ttc after a d&c

[SamsMum]

Hey everyone, been away for a few days but will have a good read. Hope you are all ok.

Cheryl - any symptoms???

xxxx

 

[CherylC3]

Hey lady got loads

Sore bbs
Up to pee thru the night
Little pinching pain
Greasy skin

Took a ic this morning and swear there is a faint shadow but il wait till sun now to see if it's a BFP or not. X

 

[jen435]

Samsmom how are you? Hope your well!

Bethany when will ur new cycle begin around? Im so happy you and dh decided to try again! are you feeling better and have you finished meds?

Laura yay! So glad your enjoying dh!!! fxd for bloodwork to be normal

Cheryl fxd for a sticky bean this cycle! Your symptoms sound promising!

Horseypants im so sorry your bodys playing tricks on you. I know that pregnancy feeling your talking about. Try not to think about it. Goodluck you should be ovulating soon!!! Hoping those swimmers catch the egg! Glad ur okay from that tick!

Mommyluv so glad your hcg levels are almost down for you! Youll be ttc again before you know it!!! sorry about fibroid but im sure your lil bean will know were to stick!

Lorna after d&c my cm was in crazy amounts all cycles so far up til day af showed. I ovulated cycle day 13-14 according to first response digital opk this cycle but im now cd 43 with a bfn confirmed by bloodwork and pg tests. So for you please read your body and go with your instincts everyones body reacts so differently. Have you tried opks? They are usually really good at tracking lh surge right before ovulation. Go digital though the lines are so complicated and only make ttc more stressful. hope your doing okay!

too everyone!

 

[mommylov]

Hi Ladies!

Thanks Jen, I hope so too!!! Next time we try, I think I need to look at my tummy and say "Go to the left!!!" lol

Cheryl, keeping my fingers crossed for you!!!!!

Lorna, Im still going through gettign regular so I dont really know I have a OPK at home but my dr said that since my levels were all over the place that it may not be accurate. I know everyone's body is different but I agree with Jen. Just go with your instincts. I hope that things get back to normal for you soon. Keep us posted!

lilesmom, hi!!! So glad to hear you are enjoying your time with dh.

Sams, how are you dear?

Horseypants, glad you got the tick out and all is well

If I missed anyone, so sorry. Always wishing everyone well!!

 

[lilesMom]

cheryl fx honey, hope ur our first bfp xxx first of many
lorna i felt like i did O like normal in the middle but i dont use opks cos i used um for tiny bit and didnt like um, my first af took 5.5 weeks to arrive but my second was only a day late and i had spotting on day it was due . so u prob are back to normal , woo hoo BD all the way, best o luck xx
hi jen, mommy lov , sams mum , horseypants and storked and again if i left anyone out soz xxxxx

 

[mommylov]

So just when I think I am doing great, something happens.

My childhood friend that was pregnant with us (She is 5 weeks ahead of where we were) just annouced her pregnancy on FB. She went through a mc earlier this year and then they got pg 2 months later. They went through the same thing dh and I are going through. She was talking about how scared she is but how she is starting to feel the baby kick. Her and I would always talk and she would kind of tell me what to expect next since she was just a month ahead of me. I am sooo happy for them but I was just reminded that we are not going to be feeling our baby kick come next month and we are not going to be having our baby a month after them... I hate being such a debbie-downer all the time when this kind of stuff comes up. I talk to DH about it whenever it starts to bother me and he is so great but I know he is greiving too so I try not to be so sad around him. Seems like everyone around me understood how I felt for a day and now they are kind of like "get over it". My surgery was 2 weeks ago from today and it just seems like yesterday I was looking at my lo's heart beating at the dr's office. I hate weak moments like this but I feel like this is the only place I can really voice all of my feelings and thoughts and emotions. Thanks for listening girls.

