ttc after a d&c

[xoxo4angel]

 

[xxserendipity]

I wish there was an option to "hug" someone beside their "thanks" button!

Danni, can your Dr's maybe do blood work this early to check for BFP?

i dont think my dr would do one they arent the most helpful tbh i might ring in the mornin and see if they will x

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[lilesMom]

my doc will do any tests so long as im paying ha ha
hate when docs are unsympathetic, they dont know how nerve wracking the wait is xxx

 

[xxserendipity]

i know they dont even try and be helpful do they one little blood test isnt gonna hurt not like im asking for scans x

 

[lilesMom]

why is it not sunday already

 

[lilesMom]

my niece was due last thurs, she hasnt answered her phone all day, i think she may be gone in to have her baby she is more like my sis than my niece, we always hung around together when we were small and now

 

[mommylov]

Danni-You are not out yet! Many women don't get bfp's until after AF is due. Fx!

Natasha-Seems like you are on a good track to catch that egg! Funny how life starts to revolve around POAS! Did you find the one you misplaced the other day? Hopefully wasn't just on your desk at work! Haha!

Amy-What a thoughtful gift from her. Hopefully colleaguezilla will pack her evil twin and leave it while on vacay!

Laura-I appreciate you sharing your 1st AF experience with me. I would like to feel normal and to do so, I just need to get an idea of where I am.

Jessica-Who would have thought such specific testing could yield conflicting results. A Perinatologist should help in the future. Sorry you had to go through all of that. Will you eventually get results?

Jen-Why can't our AF and PG symptoms be complete opposites? Like AF (.)(.) become smaller and no appetitie, pg they become bigger and eat all the time...wishful thinking I suppose.

Doggie, Bethany, Horsey and anyone I've missed-

LOL Angel, I hope she does too!! Im sorry calculating CD is rough.... dang AF! I dont know if there is a blood test or anything they can do to determine that. The 1st month seems to be the hardest after a D&C... to be honest, I know af came and I know when I started and all but it still doesnt mean that everything is working like clockwork like before. So it becomes a guessing game no matter what. Grrr.. I use the "Thanks" button as a like button but I agree.. would be nice to have a hug button hheheh but atleast they have

Oh and drs... dont even get me started! I understand that they see a ton of patients and therefore its hard for them to be sympathetic to each case but then dont be a dr! If you cant provide good quality care AND remember that we are human and have feelings, then you need to change professions!

 

[TTCSecrets]

Haha ive still not found that stick!!I dread to think where its ended up :/
I am really hoping you girls can help me...

So,i am currently on CD9...
CD1-CD7 pure negative OPKS, no faint or evap lines..
CD8 i had a positive OPK at 2pm, and then a positive OPK at 8 pm..
Today i tested at 2 pm, and an unmistakeable positive, the line was alot darker than the other one ( i always forget which is test and control :/ ) But basically the one that needed to be darker was lol..
Then i tested at 8pm today and it was a negative,very faint line as opposed to the dark one i had at 2pm .. Although i held my pee in well for the 2pm one today, the 8pm was because id forgotten and had drank two cups of tea, but was literally almost no second line there.. I also decided to research on checking my cervix as i dont really have ( or probably notice ) changes in cervical mucus..
Here comes the TMI bit infortunately for you ladies

So, i tried with my middle finger, and noticed i had to put the whole finger in and just felt cervix, i read that if its hard it fels like the tip of your nose and if its soft it feel like you are feeling your lips, so mine litterally felt like i was feeling my lips, and i could kind of put the tip of my finger in the opening ( gross i know ) I also noticed ( for the first time ever ) that when i pulled out some CM from the cervix entrance, it was like a very almost see through colour with a touch of cloudiness on one bit and i could stretch it an inch between my fingers, i also noticed two minutes later i think i might have done something cos i had quite a bit of mucus come down from the cervix, oops?

SO i am wondering as google is not helpful at all.. IS it possible that the OPKS have detected a surge and i am now ready for ovulation very very soon? Or, have i already ovulated? I read that once ovulation is done the cervix goes low and hard which mine definitely isnt... Is this possible or could it be me making things of it? I really dont know what to think! We have done more than adequte BDing, but i just want to know? I am so confused, please help im stewing here!

