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[IsaacRalph]

Okay do now I'm confused, I think I ov'd a week ago, although don't temp chart so not totally sure but had very definite ov pains and some EWCM plus I had some lines 2 days running on the opk and nothing since, I assumed I missed the surge. Anyway just been to the toilet and had some more EWCM, not lots of it but enough to notice. Obviously Willard tonight just in case I am now ov'ing but opk is negative. Has anyone had this? Could it be EWCM after ovulation and if it is why??

Yes hun this can sometimes happen about a week after ovulation as there is a second surge of estrogen, causing the ewcm,some women have it, some don't! I get this at about 9 dpo and only hangs around for a day or so! If I were you I'd carry on bding just in case, good luck!

 

[Hann12]

Thanks so much, hopefully that's it! I have no idea what's going on otherwise. I'm definitely charting next month, its got to be the only way of properly knowing. So annoying as I should have done that this month and now i've probably wasted a long cycle not charting! Ah well I learn....

Hope everyone else is okay?

 

[mimismom]

Took a first response and it was a bfn. Blah aunt flow due.tomorow lets see how this goes

 

[sla545]

Took a first response and it was a bfn. Blah aunt flow due.tomorow lets see how this goes

Sorry BFN's suck.

 

[MamaMac123]

I have a question for all of you that's pretty tmi and personal but...

Does anyone else experience pain during sex, especially when their man goes really deep? I've been noticing it a lot lately and I'm not sure how normal it is. It happens a lot when I'm on top or when we're just starting. Could it just be pain from him hitting my cervix?

That's what I would think it is. I get some mild abdomen pain sometimes in same situation (just starting or when he goes deeper than normal due to the position) it's basically like a mild menstral cramp but doesn't last too long. Since I've recently started charting my cervix position I've noticed I sometimes get the same mild cramp after I touch my cervix to check it. Anyway, long story short...yes I would think if it's a similar pain to what I feel then it's probably just from him hitting your cervix. Maybe try for a bit more foreplay before you get going as your cervix gets higher up as you get more aroused

 

[MamaMac123]

Hey girls, hope everyone had a good weekend. Minismom sorry about the but it's still early so you never know. Remember Holly tested and got a big negative and was so sad and next day got her positive! Chin up girl, you're not out yet!

Looking at all your charts I'm so jealous of all the temp rises haha mine just keeps hanging out in the low numbers. Oh how I long to see a big upswing in those temps!

So I've had something real odd the last few days. All spotting has stopped several days ago but the last 2 nights I've had noticeably stronger sex drive and really wet cm. Today I checked my cervix and it was really low and open but there was a ton of Ewcm. Way more than I've ever noticed since charting and stopping bc. Im sort kf wondering if all the spotting was technicslly my AF and just real light because of recently stopping bc. But I've read that if i'm ovulating my cervix should be high not low. Why would I have so much Ewcm but a low cervix. Any ideas or experience? I've only charted this one cycle so I have nothing to compare to and feel pretty lost.

 

[mimismom]

Thanks mamaMac! Wish I could help but I dont cm or cp. Well not yet.

 

[IsaacRalph]

Took a first response and it was a bfn. Blah aunt flow due.tomorow lets see how this goes

Sorry about your bfn hun! Big hugs x

 

[Hann12]

Mimismom I'm sorry about the BFN too, I'm sure that will be me next week, rubbish! Are you going to do anything different next cycle? I'm going to start charting.

Mamamac - I'm sorry I can't help either but hopefully someone can on here, if not try asking someone on TTC thread. Someone must be able to help!

I got no sleep last night, my daughter was up for 4 hours wanting to play. Exhausting! I don't know how I'll cope when I have to go back to work!!

 

[marieb]

Got my crosshairs this morning

Thanks to everyone who answered my question. I think part of the problem is that unfortunately sex has become a bit of a chore due to TTC. We try to keep it fun and everything but it's difficult as the months go on and on.

