ttc after a d&c

[jen435]

Hey ladies! I read thru very fast but didnt want to leave without writtimg (yuck to the celllphone though)

Amy agree with laura about blunted ovum. As for rh- they only give when u are negative and dad is +. You will get it at 28wks but if ur still spotting tell ur ob and ask for rhogam. Gives u peace of mind. amy I truely believe this will be viable pregnancy I keep praying it is. At 5wks +days is when a tiny sac is seen if ur lucky. I have heard of ppl with +blood and -hpt til 14wks preg too. So it wouldnt strick me if it could be opposite. ill be amxiously waiting for ur anwsers tom. After ur d&c did they give u a card that u received rhogam?? U would know its a shot in butt that hurts n burns! U have to be awake to get it. Thats when I found out what rh- was right after d&c. Prayers your way!

Natasha praying heavy flow is a good sign for this cycle! Fxd and ur way sweety!

Jessica ur a,great mommy! you know ur dd well and I pray u find the help she needs but as laura said u need a hobby for u! Maybe join a gym (releive stress) or a pt job though it seems u already havw a ft one. Hugs
Laura angel bethany hi!!! Sorry to make this short!

 

[mommylov]

Just for sh***ts and giggles... Afternoon pee just now.

 

[mommylov]

No I didn't get a card but I'm scared my dr didn't even test for it. She was new and given recent events I wouldn't be surprised if she didn't.

 

[lilesMom]

hi jen hope ur feeling better today xxx

 

[mommylov]

Yes sorry Jen, hope you are feeling better too

 

[lilesMom]

amy that is just weird, the clear blue arent very snesitive sur ethey arent?

 

[mommylov]

That's what I was told too so it just doesn't make sense.

 

[mommylov]

I'm really praying maybe thus means I have a REALLY shy healthy bean fx

 

[mommylov]

I believe I was told I'm o+ a year or so ago. Dh is a+ so the rh test they do on Monday won't help any right? Back to square one?

 

[lilesMom]

it could be anythign hon, im presuming there are lots of type of antibodies that could bind with hcg and make it unrecognisable to test, xxx
thank god its tomor anyway. one more sleep and hopefully some answers then xxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

I think I won't get the result until Tuesday though since I am going after work tomorrow to give blood and then my appt is at 10am tues

 

[lilesMom]

hoping bloods come back good this time, should tell u something i hope!!!! stupid labs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

I just had dh read that articl. He said that it founds like each labs tests detect different components of the hcg hormone. I'm most cases it's accurate enough to confirm pregnancy but he said that I might be that one percent the has something going on that doesn't necessarily make thus pregnancy unhealthy, but hard to detect due to the build of my hcg hormones. That sounds like it could be true. What a roller coaster this is.

 

[xoxo4angel]

Amy. Interesting article! So many components go into the lab work..there is always that small percentage of people that skew results. Think about it, birth control is 99% effective...that means 1% of women get pregnant ON birth control. It seems random and unlucky, but you CAN fall into that small percentage with an undetectable healthy bean (like your DH said). Stay positive and cautiously optimistic Amy. AF hasn't shown and your hpts are +ve...that speaks louder than sketchy blood work. As for RH...even for a Dr who has been dismissive, most hospitals require them to record your blood type during a procedure. I was given micRhogam shots after each mc (me Rh-, DH O+). Rhogam prevents future pregnancy complications...RH- 1st pregnancy, without Rhogam, will develop antigens that battle subsequent pregnancies. Your new Dr probably wants to double check to make sure this is not what you are up against. Fx and many prayers for answers Amy! Positive thinking until told otherwise Amy! You are allowed to be cautiously pregnant! xoxo

 

[mommylov]

Thanks angel! Yes you are right. I read the same in regards to rh. I feel like I have learned a ton these last few days. Cheapy hpt keep getting darker which does not coincide with lab results from the dr and that's what has us stumped. Different brand digi test are coming up pos. Both digi and cheapy test results appear pretty quick so we both again don't know what to think other than I must be a part of some 1% group somewhere.

How are you doing?

 

[xoxo4angel]

Tash ~ Heavy AF must mean your cycle is regulating! Hope it has lightened up by now and you have a good day at work tomorrow!

Jessica ~ You're doing what you can for your youngest daughter. I wonder if this special school you are looking into offers scholarships or stipends for tuition...don't rule yourself out before doing the research to see if there is a way to get her in! I would have thought the State would have a program for children with emotional needs...some kind of reprieve for you. Oh and darn the meds! You're a fantastic Mommy and your daughter is so lucky to have you!

 

[xoxo4angel]

I'm good Amy. I am either 7 or 8 dpo. I had a moment this morning where I was replaying EVERY face of EVERY person who has told me, "Just relax and it will happen." To include the face of my pregnant doppelganger's mother...the next person who says that to me is going to be told, "Sex IS relaxing...does your partner not "do it" for you?" Now, I'm just being evil...I know they have good intentions.

To your +ve digitals...both of my mc's I used the digitals to gauge what was going on with me because my sister's boss told me they are the least sensitive! Oh, I hope this is it and I pray for good news. November needs to be the bearer of many great BFP stories!

 

[xoxo4angel]

Jen ~ Can't wait to see the pics of your scan and bump tomorrow. Just hope you are well enough to post them.

Laura ~ If you can get by with NOT having to go back to work for a few more weeks, that is what I would do! You and lo need your rest!

Bethany and Horsey ~ and Hope this finds you in good spirits!

 

[mommylov]

Oh yay so you will be testing soon! And yes I agree, come on November!!

Glad to hear that I'm not the only one that heard that about digis. That's why dh got those. We were both like its great to have the cheapies and obvious those are showing a bfp too but we heard the same about the digis and have been keeping the faith that they are right.

 

[xoxo4angel]

Oh and Amy. Be sure to ask the nurse who draws your blood in the morning if you have to wait until Tuesday to get the results.