Buttercup_Way
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Hello,
Hoping to find a buddy to go through this next journey with me, found such support through this forum previously and this time I do feel slightly alone.
Well, I'm currently ttc my third baby, I've had 4 pregnancies in total, unfortunately 2 of which were missed miscarriages and the other 2 resulted in my beautiful baby girls.
The decision to have a third was an extremely difficult decision to make.
My husband and I underwent fertility treatment to conceive our first (MMC) and again to successfully conceive my now 2.5 yr old. Amazingly since my first born I haven't had to undergo any treatment to fall pregnant again. When I told my husband I had this void, and it meant the world to me to try again and have one more he was in a very different mind set. He was and still is a little adamant he does not want 3 girls. All he's ever wanted is a son (but please don't get me wrong, he adores our girls) but the thought of the next one being a girl is a little hard for him. With this he did not want to try again. I completely respected that and we talked in depth about the final decision and my need to have another, for him outweighed his not too so he agreed we could try. We had a MMC in January this year and he has said that if we lose another he won't want to try anymore - I can understand that as my body doesn't remove the pregnancies and each time I've had to have a D&C which has been hard for us both.
Now I am doing everything in my strength to tackle all odds and old wives tales to increase any chances of having a boy (I'm not convinced that they will work) but I'm trying!
So, my cycles are 34 days... I should be ovulating this Friday, 8th July, so I am keeping everything crossed!
Any ladies in a similar time frame or looking for a buddy id love to hear from you!
Baby dust to all! Xx
Hoping to find a buddy to go through this next journey with me, found such support through this forum previously and this time I do feel slightly alone.
Well, I'm currently ttc my third baby, I've had 4 pregnancies in total, unfortunately 2 of which were missed miscarriages and the other 2 resulted in my beautiful baby girls.
The decision to have a third was an extremely difficult decision to make.
My husband and I underwent fertility treatment to conceive our first (MMC) and again to successfully conceive my now 2.5 yr old. Amazingly since my first born I haven't had to undergo any treatment to fall pregnant again. When I told my husband I had this void, and it meant the world to me to try again and have one more he was in a very different mind set. He was and still is a little adamant he does not want 3 girls. All he's ever wanted is a son (but please don't get me wrong, he adores our girls) but the thought of the next one being a girl is a little hard for him. With this he did not want to try again. I completely respected that and we talked in depth about the final decision and my need to have another, for him outweighed his not too so he agreed we could try. We had a MMC in January this year and he has said that if we lose another he won't want to try anymore - I can understand that as my body doesn't remove the pregnancies and each time I've had to have a D&C which has been hard for us both.
Now I am doing everything in my strength to tackle all odds and old wives tales to increase any chances of having a boy (I'm not convinced that they will work) but I'm trying!
So, my cycles are 34 days... I should be ovulating this Friday, 8th July, so I am keeping everything crossed!
Any ladies in a similar time frame or looking for a buddy id love to hear from you!
Baby dust to all! Xx