TTC #1 Hopeful and Obsessed! lol

[puma1986]

The wait for 10 weeks would be pretty nerve wracking Bella! How far along are you now? I will keep my fingers crossed that it all goes smoothly for you

I'm 8 dpo so should be finding out shortly if its a BFP or a BFN. I'm feeling surprisingly neutral this month. I expect AF will show because thats what always happens. But maybe I'll be pleasantly surprised

You're in the best part of the cycle! You get get a BFP any day now and it's totally easy to be hopeful! I haven't O'd yet. I don't think, anyways. Not having a ton of EWCM this month, oddly. Not much of a libido either.

Fingers crossed! I hope this is your month!

 

[Bella12]

Belle I'm 7 weeks 3 days. My most recent MC was at 11 weeks. I thought the Internet wasn't my friend while ttc. I don't think the Internet will ever be my friend.

I felt pretty neutral b4 I found out too. I didn't think I dtd on the right days. We weren't as active as I would have liked. I'm hoping you will be pleasantly surprised!

 

[BelleNuit]

Puma! Looks like you have the BD marathon well underway! I tried evening primrose oil (gel capsules) this month leading up to O, and I found it definitely helped with the amount of ewcm! I bet you're due to O any day now!!

Bella, it's good to hear that you felt pretty neutral before your bfp and even though you didnt have perfect timing it still seemed to work out! That just goes to show that TTC is a total crap shoot haha. You just never know!!

 

[puma1986]

Puma! Looks like you have the BD marathon well underway! I tried evening primrose oil (gel capsules) this month leading up to O, and I found it definitely helped with the amount of ewcm! I bet you're due to O any day now!!

Bella, it's good to hear that you felt pretty neutral before your bfp and even though you didnt have perfect timing it still seemed to work out! That just goes to show that TTC is a total crap shoot haha. You just never know!!

6 times in 5 days!!!! Just one more and I think I'll match your marathon last month! Wahoooo!!! I'll look into evening primeose! Thanks dear! Your chart is climbing beautifully!

 

[puma1986]

Puma! Looks like you have the BD marathon well underway! I tried evening primrose oil (gel capsules) this month leading up to O, and I found it definitely helped with the amount of ewcm! I bet you're due to O any day now!!

Bella, it's good to hear that you felt pretty neutral before your bfp and even though you didnt have perfect timing it still seemed to work out! That just goes to show that TTC is a total crap shoot haha. You just never know!!

6 times in 5 days!!!! Just one more and I think I'll match your marathon last month! Wahoooo!!! I'll look into evening primeose! Thanks dear! Your chart is climbing beautifully!

My Chart matches my emotional state this month! Rocky and all over the place lol!

 

[BelleNuit]

Puma that is how I've felt this entire tww! If anything I'll be happy either way if AF shows or not.... just to be out of this tww lol.

Wahoo!! 6 times in 5 days!!! You've been busy!! Your chart is still showing a nice dipping pattern overall which is good!

 

[Bella12]

Wow! 6xs in 5 days! You deserve a medal. Crossing my fingers!

Belle, I'm glad you are in good spirits. I'm waiting to see that bfp. Which egg will help create your future baby.

 

[BabyC4Me]

IDK HOW yall ladies pulled off those BD marathons!!!!! SO LUCKY!!! but sounds exhausting!

I havent had sex since July 3rd!!!!! Hubbie is paranoid about hitting the baby and killing it....hes so crazy!!!! im going to tackle him soon...he has no idea

but...this is madness!

 

[BelleNuit]

LOL BabyC that fear sounds pretty universal for most men.... and just speaks to their vanity! haha, Just tell him "yes dear, its SO BIG it could kill the baby "

 

[BabyC4Me]

LOL BabyC that fear sounds pretty universal for most men.... and just speaks to their vanity! haha, Just tell him "yes dear, its SO BIG it could kill the baby "

HAHAHAAHAHAH!

Forreal. Like. Get over yourself and your "massive manhood "!!!! Gotta love em !

 

[BelleNuit]

Temp dropped this morning. I think cycle 9 is a bust and it's just a matter of time from here for AF to show.

FML. I feel like we will never get pregnant.

 

[Bella12]

IDK HOW yall ladies pulled off those BD marathons!!!!! SO LUCKY!!! but sounds exhausting!

