Bby, if you expected AF on may 3rd, and you're confident of that date (give or take a couple of days even) and she hasn't arrived, I'd be testing now!!! lol. You're way over due for AF if she's this late aren't you?? Even if it's a BFN you at least can know what's happening a little more (either your dates are wrong and it's too early still, or you're not preg!) but if it's a BFP.... oohhh!!!! Good luck and baby dust to you!!!
Sm I'm sooo sorry I missed your post too hun!! Ohhh I love hot tubs too! It's coming into winter here too so I LOVE a long hot bath (ok, not too hot now!) to warm myself up in the evening before bed... mmm!! When I'm further along and it's safer (though I think it's pretty much ok now) I'll make use of mum's hot tub when we go up there I think, especially when I get big and heavy, will be nice to have the weight held up I think! LOL!
AFM, I'm just sitting around waiting really. Ok, not sitting around, I'm working my ass off to get some money into the business so it can maintain itself when I have to cut back right at the end! I've found someone to hire now (at last!) so she'll be starting next week, will train her up so she can start taking some workload off me as I get bigger, but hopefully will still keep enough money coming in to cover everything... we'll see I guess! I can't feel any baby movement yet, but loads of other women don't start feeling it properly until 20 weeks anyway, and because I'm a bigger build (ie rather overweight!) it is common for it to take longer to feel the movements too... I have my next scan in 11 days though, and I'm super excited about it!!! NOT finding out the gender though!!!
love and hugs to everyone, and heaps of babydust and crossed fingers!!!!!! GOOD LUCK!