 

[marieb]

Minismom- Sorry about the BFN. I hope next month is the one

Mamamac- I have no idea sorry! I hope this is you Oing and you gets your BFP in a couple of weeks

Hann12- I feel you! My DS only started sleeping through the night a few months. I think the thing I'm most worried about with having another is how I'm going to manage the sleep deprivation with a toddler and newborn!

 

[MamaMac123]

Got my crosshairs this morning

Thanks to everyone who answered my question. I think part of the problem is that unfortunately sex has become a bit of a chore due to TTC. We try to keep it fun and everything but it's difficult as the months go on and on.

Woohoo!!! fx this is your cycle!!!!

 

[MamaMac123]

Morning girls....so today my Ewcm is gone and my cervix changed to a medium and more closed position. So confused haha

But good news, I went and had my blood work done this morning. They're checking my thyroid and also did a blood pregnancy test just to be sure (but pretty sure it'll be so not holding my breath on that) really hoping to get some answers.....should know in a few days

How was everyone's weekend? Any more testing going on?

 

[Hann12]

Mamamac I hope you get some answers from the tests and they are all good!

I don't normally check CP but just did and mine is high. Not sure repen/closed as could barely feel it. Shouldn't get my hopes up though!!

 

[HollySSmith]

Hi ladies! I'm sorry to hear about the , I hope they turn positive for you.

Please say a little prayer tonight for home town of Elliot Lake, Ontario. The had a portion of the mall collapsed on Saturday afternoon injuring many people, and still four are missing (one confirmed deceased). The rescue efforts have only begun today as the building was so unstable (40+ hours since the collapse) but we hope and pray that they will find survivors. I lived there until I was 16, and spent many hours in that mall. I'm utterly heartbroken

 

[runnergrl]

Holly- thats awful. I saw that on your facebook. praying...

Marieb-your chart looks fantastic... this is totally your month! we are gonna be bump buddies!!

I have 4 days till I start using OPK's, 6 days till we start BD'ing with a purpose, and 8 days till O! Im pretty excited!

 

[IsaacRalph]

Hi ladies! I'm sorry to hear about the , I hope they turn positive for you.

Please say a little prayer tonight for home town of Elliot Lake, Ontario. The had a portion of the mall collapsed on Saturday afternoon injuring many people, and still four are missing (one confirmed deceased). The rescue efforts have only begun today as the building was so unstable (40+ hours since the collapse) but we hope and pray that they will find survivors. I lived there until I was 16, and spent many hours in that mall. I'm utterly heartbroken

oh that's awful! Thoughts and prayers to all Involved x

 

[IsaacRalph]

Well ladies its CD9 for me and i'm starting to Feel more fertile usually starts about now, when I get dull aches from both ovaries, i'm assuming its from the stretching from developing follies. I have (tmi) had my first ewcm, quite a lot actually! Funny I'm just wondering if the expectorant cough medicine i'm taking is helping it a long a bit, well I've still got a cough & cold so i'm gonna just keep on taking it! I've read that cough medicine can help produce more ewcm. Any how I start testing with opks tomorrow and bding has commenced! Fx for a baby due on our first wedding anniversary, that would be magical!

 

[runnergrl]

that would be awesome! I should be finding out if we are pregnant right before our anniversary (our 3rd) and I will tell the OH on that day..(july 18th) if i can keep it a secret if I test before then!

 

[MamaMac123]

Hi ladies! I'm sorry to hear about the , I hope they turn positive for you.

Please say a little prayer tonight for home town of Elliot Lake, Ontario. The had a portion of the mall collapsed on Saturday afternoon injuring many people, and still four are missing (one confirmed deceased). The rescue efforts have only begun today as the building was so unstable (40+ hours since the collapse) but we hope and pray that they will find survivors. I lived there until I was 16, and spent many hours in that mall. I'm utterly heartbroken

so sad prayers for those families