 

[lilesMom]

oh babe i know how u feel, it really s like people r surprised now when i mention lile r having been pregnant, its in my mind 24 7 really and every1 else has just forgotten. not through malice r anything but it just doesnt occur to um. they look at me like i got 2 heads sometimes cos i do say what preg syptoms i had if people are talkin about preg and i can almost hear them thinking sure what would she know she hasnt had a baby. but i have got and been preggers to me i am a mom, to lots im not . i feel ur pain hon, hope u have a better day tomro xxxxxxxxx big hugs xxxxxxxxx

 

[Storked]

Hugs mommy!
Jen, sorry I have been so absent. I have been trying not to obsess as much but then I login and have missed out on tons. I just can't win lol. But I feel better and meds are done! My new cycle will *hopefully* begin on the 19th. Fingers crossed! How are you?
Laura, I looooove you! How have you been? I need to get on here more dangit

 

[jen435]

Mommyluv im so sorry you feel that way. Trust me i know the feeling i felt my son kicking me i had a baby bump i saw his lil thing on the ultrasound and his heartbeating. He patted his head for me i have the picture of him doing it. My heart melted and i feel in love only to have the tech walkout the roomand the doctor tell me he isnt going to live. I saw a perfect in my eyes little boy on the screen cute little nose sawhis whole face anatomy and learned i had to terminate the pregnancy. Mmy heartbroke instantly the day i learned i was having a son. My family and froends too just dont understandthey just day oh youl have a kid one day and gwt to experience what real pregnancy is like. I just want to scream i was pregnant i did experience it loss ur child after.seeing it alive then maybe they will get it... Im so thankful for you ladies also! This will make us stronger amd appreciate all our babies have to ofer evem when they push our buttons. We will have our rainbow babys but for now i dont mind being just a mommy of an angel and child is a gift even if god meeds the child back he must have better plams for some babies.

Hugs to all and lots of babydust!!

Bethany im so glad your better and off meds!

 

[jen435]

Sorry for all typos my dh keyboard on cell is tiny!

 

[LornaMJ]

Thanks everyone for your input, I have had positive OPK so hard at it (sorry if TMI) lol Now for the TWW (again)!!!

Jen and mommyluv so sorry to hear what you have both been through. It is always so hard to hear friends and family around you talking about their pregnancies, I always feel guilty for not feeling excited when I hear someone is pg, I particularly struggled when I found out my SIL was pg and even more so now my gorgeous niece is 1.5 I cant help but feel sad. I am sure however, that we will be the ones enjoying being PG and mummies.

Babydust to you all

 

[jen435]

Thanks lorna! You are correct we all have our moments of sadness and jealousy but im so glad we have eachother to over come it! Goodluck!!! Im very excited for you!

Maybe this will be a lucky thread soon with some bfps and hopefully we all will have ours soon! Even you liliesmom! Fxd for your bloodwork to come back normal soon!

 

[CherylC3]

hey did a frer and got my bfp this morning 11dpo...cant wait for u ladies to join me...xx

 

[LornaMJ]

hey did a frer and got my bfp this morning 11dpo...cant wait for u ladies to join me...xx

Wow huge congrats Always great to hear some good news!!!

 

[CherylC3]

Thanks Hun. Xx

 

[Storked]

Congrats!

 

[SamsMum]

Massive congrats Cheryl!! So happy for you!! xx

 

[mommylov]

Congrats Cheryl!!!

Thank you Lilesmom. I am so sorry that we all had to go through our loses but I am just trying to keep the faith that this too shall pass and our wounds will heal. We will heal but never forget.

Jen, LOTS of hugs to you . My loss was devestating and I was only 10 wks. I cant imagine what you went through. I too cant say enough how grateful I am for you ladies and want nothing more than for all of us to heal and have our LO's that we so long for.

Lorna, youre right, it is hard sometimes to be happy for our friends and loved ones. Although I really do get excited and happy for others, I would be liying if I said that a part of me doesnt ache when I hear the news but life goes on and I certainly am happy when I hear that others' dreams are coming true.

Hugs to you too storked and glad to hear that you are done withthe meds. fx for af to come on the 19th or sooner for you!

 

[jen435]

Yay!!!! Our first bfp!!! wooohoo!!! Praying for many more to follow!!! Cheryl wishing you and happy and healthy 9 monthes!!! i just know your baby will be beautiful!!! Congtats!

 

[CherylC3]

Thanks ladies I'm just really hoping its my third time lucky. Xx