HI Suz - hang in there you are younger than me so def do not give up i won't either even though just turned 41. I had a m/c at 27 and so this will be first try again since then. I think it was so awful to go through I have been afraid to try, but have to move forward or I'll miss my chance at being a mom altogether I fear. I know a lot if it is mond over matter. We have to not think negatively that we are too old, or there is something wrong with us. Just think - you know what? I can do this and so can my body. I don't care what Dr's say. I know a woman that had twins at 44, another had a boy at 45, and my great grandmother had a baby in her 40's - at the same time her daughter was pregnant too - imagine! How Kool.