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[elt1013]

I can't imagine losing a child...nothing more heartbreaking. Hopefully you will be able to be there for support because I am sure they will need as much as they can get.

I am thinking about testing tmrw but trying to also talk myself out of it because it will probably be a waste of a test at only 8dpo, but atleast it is only a 88 cent one. According to my past charts, my temp should take a nose dive about 10dpo, so we'll see.

 

[runnergrl]

Hann- I am so upset and sad to hear about your friend losing her baby..A miscarriage is hard enough, but to lose a child once its been born and living..I cant even fathom. makes a BFN seem so petty. I pray you can be somewhat of a source of comfort to your friend.. I dont know what else to say..

Elt- I know its so much easier said than done but try not to test tomorrow if you can hold out! I read recently that the MOST COMMON day to implant is 9DPO, and HCG doesnt show up for 2-3 days after implantation! I think I implanted yesterday, so Im waiting till Saturday to test because then I will know for sure.. good luck with whatever you decide to do!

 

[elt1013]

Thanks runnergrl...I am going to try to hold out until Saturday. A few weird sharp pains in my tummy today and very slight cramping, so maybe? Probably nothing, but it is just too hard to not symptom spot!

 

[runnergrl]

sharp pains that dont last long= implantation!!! test in 3 days!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Hann12]

Thanks for all your kind words about my friend, very very sad

But excited for all the testing over the weekend! It's sounding very promising - especially for you runnergrl if you think you implanted yesterday! Did you have an IB? I implanted at 8/9dpo and got a positive at 10dpo

 

[elt1013]

My temp may be doing a slow decline like the slow rise it did after o. I hope it goes back up tmrw, but I don't have a very good feeling about it.

 

[runnergrl]

I'm either 11 or 12 dpo today. So I implanted at 9 or 10 dpo. I say that because I got two days of positive OPK's so not sure if I O'ed that second day or the next morning. If it was 48 hrs after my first positive, I am 11 dpo today. Temp was 98.34 this morning. Testing tomorrow and ill know for sure

 

[IsaacRalph]

I'm either 11 or 12 dpo today. So I implanted at 9 or 10 dpo. I say that because I got two days of positive OPK's so not sure if I O'ed that second day or the next morning. If it was 48 hrs after my first positive, I am 11 dpo today. Temp was 98.34 this morning. Testing tomorrow and ill know for sure

I take it you have some very promising signs & symptoms then to be so sure, you felt implantation last time didn't you? Wishing you all the luck for tomorrows testing! I only felt implantation with ds I think around 7dpo & got faint line on 9dpo & bfp on 10dpo! My chart is triphasic but i'm not too sure if I Feel anything yet so not too hopeful at the moment!

 

[runnergrl]

I'm either 11 or 12 dpo today. So I implanted at 9 or 10 dpo. I say that because I got two days of positive OPK's so not sure if I O'ed that second day or the next morning. If it was 48 hrs after my first positive, I am 11 dpo today. Temp was 98.34 this morning. Testing tomorrow and ill know for sure

I take it you have some very promising signs & symptoms then to be so sure, you felt implantation last time didn't you? Wishing you all the luck for tomorrows testing! I only felt implantation with ds I think around 7dpo & got faint line on 9dpo & bfp on 10dpo! My chart is triphasic but i'm not too sure if I Feel anything yet so not too hopeful at the moment!

yes I am having symptoms, but Im sure they are from the progesterone more than anything else. I did feel implantation with Ella, and got a positive two days later. Im actually scared to test tomorrow.. Terrified really. because If its not positive, I will be soooooooo sad!

Good luck to you..do you have a link to your chart?

 

[IsaacRalph]

Aww runnergrl try not to be scared! I complety know how you Feel & I know you want nothing more right now, but & a big BUT don't get yourself down if its not your bfp month! I really hope it is for you so i'll keep my fx'd!
Afm- my charts always look good at this stage & then they take a nose dive at about 14dpo I have a long 16 day LP! Thinking along the lines of being out this month & just had a chat to dh about taking a more relaxed approach in the future. I have also decided not to count the months ttc & not to fret if it doesn't fit into average stats! We will get our bfp when the time is right x

 

[elt1013]

to us all!!! Good luck tmrw runnergrl!

 

[MamaMac123]

Hann - that is so sad about your friends baby breaks my heart. Prayers for her and her family.

