ttc after a d&c

[aaronswoman79]

Amy, just wanted you to know that we are all here thinking about you. And wish only the best for you. Hopefully you get the answers you deserve. We are all here for you!

 

[xoxo4angel]

Laura how touching! Now I'm crying!

Really wishing this turns around Amy...either way I pray you find peace. Fx

 

[lilesMom]

amy hon, im presuming ur gone to be with dh. xxxx
take care and kup when u can, xxx
love and loads of best wishes xxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

Laura how touching! Now I'm crying!

Really wishing this turns around Amy...either way I pray you find peace. Fx

ive been crying on and off for last while, i feel so bad amy has to go through this, she has enough mental torture, god please help her .
hope this had good outcome for her . xx
i still think it will xx

 

[lilesMom]

im gonna have to log off angel, im wrecked , have sore throat and head. xxx
fx for ur bfp sweetie xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

Me too Laura, me too. xoxo
Hopefully tomorrow will bring better news. I'm sure her DH will make her feel better.

 

[xoxo4angel]

Night Laura xoxo feel better!

 

[lilesMom]

nt sweetie xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[jen435]

amy i am so angry with your doctor!!! Laura is correct "say" you had a positive pregnancy test (5) and are experiencing spotting and just say slight low cramping pain and are worried. Change your OB, or find a family doctor!!! This is terrible makes me cry. Emergency room would be right where i would go. I dont think urgent care has an u/s machine. they just do blood work. I am worried about you. I hope you and dh decide to go to hospital and get checked. You will at least have peace of mind and anwsers then. Definately worth it sweety. hang in there sweety! I wish I could hug you right now!

 

[jen435]

Angel thank you for the laugh! I really hope natasha is wrong and she gets her bfp. We really need more PMA and BFP's to help restore it.. Hugs to all.

 

[jen435]

Hi ladies! I am so sorry I cant type much just read over 20 pages and feel so nausea from it. Im so sorry I cant reply to everyone but I am thinking about everyone and hope your all doing well!

Lots of to all!! I will try to be on tomorrow!!! I miss you ladies!!!

 

[aaronswoman79]

Hi ladies! I am so sorry I cant type much just read over 20 pages and feel so nausea from it. Im so sorry I cant reply to everyone but I am thinking about everyone and hope your all doing well!

Lots of to all!! I will try to be on tomorrow!!! I miss you ladies!!!

Hi jen! So sorry you are having nausea. I am checking on here every once in a while to see if there is any reply from Amy. I really hope she went and got herself checked. I hope that she gets a good surprise from the doc! Take care hon! Hope your pregnancy is going smoothly Jen!

 

[mommylov]

So you will not believe this.... Just spent 4+ hours in the er... Long story short I'm am or was pregnant. They did. A qual, urine, and quant and even the er dr was stumped. Urine and qual were negative but get this quant was at 90! They did an. Ultrasound but didn't see anything but they said its still very early. Hope they are right but makes me feel like I wasn't crazy. Also, found out that my dr did not order a quant yesterday and they did another qual....grrr! Dh and I said that we are going to be changing drs.mi just came home and peed on another cheapy test and both dh and I looked at it and we both said it's even darker then it has been the past few days.

 

[mommylov]

I just read all the wonderful things you girls were saying while we were at the er. I love each and everyone one of... It brought tears to my eyes and u even showed dh and he said wow they are so nice! I said I know they are the best I love them! The er doctor just gave me hope. I'm thinking the cramping could've been something else. It was very dull and short lived. I'm just more concerned with the spotting. Very light snd on nd off and not red. More pinkish brown but that still concerns me. I hope all this is also not a sigh of an ectopic pregnancy. What a long night... Going to try and get some sleep now. Hope you all have wonderful night and thank you so much for your warm wishes and love!

Xoxoxoxo

 

[aaronswoman79]

I just read all the wonderful things you girls were saying while we were at the er. I love each and everyone one of... It brought tears to my eyes and u even showed dh and he said wow they are so nice! I said I know they are the best I love them! The er doctor just gave me hope. I'm thinking the cramping could've been something else. It was very dull and short lived. I'm just more concerned with the spotting. Very light snd on nd off and not red. More pinkish brown but that still concerns me. I hope all this is also not a sigh of an ectopic pregnancy. What a long night... Going to try and get some sleep now. Hope you all have wonderful night and thank you so much for your warm wishes and love!

Xoxoxoxo

Amy, I was waiting tonight and hoping the hear from you. I am so glad you got yourself checked. So they did in fact confirm the pregnancy I believe. Do they know why some tests are negative and some tests are positive? Could it be because you are so early on? I am glad that you got some better news tonight. And that they listened to your concerns. God Bless your LO.

 

[mommylov]

Hi Jess, thanks hun. So the er dr really couldn't explain it. At first they didn't quants and a urine test and both were negative. I told him about the five positives and he said hmmm and ran a quant. Came back and said that I either am pregnant or was. They couldn't see anything when they did an ultrasound but they said that it could be too early for that. He wanted me to go back in to the dr after a day or two and do a quant again to see if it goes up but when were there we found out that my drs office didn't do a quant like they said they would so we are on the fence. Kind of font want to go back to that dr now but at the same time don't know if we should go one more time and insist they do the right test and then change drs. Very confusing.

 

[lilesMom]

So you will not believe this.... Just spent 4+ hours in the er... Long story short I'm am or was pregnant. They did. A qual, urine, and quant and even the er dr was stumped. Urine and qual were negative but get this quant was at 90! They did an. Ultrasound but didn't see anything but they said its still very early. Hope they are right but makes me feel like I wasn't crazy. Also, found out that my dr did not order a quant yesterday and they did another qual....grrr! Dh and I said that we are going to be changing drs.mi just came home and peed on another cheapy test and both dh and I looked at it and we both said it's even darker then it has been the past few days.

did they check for uti? i read that it can cause fudging in preg tests .
the girl i read about was preg and continued to be preg, she just needed antibiotics xxxxx
im prob jumping ahead , il read on.,xx
god idea to switch docs, they totally neglected u xxxxxxxxxxx
90 is great for stage ur at isnt it?
keeping fx for u hon xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

do go one more time to ur doc for the right test and then change, xxx
u could be waiting if u change docs now and u dont need to wait xxx
best o luck xxxx

 

[lilesMom]

, and good luck to all. xxxxxxxxx
any more testers at the mo ? xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
bethany come back xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

Sitting here cautiously optimistic for you Amy! So glad you went for a second opinion! You do need the repeat labs because HCG doubles every 48 hours...if it goes up, then pregnancy is progressing swimmingly! I believe your Dr has lost your trust, so I'd be on the fence about going back too. Why didnt THEY do the dadgum quantitave...that was a blatent disregard for patient care! As for the scan, normally can't see anything until around 5 weeks, so it was early to even see a sac.

Have you tried Googling Dr's in your area? There is a website where patients get to rate their Dr and I found it helpful when picking my RE, maybe it will help you find an OB/GYN.

Ladies...TGIF!

PS Amy, to be a fly on the wall when your regular Dr realizes the mistake she made with you! She's a dismissive wench!