[swimmyj1]

I got a very slightly BPF I'm thinking it might be an evap line though still 5 days away. It would be wonderful to have a honeymoon baby. This first time I got pregnant we were on vacation, but that one must not have stuck for a reason.

What kind of opk are you using?

 

[willowtree24]

Yes I think so swimmyj ! Bet your looking forward to it !! What an exiting time for you ! I might be too early it's so hard not to get upset with thw bfns ...yet we still test haha. Smyleegrl I know I love as I find it a really jolly and cheerful time why not finish the year with a baby to add to the family. I have around 29- 31 day cycles. Been having a few cramps actually wonder what that means as I should be ovulating for over a week away yet. Baby dust to all you lovelies !!

I get mild cramps when I ovulate, that's how I know for sure the egg has arrived hehe maybe you are getting ovulation cramps!

It can't be I'm not due to ovulate till April 9th haha I'll take an ovulation stick see what it tells me .

 

[Ella10]

So exciting about your wedding details. Honeymoon baby would be so fun. Then you can enjoy yourself on the cruise as well with a few celebratory drinks

When did everyone start using opk? This is cycle 2 of trying. We are not using opk yet. I just started temping Monday morning haha

 

[smyleegrl324]

Swimming I use a clear blue....only bc ,you neighbor didn't need it anymore and gave the rest to me...but I bought some off amazon...called wondfo....so cheap a little difficult to read aometime..much prefer the smiley face or no smiley face but this way I can test more..haha

I love amazon got all my vitamins odd there too hehe

 

[swimmyj1]

We've been "trying" more like not being careful for a year. I used opk's a few months ago and never got a positive. Started again this month and finally got a positive. Ella is temping hard? i haven't really ever looked into it, it just seemed like a lot of work especially with my weird sleep pattern.

smyleegrl324 yeah i used some cheap ones off amazon they are hard to read. If I don't start in a week I'll pick up some digital ones. If shes going to show up I hope she does sooner rather than later

 

[smyleegrl324]

Yea I get that way too..if she's going to show her ugly face then just get it over with so u can b closer to ovulation day again lol


I temp.. my husband gets ho up at 245 and I was temping when I work up but they were so in consistent..so now in temp when he gets up and set an alarm for the weekend..I can say is Been helpful..I know when the bitch is coming..when the egg is coming. ..it's so easy especially with fertility friend. ..

 

[Ella10]

I just starting temping. Seems easy, however I'm not sure if I'll find reading the chart easy haha. However they do say you need to test at the same time every day before moving or getting out of bed. Not sure I'll enjoy the 630 am wake up on the weekends haha

 

[swimmyj1]

Yeah i don't think I could do temping. I work 12 hour night shifts 3-4 days a week so on work days I'm getting up at 5pm and on my days off i'm getting up at noon lol. Need some more advise

My breasts are usually really tender a week or more before AF arrives this time nothing. they were a sore for a day and now nothing. Has anyone ever had this before? Google has just been giving me way too much false hope

 

[smyleegrl324]

I do not get sore boobs just sore nipple hash sorry tmi, but I can't help you there. That stinks about your having to work shifts, not sure I cld do that.
Yes Google can be the devil lol I learned to stay off of it after last month, I was going to lose it haha I thought I had every symptom lol this time during the awful tww I am going to just try and keep busy, I love to read and have been reading a decent servers and now looking for a new series to keep me busy. If any of you ladies have suggestions I am open hehe I also have taken up crocheting, yes I know I am an old lady haha but I have done some really ute things for all the girls around me who are preggers lol

I agree the chart is very hard to read I bought the membership and it does a lot of the interpreting for me lol I agree 6 a.m wake up on weekends a rest fun. I do 2:45 lol so that sums even more but I get to go back to sleep if I did 6im sure I'd be up for the day lol my husband doesn't he even hear the thermometer beep anymore haha its is pretty quite tho
I am really starting to think I ovulated yesterday, was hoping it would be today so we had one more day of bd in since we did not bd on Monday ..hoping we get it this month but not feeling so sure, I was more sure last month and we see that didn't work..

Wishing all of us the best of luck, happy April fools day to everyone and what a fools it's made me so far haha truly the joke is onme today

 

[Jsjskanamks]

Hello Ladies after reading through your thread I was wondering if I could join?! this is our 8th month ttc #1 and af just got me yesterday I really thought I was going to get my bfp. I use CBFM, am trying to start temping again (I am horrible at forgetting) and try hard not to but symptom spot like crazy oh and I pretty much poas daily! This whole ttc journey has been a little hard for me. How do people just try to relax and forget about it Hoping I can join you guys!