Runnergrl Elt and Isaac - excited for you guys to test!!!!

Afm - my temp went up today but I've read clomid can do that on the days you're taking it. Will probably end up with false crosshairs this weekend haha But other than that no real side effects to that's good

 

[runnergrl]

I broke down and tested tonight and not good news. I think I'm gonna take a break from Bnb for a while. Ill check in with you girls, but it's just too hard right now when I can't join in the excitement of getting a BFP and dealing with my loss. I honestly wish you all the best of luck and I hope you are pregnant Elt and isaacralph!!! Please pray for me. My loss was so hard on me. I was really sure I was pregnant so I am taking this pretty hard.

 

[Hann12]

Runnergrl I'm so sad that you feel like this, you might be fine for this month, you think you implanted yesterday so you may not get a bfp until tomorrow, plus you didn't test with fmu. Remember mummyclo a couple of weeks ago thiught she was out then got her bfp!
However I totally understand that you are really not in a happy place with it all right now though, we will be here for you when you need us again and I just hope that you are okay, big big

 

[runnergrl]

I thought I implanted two days ago so should have been pos by tonight for sure. Ill be sure to let you know if I don't get AF in like a week but I'm confident my test would have been positive by now. I am 11 or 12 dpo. On all the "charts," 87% of women have positives by now. I got a BFP at 10dpo with my son and 9dpo with Ella...

 

[runnergrl]

Also, I would have been 21 weeks today with Ella. -those are real tears...

 

[IsaacRalph]

So sorry your feeling so low runnergrl, bummer about the bfn! Taking time away from here maybe the right thing for you but we are also having our personal struggles ttc & we haven't actually had one of our long running girls get a bfp since Hans! I had to cancel subscription for one thread as I think it was only me who didn't have a bfp, it made me Feel like there was something wrong! Anyways I truly do know how you Feel & i'm sure you getting lots of comfort from your little Brady he is lovely! if its not your bfp month also try & find the positive sides to it Like at least you'll get a proper AF since your d&c! I know I sound a little patronizing but i'm only trying to make you Feel more positive about things & we are all here to support you!

Afm- temps slowly coming down feeling periody so think its gonna be a bfn for me! But on the positive note biopsy is all clear of nasty cells just got some inflammation which is likely to be hormonal, happy days!

 

[Hann12]

That's great that the biopsy is clear! We're you going to test tomorrow?

 

[MamaMac123]

Hey girls,

Runnergrl - I'm so sorry you're feeling so low Hun I don't know what it's like to lose a baby and hope I never have to go through that pain but I can imagine how awful it must be. Prayers are with you. Try to stay positive (easier said than done, I know) and when you need us we're here. As Isaac said, many of us are ttc struggling and we know how much the hurts. I had a tough time with mine a week ago. Was so sure I was pregnant. But it will happen for us all, I really believe that

Isaac - sorry to hear you're feeling the on her way but glad the acupuncture has helped your pms! That is very good!

Hann - how are you feeling? How's the bean? Any news yet about your mom helping out so you can attend the funeral still so sad about that.

Elt - any news from you babe??? Have you tested?

Afm - same old same old really. Temp still up a bit today most likely from the clomid. My doc had recommended not temping as in her words "it'll make you crazy" haha but I can't stop. I need the confirmation when I ov. But I suspect I may get crosshairs tomorrow lol hopefully if so they'll go away after my 5 days of higher temps. Bought a bunch more ov tests yesterday and AF is through so has resumed Thinking I'm going to try to stick to SMEP this cycle. We'll see if I ov before we're all sexed out. Really hoping the clomid makes me ov on a normal cycle. If so I should have a positive opk by next weekend. Fx!!!

 

[elt1013]

I am so sorry about the terrible time you have been having runnergrl. I know nothing I can say will make the pain and hurt go away for you. Hang in there and try to get through it day by day.

Isaac- woohoo for a clean colp. and I remember the vinegar and iodine leaking for days...not fun!

Mama- hopefully you will get a more normal cycle this time. Fx for you!

Hann- I hope the sickness has gone away for you so you can really start enjoying the pregnancy!

afm- started spotting today...just when I wipe but I have been somewhat crampy today, so AF will probably be here by tmrw. I am only 9dpo, so she decided to come early I guess and save me a wasted test!