ttc after a d&c

[mommylov]

That sounds right.... Birds or babies...no no

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[mommylov]

Thanks angel :*)

 

[jen435]

Thank you! Ill steer clear of the oven. Argh it stinks when my husband cooks/warms up food.

I called family doctor and obgyn about being dehydrated. Waiting for returned call. How do they diagnosis dehyration anyways? My voice is so cracky from mouth throat being so dry my skin on my hands are itchy from dryness my lips are soooo dry.... Ugh I feel like I wont get any help from eithe office. When I asked about iv fluid in office they said probably need to go to hosp. Ugh if I had ppo I would go,to urgent care but they are out of network for me.

Amy fxd for ur appt tom! Ive been cramping too and so has laura I believe so hang tight my ob says its normal. Im wondering if bleeding is from what angel said progestrone and blood vessels dilating...i know after bd I bleed.... We dont bd anymore.

Angel still fxd for u. But u are smart for planning ahead!

 

[lamb27]

Sorry I have been gone today! Spent a lot of time at the doctor (me for a UTI) and then the optometrist (for DH to get more contacts). Tomorrow may be just as bad because I want to pick up some furniture and all that good stuff.

Angel, I was actually just in the kitchen chopping up onion to freeze and cooking up all my mushrooms.
I am hoping you get that BFP and that the witch stays far away!

Amy, fingers crossed honey! Just relax and take it as easy as possible. I am with Angel on this one re: sensitive cervix.

Hi lamb! Been awhile (waves merrily)

Natasha, LOL to making up for access to sperm!

Jessica, how are you doing?

Horsey, I adore you

Laura, sorry for feeling so sick honey but the cause is so worth it

Jen, I will let you be hopeful for me. I just think that this may be a long cycle. How are you and baby?

hello yeh its been a while,how you doing xx

 

[aaronswoman79]

Hi Ladies. Amy, I know the spotting is tapering off. I know how anxious it can make you. I hope you get good news at your appointment tom. Angel, are you going to test? Wouldn't it be soon enough. I also thought I was getting af, but it didn't end up coming. Took the frer for the heck of it. Jen, can you hold down pedialyte? I know when my daughter use to get sick we would buy these pedialyte electrolyte strips. They were these little strips you put on your tongue, they melt into you tongue have a high concentration of electrolytes, you might wanna ask the doctor if they are ok to take, or check if they still sell them.

AFM, had a horrible dream this morning that I was bleeding and losing my baby, and then woke up and used the bathroom, and I saw a very very scant bit of pink when I wiped. Now I am so scared my dream is going to come true. One of the reasons I even took the frer test this Monday is because that same morning I had a dream I took the frer and had 3 positives. Now I am scared of my dreams. . I don't like that I saw pink!!

Oh and Amy, I started spotting around the same time as you with last pregnancy, I was diagnosed with a Subchorionic Hematoma (hemorrhage). If you have that, they should be able to confirm that with the ultrasound tomorrow. And that is not what caused my miscarriage though. Basically they told me with a subchorionic Hematoma, as the placenta is attaching to the uterine wall and forming sometimes a little blood clot develops between the placenta and uterus. It usually doesn't cause miscarriages. Some women have it through there whole pregnancies, and could cause a significant amount of bleeding, but not usually a miscarriage. You can research it, the nurse says you have it, or suspects you could have it? As a matter of fact, about 99% of women go on to have healthy babies. So if worse comes to worse and you have this, just remember the odds of an actually miscarriage. They are extremely low. And you might not even have this.

 

[mommylov]

Thank you! Ill steer clear of the oven. Argh it stinks when my husband cooks/warms up food.

I called family doctor and obgyn about being dehydrated. Waiting for returned call. How do they diagnosis dehyration anyways? My voice is so cracky from mouth throat being so dry my skin on my hands are itchy from dryness my lips are soooo dry.... Ugh I feel like I wont get any help from eithe office. When I asked about iv fluid in office they said probably need to go to hosp. Ugh if I had ppo I would go,to urgent care but they are out of network for me.

