ttc after a d&c

[TTCSecrets]

HAHAHAHAHA god i love it lol!! Dont know what id do without this site now! DH thinks im obsessed, as soon as im in from work its, log on, baby and bump, chat lol!!

He did say to me that i should try not to focus too much on it as stress will delay things but i thought, well its either focus on a new pregnancy or focus on the one i lost Sounds awful but its helping me get through it trying for another, and im sick of everyone saying * Take a year out from trying you obviously werent meant to be a mum yet* or * Dont try again leave it a while you need to recover* and im thinking, this is me recovering!!
xx

 

[mommylov]

HAHAHAHAHA god i love it lol!! Dont know what id do without this site now! DH thinks im obsessed, as soon as im in from work its, log on, baby and bump, chat lol!!

He did say to me that i should try not to focus too much on it as stress will delay things but i thought, well its either focus on a new pregnancy or focus on the one i lost Sounds awful but its helping me get through it trying for another, and im sick of everyone saying * Take a year out from trying you obviously werent meant to be a mum yet* or * Dont try again leave it a while you need to recover* and im thinking, this is me recovering!!
xx

I totally agree!! If it werent for the girls here and this forum, I would probably still be in my pj's staying hoem form work (if they didnt fire by now for not coming back for so long) and crying my eyes out and nevermind the idea of trying again! I feel so much more healthier having been on here and met you guys!!!

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[TTCSecrets]

I know, well i have quite a few conditions so have had a lot of time off since working here and the three weeks i had after miscarriage did not help, so now ive basically been told its gonna be better for me to find a new job and resign before they fire me, so im now job searching I want to do a job that i enjoy or at least do something positive but theres nothing :/ xx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Ooo ull have to let us knowAngel!
is this first AF post dnc? i honestly cant keep up either lol xxx

 

[mommylov]

Natasha and Amy, trying to entertain myself as I await the call from the Dr. I think I recapped us quite well. Hope I didn't have errors...it's tough keeping up! Like the voice of the narrator? Lol. It just gets in your head!

I am 98% sure showed today....she brought her friend 'Cramps' and buddy 'Headache' with her. The Dr is hopeful to pinpoint what CD I am on and said my +ve OPK could have been the estrogen surge for AF masking as LH. Jeez, my own body tricks itself! Results should be here by days end...

I know, well i have quite a few conditions so have had a lot of time off since working here and the three weeks i had after miscarriage did not help, so now ive basically been told its gonna be better for me to find a new job and resign before they fire me, so im now job searching I want to do a job that i enjoy or at least do something positive but theres nothing :/ xx

Angel, I think you did a great job! Yay for the dr being helpful.. what a concept! Im so glad you got some answers and hopefully this means you are only a week or so away from bd-ing and trying!!!!

Natasha, that is terrible ! Can they do that? Knock you for missing work due to your conditions ? Did you have vacation/personal time that you used?? Ugh, I hate companies like that.. that dont understand that we are humans !!!

 

[jen435]

Hey ladies on my lunch break so really quick. Love u ladies! Love the new posts thanks for the laugh!! Im thinkin ill be usin clearblue maybe first response first though.

No signs of af (.)(.) throbbing though!! Hmmm so curious....

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[TTCSecrets]

Well i had a med cert etc but they still are like being arsy, god knows why, they are a terrible company to work for really, dont understand at all, so ive decided to resign as soon as i find another job, but i need the same money because we move into our house in october so :/ And plus i dont really want to be jobless and expecting, i want to provide for my family!

Hmm, god knows, i dont know what to do, whether to stick it out and hope i never get ill again ( cos i am a robot and i chose to be ill and miscarry etc :/ ) Or whether toactually bite the bullet, resign with a new job, but the only work i can really do is call centre work and im kind of htinking, is it better the devil i know??

