ttc after a d&c

Well ladies, I took an HPT and GOT MY BFP!!!!!!!!! OMG, Im so excited!! So now Im so nervous because I want to shout it from the rooftops but I also am afraid that if I do tell anyone and I lose the baby again, what pain that will be having to tell everyone again. I plan on waiting until Christmas to tell anyone because that will be about 3 months but I am horrible at keeping secrets and my husband is even worse.
 
That song is for all ladies that lost amy. It doesnt matter how far along you where its still a baby we lost. *hugs* love all you ladies also!! <3 Im actually hacked into my neighbors internet because my wireless is down... Well I hope you BD tomorrow for sure! Can you get it in before work?? That could be a hard one perhaps. You didnt have +opk yet so you sound be just fine! Get that BD in tomorrow though as soon as you can! He should have plenty of swimmers available! :) Fxd for you amy!

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Bethany thank you! Hope you had a nice workout! :)

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Thanks love!!! That really was such a beautiful song! Still keeping you in my heart and prayers today :flower: How are you doing? Are you still spotting? Are you talking to the dr soon? Sorry for all the questions just want to make sure you and lo are doing well! :baby::hugs: I woke up kind of the late side this morning so barley made it to work "on time"... might have been a little late :shy: heheh But he did promise today. Im really hoping to get that + soon. I know that you got your + OPK on the later side too, right? Im praying that I get mine.. kind of getting a little worried now. :shrug:
Oh and regarding having to tap into your neighbors internet.... :rofl: When dh and I moved into our first apt, we hade to wait an extra day before we got internet so he did the same thing. I was like "Thats not right that you are using thier internet! :paper:" He said "1. Im going online because I need to for work for literally a minute and 2. if they arent going to password protect it, then Im pretty sure the whole neighborhood is using it and it becomes fair game". You just reminded me of that night hahahh :rofl:

Laura, How are you and your lo doing?? :baby::flower:

Bethany, Love you too :kiss::hugs::kiss:!!! How are you dear? When do you move into your new place :bunny:??

Natasha, :wave: We've missed you!!! Hows the house coming along :dishes:?

Angel, thinking of you today :hugs:. I think you were doing to see the dr today if Im not mistaking, right :huh:? Hopefully they can figure out whats going on with this cycle hun xoxo :hugs:

Praying.... CONGRATS :bfp:!!!! I am so so so happy for you hun! :wohoo::happydance: I hear ya on wanting to wait to tell people but I too am so terrible at keeping secrets like that... I would want to scream from the roof top!!!! Oh so so happy for you! :crib:

Hope everyone has a wonderful day and :wave: to anyone Ive missed.

Lots of sticky :dust: to all!!!
 
Praying congratulation! I couldnt keep it a secert. We told our immediate family and I told my work. So no friends know yet. I want to hear the heartbeat first and know all is okay. but screaming on the rooftop totally understandable!!! Ahhh im so happy for you!!! Praying all goes well! Call ur doctor to let them know!!!

Laura you see rainbow before new baby too dont worry sweety your scan will go amazing tomorrow! I just know it. :hugs: its normal to be nervous though. I still am too.cant wait to hear all about it tom! :)

Amy bd asap tonight try to make it romantic if u can maybe ur + comes tom or today. Mine was cd 21 in a 29 day cycle very late!:dust:

Natasha so glad ur house is coming along! Your temps seem good so far fxd for ur bfp!!! Your relaxed approach hopefully will pay off! :dust:

angel thinking of you! Hoping ur okay let us know how u make out with doctor. :hugs:

My sis in law was very bitter this weekend to me idk y. In a way I think she is jealous im pregnant from her comments. I look to my husbands side for support since its hard to get from my side. I had a ssweater from hs yesterday and mil goes nice sweater where did u get it. She accused me of spending money!!! So I said its from when I was in hs like most my clothes. To think I graduated in 2003 yes im still in the same clothes! Family drives me nuts. Going to call doctor now.
 
Praying congratulation! I couldnt keep it a secert. We told our immediate family and I told my work. So no friends know yet. I want to hear the heartbeat first and know all is okay. but screaming on the rooftop totally understandable!!! Ahhh im so happy for you!!! Praying all goes well! Call ur doctor to let them know!!!