 

[smyleegrl324]

Welcome jsjsk ..yes the tww is terrible, sorry that the witch got ya! She's the Devil!

 

[Jsjskanamks]

Thank you! Yes it is any now back to square 1. Thankfully I have a new dr who is going to be doing a test after bding in the morning during ovulation anyone every hear of this? I guess its a way to test sperm, fertile cm, dr said we will look at everything under a microscope, seems pretty cool actually!

 

[smyleegrl324]

Thank you! Yes it is any now back to square 1. Thankfully I have a new dr who is going to be doing a test after bding in the morning during ovulation anyone every hear of this? I guess its a way to test sperm, fertile cm, dr said we will look at everything under a microscope, seems pretty cool actually!

That sounds awesome, I hope my dr will do that if need but hoping it doesn't come to that.

 

[swimmyj1]

welcome Jsjskanamks! That is wonderful that your doctor is doing that I wish mine would! AF got me this morning early Happy April fools to me lol sense I defiantly have been acting like one this month. I called my doctor and got an appointment before my wedding. I'm going to pretty much beg for clomid. I figure honeymoon, clomid and ovulating is a pretty good combination. I'm going to take opk's with me on the trip.

Here's to hoping April is our month!

 

[willowtree24]

Sorry the witch got you swimmyj !! Big hugs. ! We need some bfps in this group !! I'm waiting g to ovulate atm. Welcome and hello jskjs! !! How's everyone feeling.? I'm feeling hopeful and positive for this month

 

[smyleegrl324]

Swimmyj that sux, but I'm a romantic so I like the idea of a honeymoon baby hehe sending tons of positive thoughts ur way!
Willowtree I agree we Def need some bfps! I wish I cld say I was feeling positive about this month but I don't think we bd 'd enough... but last month we did a lot more and that didn't work either lol I have no clue this game of chance isn't fun but so tha no f ul I have you ladies who totally understand!
Waiting for my cross hairs on FF but pretty sure yesterday was the day.. tww here I come

 

[Jsjskanamks]

Thank you for all the welcomes It's so nice to have people who understand and are going through it. Swimmyj so sorry the witch got you its so hard, I was shocked when my doctor said he will do it, I guess I just have to bd in the morning during my fertile window and come in and he says it gives a starting point to see if either my fiance of I need a specialist or medicine or anything. I'm glad because honestly I dont know how he would feel about getting checked out himself (he knows about my appointment and thinks its a great idea) I think he's worried it may be his fault because he had some crazy teenage years. I was shocked when my dr suggested it, a very happy shocked! When is your wedding?

smyleegrl324 Thats so hard worrying you didnt bd enough but one of those times could have been the perfect time! I find the tww to be the worst do you do anything to get through it? I can't help but test like every single day haha


I'm trying to stay positive for this month. Fiances work is stressing him out, and we are looking at a house to buy, and trying to save for the wedding so stress definitely isn't on our side right now. and Last month for the first time fiance started to feel pressure during my high days I think he's getting nervous with each month that passes but promises this month he is doing even more then usual (stopping pop, and taking cold baths instead of warm, wearing a mask at work) Sorry for the rambling!
Really hoping this is all of our months ladies! I want to see BFP!!

 

[Ella10]

Welcome jsjskanamks. This is a great spot to share your thoughts/worries/symptoms etc.
There is so much stress on the female. My hubby wants a baby so bad. He gets googly eyed around babies. It's cute. But just keeps saying well if it doesn't work we do it again next month. He doesn't feel every symptom and worry I feel. However, he jut admitted he's been researching as well. Which is cute. I guess we really have no idea what the other is worrying. His is in,y month 2 for us. I can imagine the pain you feel when the witch arrived this month. Maybe it's your body's way of saying it wasn't ready. With finances and new house and wedding. That's a lot of stress. I can imagine it would be difficult with a baby. But so very exciting all at the same time!

 

[Jsjskanamks]

Thank you! And yes it was a tough month! Thats cute your hubby gets that way. my oh says how much he wants a baby but I dont think he started really worrying about trying until this month. Hes always been supportive but hes being more proactive now, Its a great feeling when they look things up isnt? My fiance tells me things Ive known for months (and told him) but since hes enlightening himself (and he thinks me) I go along with it. I guess I know that it would be a lot but I know we would make it work but you are right, it was my body saying its not time yet, Hopefully that time is soon. My fiance says with my luck ill get pregnant exactly 9 months before the wedding. (which with my luck it really will happen) and I wont even care!

 

[Ella10]

We got married last August. When is your wedding