And hey jen!! Hope youre okay!!! Hope works not too bad! I need to leave my job, but i need the money and no other job doing what i do offers as good a money, so i dont know, need to either get a millionnaire to fall in love with me and shower me with money for bills whilst i live with DH, or win the lottery.. To be quite honest both of those situations seem more likely htan me finding another decent paid job :/ xx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Lol Angel! You tell AF! I told it too!! We dont want to see any more after this one, for at least 9/10 months thankyou!!

My first AF post DnC last week was awful :/ Dont mean to put u down but it was actually awful , surprised i got through it alive lol! Ive just done another OPK, ( obsessed i know) But it was negative, so i hope i caught a surge, or even if not, only a few days til estimated O, but its not impossible that i Od, Pregnology says that judging by my period and previous o dates and luteal phase my o day should be today!

But does that tally up with my opks? Positive OPK yesterday and Monday and then negative today but says it should be ovulation? Is that right? Or should i have had positive OPKS today with it being ovulation or do you just get them on the lead up to O ? xxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[TTCSecrets]

Thanks Angel, so if i am indeed ovulation as my calendar and opks tell me, if i had a positive yesterday and monday, would i have ovulated already or would it be today/tomorrw would u say? xx

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[TTCSecrets]

I know,i thought it would take ages to get AF back but lookin at my chart, it was only two days earlier than it should of been had i never have got pregnant! Was pretty monstrous now, its giving me shivers n eebie jeebies just thinking about it *shudder* xx

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[TTCSecrets]

So should i BD tonight or can i have a rest lol!
I did have slightly tinted CM this morning though, might do a cervix position check when i get a minute to myself see if thats changed, xx

 

[mommylov]

Well i had a med cert etc but they still are like being arsy, god knows why, they are a terrible company to work for really, dont understand at all, so ive decided to resign as soon as i find another job, but i need the same money because we move into our house in october so :/ And plus i dont really want to be jobless and expecting, i want to provide for my family!

Hmm, god knows, i dont know what to do, whether to stick it out and hope i never get ill again ( cos i am a robot and i chose to be ill and miscarry etc :/ ) Or whether toactually bite the bullet, resign with a new job, but the only work i can really do is call centre work and im kind of htinking, is it better the devil i know??

And hey jen!! Hope youre okay!!! Hope works not too bad! I need to leave my job, but i need the money and no other job doing what i do offers as good a money, so i dont know, need to either get a millionnaire to fall in love with me and shower me with money for bills whilst i live with DH, or win the lottery.. To be quite honest both of those situations seem more likely htan me finding another decent paid job :/ xx

UGh!!! I went through a similar situation in that we moved here and I got a job within the first week I started looking.. Didnt like it so I left but not before I found this job first. So left that job and then started this one the next day. I have NEVER done that before or ever used an agency or anything until I moved out here. We were having our house built and we wanted to start ttc so I too wanted to make sure I had a job and wanted to contribute financially. I pray and just know that everything will work out for you hun.. fx for a peaceful, fun, BETTER job for you!!!

Angel, I thought the 6 weeks post op was the LONGEST WAIT EVER! 4 weeks came, no af... then 4 weeks and 4 days.. then 5 weeks... I felt like I was counting down the minutes at this point. I kept calling my dr and she just kept saying "its coming, it can take 4-8 weeks" and then BOOM! She came 6 weeks on the dot. Hang tight.. she's coming! I know we are all wishing her your way!

 

[mommylov]

So should i BD tonight or can i have a rest lol!
I did have slightly tinted CM this morning though, might do a cervix position check when i get a minute to myself see if thats changed, xx

I say BD!!

Im kind of scared that I didnt do enough and wish I bd'd a few more nights Now Im starting to second guess....

 

[mommylov]

I think I shouldve bd more

9/5 AF ended
9/6
9/7
9/8
9/9
9/10
9/11
9/12
9/13
9/14
9/15 - 9/18

I think I got enough in before my greenest day which was sat. I hope I had enough swimmers in there to catch the eggy