Laura you see rainbow before new baby too dont worry sweety your scan will go amazing tomorrow! I just know it. :hugs: its normal to be nervous though. I still am too.cant wait to hear all about it tom! :)

Amy bd asap tonight try to make it romantic if u can maybe ur + comes tom or today. Mine was cd 21 in a 29 day cycle very late!:dust:

Natasha so glad ur house is coming along! Your temps seem good so far fxd for ur bfp!!! Your relaxed approach hopefully will pay off! :dust:

angel thinking of you! Hoping ur okay let us know how u make out with doctor. :hugs:

My sis in law was very bitter this weekend to me idk y. In a way I think she is jealous im pregnant from her comments. I look to my husbands side for support since its hard to get from my side. I had a ssweater from hs yesterday and mil goes nice sweater where did u get it. She accused me of spending money!!! So I said its from when I was in hs like most my clothes. To think I graduated in 2003 yes im still in the same clothes! Family drives me nuts. Going to call doctor now.

I called the Dr as soon as they opened this morning LOL. I have an appt for bloodwork at 12:45 today. :happydance:

I will probably only wait until I hear the heartbeat and know all is ok before I tell anyone. I saw the heartbeat with my last little angel but it stopped and stopped developing so this time I will wait to actually hear it and know baby is growing strong.
 
Yay!!! Congrats! For the heart it can be heard with one chamber at 6 1/2 weeks but to confirm baby developes properly its safer to hear at 9weeks since itsthen the heart has 4 chambers and beatimg its strongest. I want to tell my friends and extended fam on his side but waiting til that appt first. im soo excited for u!

I cant wait for everyone on this thread to be expecting!!! Its going to be an exciting summer/fall on this website!!! I know everyone will have theirs by then!!!

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Praying congratulation! I couldnt keep it a secert. We told our immediate family and I told my work. So no friends know yet. I want to hear the heartbeat first and know all is okay. but screaming on the rooftop totally understandable!!! Ahhh im so happy for you!!! Praying all goes well! Call ur doctor to let them know!!!

Laura you see rainbow before new baby too dont worry sweety your scan will go amazing tomorrow! I just know it. :hugs: its normal to be nervous though. I still am too.cant wait to hear all about it tom! :)

Amy bd asap tonight try to make it romantic if u can maybe ur + comes tom or today. Mine was cd 21 in a 29 day cycle very late!:dust:

Natasha so glad ur house is coming along! Your temps seem good so far fxd for ur bfp!!! Your relaxed approach hopefully will pay off! :dust:

angel thinking of you! Hoping ur okay let us know how u make out with doctor. :hugs:

My sis in law was very bitter this weekend to me idk y. In a way I think she is jealous im pregnant from her comments. I look to my husbands side for support since its hard to get from my side. I had a ssweater from hs yesterday and mil goes nice sweater where did u get it. She accused me of spending money!!! So I said its from when I was in hs like most my clothes. To think I graduated in 2003 yes im still in the same clothes! Family drives me nuts. Going to call doctor now.

cd16 on a 30 day cycle (I think) today so ya you might be right... so crazy that we can get that + opk so late! Grr to your fam.. whats it to them even if you do buy a sweater or something for you. That should be between you and your husband. So sorry your sil was being a poop. Dont let any of them take this time and moment away from you. You deserve it and should be enjoying every minute! We are all excited for you and wish nothing but the best for you! If others cant do the same and be nice, then pay no mind to them!
 
Amy how many days was af for u? Also thank you. Its easier to shrug it off once I vent.

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Bethany how are you today?
 
Hi Jen, I never got in a workout because I fell asleep waiting for DH to get ready :blush:
But today I shall!
I listened to the song and it was amazing. Thank you so much for sharing <3 I am thinking of you and Liam today. How are you and baby feeling?
I am so mad that your in-laws are being jackasses! You carry precious cargo and they better treat you like the amazing woman that you are! We love you :hugs:

Natasha, I hope that nothing gets you down today!
l love your positivity and what you said about temping makes total sense! Throwing :dust: at you girly!