I havent had sex since July 3rd!!!!! Hubbie is paranoid about hitting the baby and killing it....hes so crazy!!!! im going to tackle him soon...he has no idea

but...this is madness!

I'm kinda with your hubby. Lol. I've had miscarriages in the past the day after sex. Doctor told me that most likely there is no connection bUT why risk it.

 

[Bella12]

Temp dropped this morning. I think cycle 9 is a bust and it's just a matter of time from here for AF to show.

FML. I feel like we will never get pregnant.

I'm sorry to hear your feeling down today. I didn't pay attention to my temps when I was trying to conceive so I don't know how that plays in but try to keep hope alive until AF shows.

My obgym told me there are 3 types of pregnancy tyes out there. A) people that get pregnant no problems
B) the people that it takes 12 + to get pregnant
C) the people that tend to miscarry

She said people that take a long time to conceive are less likely to miscarry. Really praying your time comes soon. Let me know if there is anything I can do for you.

 

[BelleNuit]

Thank you Bella, I should probably do the same and just ignore my temps! The last few days before AF shows are always the hardest!

I guess I must be a category B person lol.

My PMS is pretty bad this cycle. Sore bbs that just ache along the sides, and severe nausea today. Ugh. If I'm not going to get a bfp I wish my pms symptoms would kindly screw off lol

 

[Bella12]

I'm a category c person. Usually miscarry 9 to 12 weeks. That stinks. I've made it to 7 weeks.

I believe pms syptoms are signs of a functioning reproductive system. So early pregnancy or pms, I'd take feeling yucky as a good sign. Lol.

Feeling nausea was my 1st pregnancy sign. When is AF officially due?

Will you try anything different next cycle?

 

[BelleNuit]

AF is due on Thursday.

I'm not sure what I'll try differently the next cycle. Maybe try to improve diet even further, I might look into myo-insitol. Although I don't know what effect that would have on someone who doesn't have pcos. Might add vitamin E and co-enzyzme q10 to the mix.

I've already quit coffee & alcohol, DH quit weed. Already taking maca, evening primrose oil up until O and a whole host of other vitamins. Have DH on zinc, maca and other vitamins. We've tried pre-seed doesn't seem to do anything.

I might go back to trying opks again



I'm sorry that you are a category C person. I am really hoping that this one will be sticky for you. It's so hard, to finally get that bfp and then to be afraid to get too excited afterwards. TTC is hellish

I've never considered pms to be a good sign. I always thought it meant that hormones were unbalanced. Maybe thats not the case and its more normal than I thought. I dunno. I'm tried of feeling like crap though

 

[Bella12]

Thursday. ...you have plenty of time to get a bfp. Don't give up yet.

I just read up on myo-insitol and it doesn't sound like it could hurt. Have you asked your obgyn for any suggestions?

 

[Bella12]

Thursday. ...you have plenty of time to get a bfp. Don't give up yet.

I just read up on myo-insitol and it doesn't sound like it could hurt. Have you asked your obgyn for any suggestions?

 

[BelleNuit]

I went to the doc to get CD 3 blood tests done and they came back normal also had thyroid, and a pap done which were normal. The only thing slightly abnormal in my tests were platelets which were borderline low. I'm not sure if that would affect anything. He said to wait till around the one year mark and go back.

I guess I'm just one of those people who got unlucky cycle after cycle. I'm still holding out that the lifestyle changes will eventually help. It takes awhile for new healthy swimmers and eggs to be created.

Ya, myo-insitol doesn't seem like it would hurt anything. Its supposed to have a similar effect on the body as metformin. I may give it a try if this cycle is a bust. I know I still have a few days till I get a bfp or AF shows and to be fair I haven't tested (terrified to test). Maybe today was an "implantation dip" but I don't really believe those exist lol.

Just been keeping myself occupied today. Cleaned house, and going to go for a walk this afternoon. I joined pokemon go and its actually been getting me outside and moving around a lot more haha

 

[Bella12]

I'm embarrassed to admit that my hubby and I downloaded Pokémon Go earlier this week. I wanted to see what all the fuss was about. Plus I've been so sick.(Hopefully that's a good sign baby is going to stick). I figured anything that motivates me to leave house is a good thing.

Let me know what you think.