ttc after a d&c

[xoxo4angel]

 

[mommylov]

My heart really does ache for you... I cant say it enough but Im sending lots and lots of love and hugs to you. I just want to come and pick you up and have a girls day!

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[TTCSecrets]

I know, its time like this i really wish you girls were in the uk or vice versa, so i could just ring you and say girls, im really struggling can you please come round for a cuddle and a chat I know it sounds realy daft, but you guys have to come to be the truest friends that i have.. And it just sucks that i cant invite you all round for a cuppa tea and a cuddle Especially when we need it...

I want my baby..now...Im not prepared to wait anymore girls lol im really not, im not using this like a competition with my cousin, but this is unjustice, thats the word... xx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Thanks angel, i mean i have told chris that im sorry if im sharp, and he is really calm and patient so he does take it in, and he will leave me to it, he takes my comments and smiles at me and says, i still love you bunny... So i think he knows im sorry, but i just dont wanna argue with him, ive got that stressed i actually have a pain in the right side ovary area.. I believe stress can cause pains..

Was just looking into fertility acupuncture. looks itneresting, dont like needles though lol xx

 

[mommylov]

Seriously Natasha...this is going to impact your relationship with your OH. It's in our nature to lash out at the one's we love and he is in your crosshairs. Sever your relationship with your cousin and focus on all of the positives you and your OH have. Sending peaceful thoughts your way...this is NOT how you were supposed to be spending your day off!

I TOTALLY agree

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[TTCSecrets]

hahah angel!!! Thats so funny!!!

Chris woke me up this morning by sticking my thermometer in my mouth Lol! I just gave him such a disaproving face and he looked and smiled and said ... " Bunny, if i didnt wake you up to take you temperature you would have been more mad than me waking you up to take your temperature" So i was like this is true hah!!

But i woke up star fishing on the bed so god knows how he slept comfortably last night lol! He always puts me first bless him xxx

 

[mommylov]

hahahah Angel thats hillarious! I would totally skype with you girls!

I was bad and when I started mc this time, I have had a cup of soda here and there I dont have anything when ttc though

 

[mommylov]

hahah angel!!! Thats so funny!!!

Chris woke me up this morning by sticking my thermometer in my mouth Lol! I just gave him such a disaproving face and he looked and smiled and said ... " Bunny, if i didnt wake you up to take you temperature you would have been more mad than me waking you up to take your temperature" So i was like this is true hah!!

But i woke up star fishing on the bed so god knows how he slept comfortably last night lol! He always puts me first bless him xxx

awww he sounds like a doll

 

[TTCSecrets]

I drink about 20 cups of tea a day Should i stop ? Could that be why im not conceiving?

I know as soon as i conceived with first pg, i went off tea straight away, even the smell made me sick xxxx

 

[mommylov]

I tend to stay away from it when ttc.. actually I stop before ttc and concieved right away both times. My dr tells me that it isnt good to consume it while ttc. So I have had a cup of soda here and there since my recent mc but in about a week or so, Im stopping again. By that time, I should be a month away before I cycle and ttc but again totally up to you. I always say that back in the day, people smoked and did all sorts of things and had healthy babies but knowing what we know now makes up better equiped.

 

[TTCSecrets]

thats true ames..

I just dont know what else i can do to hurry this along.. Are u waiting for first AF Ames? xxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

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[mommylov]

I know, my mom too! She ate pretty much what she wanted. Its funny now with all that she knows and when I got pregnant the sencond time she was telling me "Dont eat pineapples or papaya or this or that" Im like um did you do all this when you were preggers? I def think cutting out the caffeine will help though!

 

[mommylov]

It amazes me how ANY of us were born...My mother had a few cocktails, drank her Pepsi and was exposed to my Dad's second hand smoke, yet she managed to have 4 healthy children! Here I am TTC and my specialist has me avoiding caffeine, alcohol (aside from the occasional glass of wine) and nearly has me on a gluten free diet! Tash, I don't know if there are clinical studies that show fertility is directly impacted by caffeine, but many books about TTC (and my Dr) say to cut it out. You shouldn't consume more than 80mg of caffeine a day (about 1 cup). Can you switch to decaf?

Confession: The day AF comes I will allow myself a cup of coffee and I'll have more than a glass of Everyone needs a cheat day and I figure that is the safest! (I hope!)

Af is not coming for you but thats just what I did lol. When I was almost done misscarrying I had some wine and it was wonderful to say hello to an old friend

 

[TTCSecrets]

Angel i tried decaf and it tasted like fairy liquid I dont know, i feel really emotional today, ive just told oh about my cousins texts today cos hes just come back from work and not happy to say the least Says im too nice to people xxx

 

[xoxo4angel]