we actually started trying in dec of 2012 but not OFFICIALLY where we were telling anyone or getting into opks and so forth. So it's almost been a year. however, i started getting really really sick after ovulation each month, and the WORST this time. and as soon as i decided no more? all the pain and discomfort vanished. i think i was doing all this more for giving dh another kid instead of because I wanted another kid. i feel so relieved and happy that he's fine with just one, because i don't want anymore.
so yes, we are stopping ttc. but we're young enough. if we decide down the road we want another? we can try then. but for now, i'm absolutely thrilled. i think God has other plans.