Sorry to be all me me me, hope you are all okay, i shall try reading the last few pages now ive posted this, anxiously waiting for a reply lol! xxx

 

[xxserendipity]

im afraid i know nothing about cm im afraid hun sorry, but just wanted to let everyone know im feeling little better now ive done some googling and most sites say that the earliest u can get a bfp is 10 days after ovulation but that its quite rare and should wait till 14 days after and i wont have ovulated until friday (thursday was my opk) so its only 11 days after ovulation now and it can take up to 8/9 days to implant and 2 days after that for the hormones to be high enough for a bfp so got a little of my hope back gonna take the other test sunday i think just to be 100% sure and gonna ring the dr tomorrow and ask for a blood test but prob wont get the results till next week and should know by then i hope but at least if i dont know i'll know that everything is normal iykwim xx

 

[TTCSecrets]

im afraid i know nothing about cm im afraid hun sorry, but just wanted to let everyone know im feeling little better now ive done some googling and most sites say that the earliest u can get a bfp is 10 days after ovulation but that its quite rare and should wait till 14 days after and i wont have ovulated until friday (thursday was my opk) so its only 11 days after ovulation now and it can take up to 8/9 days to implant and 2 days after that for the hormones to be high enough for a bfp so got a little of my hope back gonna take the other test sunday i think just to be 100% sure and gonna ring the dr tomorrow and ask for a blood test but prob wont get the results till next week and should know by then i hope but at least if i dont know i'll know that everything is normal iykwim xx

I really am keeping my fingers crossed for BFP babe!!! I really amm!!!!! Glad you are feeling okay, its horrible testing too early, cos curiosity really does kill the cat, gets really disheartening when you test to early and get BFN... I hope you get your BFP this week..

I agree though doctors arent the most helpful, they wouldnt even give me post DnC blood tests to monitor it they said to just wait :/
xxx

 

[jen435]

Natasha your cervix changes position throughout the day. You should check it at same time everyday for accuracy. Bd daily after positive opk as ovulation can occur as surge happens uptil 12-36 hrs after positive. Your info is correct and its very common to have cm up there as it needs to be wet for swimmers to stay alive and get into fallopian tubes. Here is a chart my ob gave me on cervical positions but like i said it changes throughout day and only think to confirm ovulation is by taking your bbt at same time every morning and having three consistant temp rises.

Pms low hard open
After low hard closed
Approach rise soft moist
Ovulation high soft open wet
After low firm closed
Pregnant rise soft closed

now everyones different and this is just a reference it takes a good two monthes to really know your body but its a great start. Just dont drive yourself crazy

 

[jen435]

If your 100% sure you had positive id bd for a few more days to play it safe. After check with opks to make sure you dont get second surge. I talked with my doctor today about my second surge and the doctor said sometimes with first surge an egg isnt released so your body will have a second to force egg out. Good news is could get you pregnant bad news is the egg may be poor quality at that point.... Another theory she gave me was sometimes ppl have second surge right before implantation. Now my specialist told me the only way to know for sure is through blood work and scan. Just thought id share.

 

[mommylov]

Haha ive still not found that stick!!I dread to think where its ended up :/
I am really hoping you girls can help me...

So,i am currently on CD9...
CD1-CD7 pure negative OPKS, no faint or evap lines..
CD8 i had a positive OPK at 2pm, and then a positive OPK at 8 pm..
Today i tested at 2 pm, and an unmistakeable positive, the line was alot darker than the other one ( i always forget which is test and control :/ ) But basically the one that needed to be darker was lol..
Then i tested at 8pm today and it was a negative,very faint line as opposed to the dark one i had at 2pm .. Although i held my pee in well for the 2pm one today, the 8pm was because id forgotten and had drank two cups of tea, but was literally almost no second line there.. I also decided to research on checking my cervix as i dont really have ( or probably notice ) changes in cervical mucus..
Here comes the TMI bit infortunately for you ladies