Laura, it is perfectly normal to be worried and upset about your scan! We are all rooting for you and sending PMA your way! :hugs:*
DH is supposed to look into getting a trailer for moving. We don't have much furniture luckily :)
And yeah, I deserved some new books but he thinks I have too many as it is. When we move overseas my books are coming with me lol!

Praying, CONGRATULATIONS! Jen said we needed more BFPs and you brought us one! Sticky thoughts!!

Amy, moving happens next week! I look forward to being settled but dread driving 5 hours to make it happen. I know my husband is too cheap to ever hire movers to do it but I wish!
Sorry you were almost late but was the sleep fabulous? :D hopefully you get your "YES" OPK soon! Sending along some :dust:

AFM: lazy day. My husband is off today and tomorrow which is awesome and not awesome. Love spending time with him but it is hard to do whatever I want with him around ;)
 
Congrats Praying! :wohoo:

Laura, tomorrow is going to bring you really good news! I understand the anxiety, I imagine we will all feel the same way!

Jen hope you and bump are well.

Amy...keep poas doll! Your +ve OPK is en route. No worries if you missed a night BDing especially since OPK is neg.

Natasha, I was told temping gives you something to look forward to...it becomes an addiction! Glad you are sticking with it.

Bethany, hope kitty is better.

Jessica? How are you?

:hi: Horsey, Danni, Lamb...hope you ladies are well.

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How are you today Angel? <3
Kitty is lively and snuggly :)
 
For sure... we are here for you! You want to hear something random? I had a dream the other night.. I was at the store looking for something and I didnt know quite what I was looking for or what it was but I had to call one of you and then we just started shooting the breeze. Then later in that dream, we were all planning a trip to someone's house in the east coast with our little ones and dh's and we all met and it was like we have all known eachother forever! It was great!!! xoxo I woke with a smile :)

Af was about 5-6 days counting all spotting and "brown" stuff (Sorry TMI). Didnt know if you wanted to know ALL of that! lol I am use to having a heavier flow on day 2-3 but it seems like it was WAYYY heavier post op my first cycle and then this last one was the same.. MABYE a little lighter but the cramps were horrendous! I started to think "can you have a period without ovulating? Is this all just my uterus?" :(
 
Hi Jen, I never got in a workout because I fell asleep waiting for DH to get ready :blush:
But today I shall!
I listened to the song and it was amazing. Thank you so much for sharing <3 I am thinking of you and Liam today. How are you and baby feeling?
I am so mad that your in-laws are being jackasses! You carry precious cargo and they better treat you like the amazing woman that you are! We love you :hugs:

Natasha, I hope that nothing gets you down today!
l love your positivity and what you said about temping makes total sense! Throwing :dust: at you girly!

Laura, it is perfectly normal to be worried and upset about your scan! We are all rooting for you and sending PMA your way! :hugs:*
DH is supposed to look into getting a trailer for moving. We don't have much furniture luckily :)
And yeah, I deserved some new books but he thinks I have too many as it is. When we move overseas my books are coming with me lol!

Praying, CONGRATULATIONS! Jen said we needed more BFPs and you brought us one! Sticky thoughts!!

Amy, moving happens next week! I look forward to being settled but dread driving 5 hours to make it happen. I know my husband is too cheap to ever hire movers to do it but I wish!
Sorry you were almost late but was the sleep fabulous? :D hopefully you get your "YES" OPK soon! Sending along some :dust:

AFM: lazy day. My husband is off today and tomorrow which is awesome and not awesome. Love spending time with him but it is hard to do whatever I want with him around ;)

Hi doll!! So dont know i fyou know about this great website but when you go to book your trailer or for anything online, go to retailmenot.com and look for coupon codes. I use it for EVERYTHING! I hope it all goes well! :hugs: :rofl: re husband being around! I know that feeling heheh! You should tell him "look, let me tell you how this works, this is me in the morning and not much will change come 2pm... just so you know so dont be alarmed." :happydance:

Laura, I know you must be so worried and Im sure we will all be too when we get to that point but everything will be fine hun. Ive said it before and hope that you find some comfort in knowing that SOOOOOO many women go through what we went through and go on to have healthy :baby: You will be one of them. You are going to get great news! KUP! :hugs::kiss::hugs:
 
Amy, what a great dream! Sounds prophetic don't ya think? :hugs: I look forward to us all having our sticky babies and meeting up for girls weekend out!