Amy fxd for ur appt tom! Ive been cramping too and so has laura I believe so hang tight my ob says its normal. Im wondering if bleeding is from what angel said progestrone and blood vessels dilating...i know after bd I bleed.... We dont bd anymore.

Angel still fxd for u. But u are smart for planning ahead!

It's gross but when I toot a little it feels so much better. Can gas be pushing in something making me bleed maybe? It's really off and on

 

[mommylov]

Hi Ladies. Amy, I know the spotting is tapering off. I know how anxious it can make you. I hope you get good news at your appointment tom. Angel, are you going to test? Wouldn't it be soon enough. I also thought I was getting af, but it didn't end up coming. Took the frer for the heck of it. Jen, can you hold down pedialyte? I know when my daughter use to get sick we would buy these pedialyte electrolyte strips. They were these little strips you put on your tongue, they melt into you tongue have a high concentration of electrolytes, you might wanna ask the doctor if they are ok to take, or check if they still sell them.

AFM, had a horrible dream this morning that I was bleeding and losing my baby, and then woke up and used the bathroom, and I saw a very very scant bit of pink when I wiped. Now I am so scared my dream is going to come true. One of the reasons I even took the frer test this Monday is because that same morning I had a dream I took the frer and had 3 positives. Now I am scared of my dreams. . I don't like that I saw pink!!

Oh and Amy, I started spotting around the same time as you with last pregnancy, I was diagnosed with a Subchorionic Hematoma (hemorrhage). If you have that, they should be able to confirm that with the ultrasound tomorrow. And that is not what caused my miscarriage though. Basically they told me with a subchorionic Hematoma, as the placenta is attaching to the uterine wall and forming sometimes a little blood clot develops between the placenta and uterus. It usually doesn't cause miscarriages. Some women have it through there whole pregnancies, and could cause a significant amount of bleeding, but not usually a miscarriage. You can research it, the nurse says you have it, or suspects you could have it? As a matter of fact, about 99% of women go on to have healthy babies. So if worse comes to worse and you have this, just remember the odds of an actually miscarriage. They are extremely low. And you might not even have this.

YES! That's what my nurse said. I couldn't remember the name of it earlier but she said that is a possibility. Do they give you something for it?

Regarding your dreams, don't worry I had my fair share. Everything from being pregnant to dh sleeping with my mom (wtf?!?!) soooo disturbing and even he look appalled when I told him. Pregnancy does weird things so don't worry hun. Pink spotting is normal. I would def take that over the red!

 

[aaronswoman79]

Hi Ladies. Amy, I know the spotting is tapering off. I know how anxious it can make you. I hope you get good news at your appointment tom. Angel, are you going to test? Wouldn't it be soon enough. I also thought I was getting af, but it didn't end up coming. Took the frer for the heck of it. Jen, can you hold down pedialyte? I know when my daughter use to get sick we would buy these pedialyte electrolyte strips. They were these little strips you put on your tongue, they melt into you tongue have a high concentration of electrolytes, you might wanna ask the doctor if they are ok to take, or check if they still sell them.

AFM, had a horrible dream this morning that I was bleeding and losing my baby, and then woke up and used the bathroom, and I saw a very very scant bit of pink when I wiped. Now I am so scared my dream is going to come true. One of the reasons I even took the frer test this Monday is because that same morning I had a dream I took the frer and had 3 positives. Now I am scared of my dreams. . I don't like that I saw pink!!