So, i tried with my middle finger, and noticed i had to put the whole finger in and just felt cervix, i read that if its hard it fels like the tip of your nose and if its soft it feel like you are feeling your lips, so mine litterally felt like i was feeling my lips, and i could kind of put the tip of my finger in the opening ( gross i know ) I also noticed ( for the first time ever ) that when i pulled out some CM from the cervix entrance, it was like a very almost see through colour with a touch of cloudiness on one bit and i could stretch it an inch between my fingers, i also noticed two minutes later i think i might have done something cos i had quite a bit of mucus come down from the cervix, oops?

SO i am wondering as google is not helpful at all.. IS it possible that the OPKS have detected a surge and i am now ready for ovulation very very soon? Or, have i already ovulated? I read that once ovulation is done the cervix goes low and hard which mine definitely isnt... Is this possible or could it be me making things of it? I really dont know what to think! We have done more than adequte BDing, but i just want to know? I am so confused, please help im stewing here!

Sorry to be all me me me, hope you are all okay, i shall try reading the last few pages now ive posted this, anxiously waiting for a reply lol! xxx

CM.. oye! I have been reading about this too but was too scared to go in there so you are more couragous than me! I have been considerably dryer than normal.. still have cm and it looks normal and all but not the flow that Im use to. Could be to early for the "flow" but still read and am hopeful that its a good sign and that my mucus plug is intact lol I second what Jen said. She pretty much hit the nail on the head and mentioned things that I have read to be true as well.

Yay Danni!!! Keeping my fingers crossed for you. I too think its too early to test so you could very well get your here in the next few days!

BIG dearies!

 

[lilesMom]

jen so ur second surge could have been before implantation so u could be preggers xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

totally off topic bu ti just watched the hunger games, its really good, i was bawling

 

[jen435]

Laura loved that movie!!! cant wait for sequil. There is so much true meaning btw whats happening in world and that movie sadly.

Thanks i hope so but idk. Hope you get your bfp tom!

 

[lilesMom]

damn it, i had loads typed and my comp went bonkers and it dissappeared!!!!
hit back button and it was still gone , doh.
its the best film ive seen in a long while, i may get the books, is it a trilogy yeah, i think its 3 books anyway, would watch it all toinght if i had it
im reading game ot thrones at the mo, theyr very good, they take awhile to get into but r really good once u do, i read fast but these are even taking me time, they r big books and lots of um
i donno bout testing in morn, its still rea;;y early i might try and hold off for another bit ,il see in morn how i feel, if the urge is strong i will, if not i wont.
was onto bethany on fb, she hsould be gettin internet tomro woohoo, sh ewas only on for 2 secs to talk t her bro. so she should be back to us soon xxx

 

[jen435]

Yay!!!! Soooo excited for bethany to be back!!! .miss her soo much!

is she okay? Did she say? Really hope so. To be honest ill feel terrible getting a bfp after knowing af showed for her. I really hope it happens for her this cycle.

Yes 3 books. First one is better then movie. But still liked the movie.

 

[mommylov]

totally off topic bu ti just watched the hunger games, its really good, i was bawling

damn it, i had loads typed and my comp went bonkers and it dissappeared!!!!
hit back button and it was still gone , doh.
its the best film ive seen in a long while, i may get the books, is it a trilogy yeah, i think its 3 books anyway, would watch it all toinght if i had it
im reading game ot thrones at the mo, theyr very good, they take awhile to get into but r really good once u do, i read fast but these are even taking me time, they r big books and lots of um
i donno bout testing in morn, its still rea;;y early i might try and hold off for another bit ,il see in morn how i feel, if the urge is strong i will, if not i wont.
was onto bethany on fb, she hsould be gettin internet tomro woohoo, sh ewas only on for 2 secs to talk t her bro. so she should be back to us soon xxx

DH has been trying to ge tme to watch it but Im like I dont want to cry! lol Ill have to check it out!

Funny, I PM her on FB too to check on her! Yay, glad she'll be back soon!!!