And never TMI when TTC :) I don't think you can have a regular period without ovulation so don't worry, you are ovulating! The BFP will happen <3
 
Amy my thanks disappeared LOL! So thanks! I will def look into that site!
And DH is asleep so I can enjoy myself for now. He gets twitchy bout me snacking on caramel apple suckers and cheese pepper bread. Men...
 
Congrats Praying! :wohoo:

Laura, tomorrow is going to bring you really good news! I understand the anxiety, I imagine we will all feel the same way!

Jen hope you and bump are well.

Amy...keep poas doll! Your +ve OPK is en route. No worries if you missed a night BDing especially since OPK is neg.

Natasha, I was told temping gives you something to look forward to...it becomes an addiction! Glad you are sticking with it.

Bethany, hope kitty is better.

Jessica? How are you?

:hi: Horsey, Danni, Lamb...hope you ladies are well.

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I will :thumbup:!Thats what I thought too and thats why I left dh alone to do his work last night. Had I gotten a +, then I wouldve taken advantage of him right there in the office so he's lucky it was a - lol

How are you doing? Any updates?
 
Thank you all for your support. Dr called and we are counting Friday 12 Oct as my CD1. She said with my levels I should have expected AF between 13-16 Oct, so using Friday as CD1 is safe. I'll go Monday 22 October (CD11) for cycle monitoring...fx we don't miss ovulation. I would LOVE for DH to be home, but if we have to go the IUI route this time, then at least BDing will be without ulterior motives.

I've decided to drive down and see my sister, so I'll be checking in from my phone when I get the chance. I would love to see how she decorated her Labor & Delivery ward for Rememberance. :sadangel: I know she doesn't go through the pain we do, but I know her heart sinks and aches each time a mom-to-be gets the news that her LO is gone. I am going down to give her a bug 'ol hug and thank her for being such a great l&d nurse!

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Your sister sounds wonderful! Have a great visit :hugs:
I have everything crossed for you this cycle and throwing :dust: at you! <3
 
Amy, what a great dream! Sounds prophetic don't ya think? :hugs: I look forward to us all having our sticky babies and meeting up for girls weekend out!

And never TMI when TTC :) I don't think you can have a regular period without ovulation so don't worry, you are ovulating! The BFP will happen <3

Thank you all for your support. Dr called and we are counting Friday 12 Oct as my CD1. She said with my levels I should have expected AF between 13-16 Oct, so using Friday as CD1 is safe. I'll go Monday 22 October (CD11) for cycle monitoring...fx we don't miss ovulation. I would LOVE for DH to be home, but if we have to go the IUI route this time, then at least BDing will be without ulterior motives.

I've decided to drive down and see my sister, so I'll be checking in from my phone when I get the chance. I would love to see how she decorated her Labor & Delivery ward for Rememberance. :sadangel: I know she doesn't go through the pain we do, but I know her heart sinks and aches each time a mom-to-be gets the news that her LO is gone. I am going down to give her a bug 'ol hug and thank her for being such a great l&d nurse!

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Bethany, totally!! Whenever I have clear dreams like that, they usually come into fruition.. atlease some part of it does! :thumbup: oh I would love it!!!!

Angel, I was typing as you posted :dohh:! Awww glad you were able to talk to the dr and hoping that no matter if DH is here or you go the IUI route that it all works out and you are with a healthy LO!!! xoxo Driving and seeing your sister sounds great!:hugs:
 
Just got back from the Dr and she confirmed it. I am pregnant!!! :happydance: She did blood work and I have to go back on Wednesday for more to make sure my hormone levels are doubling. I will be sure to keep everyone posted. Thank you all for the much needed support and making me feel like it is ok to be obsessed with getting pregnant.

:bfp: :dust: and :hugs: for everyone
 
Just got back from the Dr and she confirmed it. I am pregnant!!! :happydance: She did blood work and I have to go back on Wednesday for more to make sure my hormone levels are doubling. I will be sure to keep everyone posted. Thank you all for the much needed support and making me feel like it is ok to be obsessed with getting pregnant.

:bfp: :dust: and :hugs: for everyone

Yay! :bunny:
 

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