Oh and Amy, I started spotting around the same time as you with last pregnancy, I was diagnosed with a Subchorionic Hematoma (hemorrhage). If you have that, they should be able to confirm that with the ultrasound tomorrow. And that is not what caused my miscarriage though. Basically they told me with a subchorionic Hematoma, as the placenta is attaching to the uterine wall and forming sometimes a little blood clot develops between the placenta and uterus. It usually doesn't cause miscarriages. Some women have it through there whole pregnancies, and could cause a significant amount of bleeding, but not usually a miscarriage. You can research it, the nurse says you have it, or suspects you could have it? As a matter of fact, about 99% of women go on to have healthy babies. So if worse comes to worse and you have this, just remember the odds of an actually miscarriage. They are extremely low. And you might not even have this.

YES! That's what my nurse said. I couldn't remember the name of it earlier but she said that is a possibility. Do they give you something for it?

Regarding your dreams, don't worry I had my fair share. Everything from being pregnant to dh sleeping with my mom (wtf?!?!) soooo disturbing and even he look appalled when I told him. Pregnancy does weird things so don't worry hun. Pink spotting is normal. I would def take that over the red!

lol about the dreams, just don't tell your mom about that dream! lol. And yes pregnancy gives you very weird dreams. They really can't do much about the hematoma (that is, if you have it). It needs to resolve on its own. Oh, and I also have mild cramping that I get every day, throughout the day. This has been happening since first af after d&c.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Amy, do you have any pregnancy symptoms yet? I know constipation is one of them. I get worried because some days I have symptoms, other days just about none. My boobs are barely sore at all. But then again I barely got that with any pregnancy. My boobs in general never got sore, not even before af. I don't know how to be positive and get over all of the paranoia. Are you suppose to feel extremely pregnant by 5 weeks? I don't feel extremely pregnant!?

 

[mommylov]

Aside from the constipation I have slightly sore bbs but other than that no. Maybe a little tired but I think with my last one they came a little later like at 6 or 7 weeks.

Regarding the dreams, I could never tell my mom that! I was mortified when I told dh and his facial expression said it all. It was an "are you insane?" And disgusted look because that's his mom now too. I felt weird even telling him but I couldn't believe it.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Aside from the constipation I have slightly sore bbs but other than that no. Maybe a little tired but I think with my last one they came a little later like at 6 or 7 weeks.

Regarding the dreams, I could never tell my mom that! I was mortified when I told dh and his facial expression said it all. It was an "are you insane?" And disgusted look because that's his mom now too. I felt weird even telling him but I couldn't believe it.

All I have is more sensitive boobs. That's the only way I can put it. I get acid reflux easily, I guess because of the hormones slowing down the digestive system, the constipation is started. I always get severely constipated with every pregnancy. Right now I eat some Fiber One cereal for breakfast, so I hope it helps. I can feel the nausea starting. Last pregnancy I got it at 5.5 weeks. I remember because I was in the freaken emergency room when it started. Amy, try to stay away from heavy starchy foods, like breads and dairy also. They tend to constipate even more. I also drink lactaid because milk doesn't agree with me.

Oh and about the gas, I usually get it throughout pregnancy. . It sucks because when I was very far along it got to the point where I could barely hold it in, and I think I let a few out in front of hubby . I was so embarrassed. I know we have been married for 7 years, but I am not to the point of being comfortable farting in from of him. lol. I am a very timid person, so that was very embarrassing. But he knew I couldn't help it because of the pregnancy and all.

 

[mommylov]

Oh see that took me a while to be ok with too but we are very comfortable around each other since we've seen each other in just about any embarrassing situation you can think of

This bleeding has me so confused. Comes and goes. Nothing on my pad but still. I'm terrified what tomorrow will bring

 

[horseypants]

storked, i've missed you so. fingers crossed for you amy. jen, you're already so far along! angel, jen, everyone, hugs. me: no o yet! cd35. lots of

Oh!!!! i've complained about OH so many times, let me tell you, yesterday, we had the bEST day together. i needed that!

 

[mommylov]

storked, i've missed you so. fingers crossed for you amy. jen, you're already so far along! angel, jen, everyone, hugs. me: no o yet! cd35. lots of

Oh!!!! i've complained about OH so many times, let me tell you, yesterday, we had the bEST day together. i needed that!

