No idea about the adoption recommendation! Sorry
Really sympathise with the migraine, I had one Saturday and took til today for me to feel better, I have a headache today but I think its more to do with the fact that I'm tired.
When you can (I know its not easy with a lo) go and have a sleep or even a lie down in a dark room, really helps.
Thanks hun, i went ahead and just laid down all day. Up now and have been packing since i have vacay when dh gets home from work but hit a snag as dd is still sleeping so can't get to her stuff. dh had polyurethaned a table, and brought it in last night, and i'm pretty sure that's what caused the issue. too strong, and i was sitting next to it. So it's in the garage now and i have windows open airing it out. been a lot better since, but still have some mild stabbing pain in my eyeball.
CKJ that's brilliant! Congratulations.
No idea on adoption recommendation. Is it like a character reference?
yeah sort of. they want to know why this couple is good to adopt. And my friend just wanted me to write about her, so i did. I did my very best so i'm really hoping it works out.
long story short,
waaaaaaaaaaaaaay back when i was trying for dd, so was this friend. I tested on a tues morning, so did she. I got a bfn. she got a bfp. She rubbbbbed it in my face that she was pregnant. She was due 2 days before me. Then 2 days later i got my bfp. We were excited, we were due days apart.
She went for an early u/s at 6 weeks. Twins.
She went again at 10 weeks. no heartbeats. U/s showed she had lost one at like 7 weeks and the other at 9. She had to have a D&C. hasn't been able to get pregnant since. trying everything. nothing works.
So, she's decided on adoption. She also would make an awesome mommy. She still sends my girl gifts for her birthday, and she also curls up and cries on the day she found out she lost both and the day they were due. That was 2011 that she lost both- it was like jan.
so i'm doing what i can to help her get that baby.