Awww yay!!! So glad you had a great day!

 

[aaronswoman79]

Oh see that took me a while to be ok with too but we are very comfortable around each other since we've seen each other in just about any embarrassing situation you can think of

This bleeding has me so confused. Comes and goes. Nothing on my pad but still. I'm terrified what tomorrow will bring

So sorry about the bleeding. I have a feeling it might happen to me too. I am just trying to get myself mentally prepared if or when it does. You have your scan tomorrow, right? I had my first scan at 5w5d. They were only able to see the sac at that point. So just in case they can't find a heartbeat don't panic. They found my babies heartbeat at 6w2d. Everybody pregnancy. Or maybe they will find the heartbeat already. I'm just telling you so you don't worry if there is no detectable heartbeat yet. Sometimes it can take up to a little over 7 weeks. I have my fx that everything goes well. Oh and that's good that you and dh are so comfortable around each other. For some reason I just haven't gotten around to being able to "toot" in front of my dh. lol. I am sure I will get to that milestone eventually.

 

[lilesMom]

Just bled some more... Sigh. This just doesn't make sense

hey guys im playing catch up at mo and wil post properly in a min but had to answer this.
my sil had bleeding every day with one of her kids up till the last few months and my little niece that resulted is now 15 months and the cutest little button u ever did see
i know it is sooooo worrying, the word doesnt even cover it but keep in ur head it doesnt mean the worst. xxx
remember ur angel card, focus on what u want (not what u dont want) and it will rush into ur life as if by magic. xxx
what could be more magic then bfp and sticky bean. xx
love and hugs xxx

 

[lilesMom]

u usually cant see the heartbeat til at least 6 weeks, so def dont fret or expect them to be able to amy xxxx
it was a rather large haematoma that my sil had and it caused bleeding the whole time, she was very worried but everything was fine
she was induced 2 weeks early but other than that nothing maajor xx
there r 2 types of haematoma, the most likely one for u im pretty sure is the safer one, . the 2 types r according to where they r in relation to the baby. the fact that ur bleeding is coming out is actually better, cos it more than likely means the blister/bleed is below the baby xxxx
thtas my understanding from my sil anyway xx
they usualy sort themselves out they dont do anything usually for it, just monitor

oh and as for constipation, the best thing i have found and when u do feel sicky goes down ok, is home made smoothie or veg soup (veg soup wont allow its self to be eaten ervy day but smoothie will ) . i put in big tub natural yog, some cranberry, tub of blueberries, tub of strawberries , 2 bananas and some grapes. does me for 4 days i keep in fridge and it any left then i thorw it just in case
dried apricots r good too but dont have too many xxx

bethany sorry u have another uti, xxx hope ur better soon,
im goin to doc tomor and gettin him to check me too for one, been having annoying pains and goin to loo more often and am thinkin it may be one. better to get it checked anyway xx

angel , ur not out yet honey , fx for u xxxxxx
natasha glad af is gone xxx happy bding soon xxxxxxxxxx

jen sorry ur still feeling sick hon, sounds like u may need iv alright .
but just to let u knwo my pee is very concentrated too xx donno if maybe we have extra waste products nad prob extra need for water xxx

jessica, hope ur still feeling well xxxxxxxxxxxx

horsey, long cycle , u gonna test? what u think this month xxx

sorry if i missed anyone, im a bit sleepy xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

Thanks girls, that gives me hope. The cramping is what's throwing me off I don't know if its gas or if its the baby and the bleeding. Tomorrow can't come soon enough.

Bethany so sorry about the uti. Laura hope that isn't the case for you too. Jen hope you're feeling better. Jess hope the spotting stops soon. Love to the rest of you too! Xx

 

[horseypants]

lile's - i will test if i o. i've been temping so i definitely am keeping a careful watch. xxxx