ttc after a d&c

[Storked]

lilesMom, I'm not too lonely. I'm rather a hermit I can make a good show of being social but it is so mentally draining lol!
Jen, yay for period! I haven't tried the test I'm afraid

 

[lilesMom]

me neither jen sorry hurray for af though

 

[jen435]

lilesMom, I'm not too lonely. I'm rather a hermit I can make a good show of being social but it is so mentally draining lol!
Jen, yay for period! I haven't tried the test I'm afraid

Aww well im sure you ovulated! i am praying you get your bfp this month! We are here for you!

Ive came to peace with myself. If its not this month im ok but i will definately be upset if its not next month. Goal is by end of summer... Praying it happens some how.

Bethany the soy that u take when did u start it and how many mg did u take? Its suppost to help you ovulate like clomid does right? Its just more natural? Does the brand matter? I was thinking of drinking soy chocolate milk but wasnt sure if it was the same.

 

[jen435]

Thanks!!! Im excited to actually know where i stand! My ob called me today and when i told her it came she said good bc they wouldnt even try to start it unless i was 3months late. I woulda went nuts. I hope you get yours soon!

 

[Storked]

lilesMom, I'm not too lonely. I'm rather a hermit I can make a good show of being social but it is so mentally draining lol!
Jen, yay for period! I haven't tried the test I'm afraid

Aww well im sure you ovulated! i am praying you get your bfp this month! We are here for you!

Ive came to peace with myself. If its not this month im ok but i will definately be upset if its not next month. Goal is by end of summer... Praying it happens some how.

Bethany the soy that u take when did u start it and how many mg did u take? Its suppost to help you ovulate like clomid does right? Its just more natural? Does the brand matter? I was thinking of drinking soy chocolate milk but wasnt sure if it was the same.

I am the same way. I am no longer obsessed with conceiving this month. Am considering not even bothering peeing on OPKs anymore. Too tired. I'd rather temp and check CM. It'll happen Jen
The soy...I picked some up at Walmart. They were in a green bottle with a yellow label. Nature something or other brand. I started out taking 160 but the last the days I went to 200 mg. I started on CD1 and I think it helped my hormones balance things out. I have a friend who is just now getting her AF after a D&C and it will be bleeding and then just a trickle. Not sure if it matters how you ingest it. Perhaps ask some girls on the soy posts? Good luck

 

[lilesMom]

how ye doin guys, my few good days were just that a few good days. im feeling a bit blah again. im missing my oh and feeling achy in tummy. think it is prob af wanting to start, in 2 days i will be 5 weeks post d and c.
im off work today but dont wanna go do anything and am bored sittin in on my own. ive turned into such a moan. i need akick in the ass really i think. things could be worse for me, im trying to focus on positives but some days r harder than others
i am much better than i was a few weeks ago though.
i had my little nieces christening on sunday, it was lovely. but i met my sis in law who is due within 2 days of my due date and i cant stop thinking since that i should have a matching little bump , she is 4 months now as i should be. i feel bad but i feel a bit jealous of her bump. i wish i still had mine too.

 

[Storked]

how ye doin guys, my few good days were just that a few good days. im feeling a bit blah again. im missing my oh and feeling achy in tummy. think it is prob af wanting to start, in 2 days i will be 5 weeks post d and c.
im off work today but dont wanna go do anything and am bored sittin in on my own. ive turned into such a moan. i need akick in the ass really i think. things could be worse for me, im trying to focus on positives but some days r harder than others
i am much better than i was a few weeks ago though.
i had my little nieces christening on sunday, it was lovely. but i met my sis in law who is due within 2 days of my due date and i cant stop thinking since that i should have a matching little bump , she is 4 months now as i should be. i feel bad but i feel a bit jealous of her bump. i wish i still had mine too.

I think if you fight sadness too hard it will bite you in the ass later. Be sad and get it out of your system
I am so sorry. Rough. I have FB friends due when I was and I hate that they are founding out the gender. Also my sister is having her baby. Not sad, just resentful over here on this end lol

 

[horseypants]

jen, i keep meaning to try it but i always forget when the time comes around

hi everyone.... i feel you on the other stuff. i'm a bit blah too! trying to hang in here and at least not be mad at myself that im jealous and moody ; )

i'm trying to really drink in the happy moments too. -and im a bit excited to ttc again this cycle.

o. and i wish i could quit my job and be barefoot and pg but i can't afford it and well, the other part apparently is not that easy either

 

[Storked]

I'm currently barefoot but not pregnant

 

[lilesMom]

i love being barefoot but my cat bites my feet my own fault i played with him with my feet and hands when he was small and couldnt hurt me and he now thinks its acceptable

 

[Storked]

i love being barefoot but my cat bites my feet my own fault i played with him with my feet and hands when he was small and couldnt hurt me and he now thinks its acceptable

It is too hot for shoes! Was over a 100 degrees yesterday *shudders*
My cat would regret attacking my feet

 

[lilesMom]

lol! my cat acts like he owns my house at least ive learned my lesson for when i do have kids, start as i mean to go on and dont let them away with too much. ( but im far too soft ) .

 

[Storked]

lol! my cat acts like he owns my house at least ive learned my lesson for when i do have kids, start as i mean to go on and dont let them away with too much. ( but im far too soft ) .

By soft you mean nice
I admit, I find it easier to manipulate children into behaving themselves by being a friend. No idea how to parent

 

[lilesMom]

thanks u too. yeah i do the same, im the over grown buddy its fun though

 

[jen435]

Definately easier to act like a friend to kids. I have no idea how to parent either. Perhaps we learn as they grow? So glad they start off as babies!

 

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Definately easier to act like a friend to kids. I have no idea how to parent either. Perhaps we learn as they grow? So glad they start off as babies!

We must because all those books make me sound like I need to be a stuffed shirt. Doesn't that foster rebellion? I think it is a game of balancing...friendly enough that they generally obey out of love and respect and just scary enough that they regret the times they don't toe the line

 

[lilesMom]

totally agree with ye both think it should come naturally enough ( i hope ), ive 36 nieces and nephews so i know a few pit falls to look out for but im sure il make loads of mistakes. as long as they r little mistakes i dont mind

 

[lilesMom]

silly qs but how do u get the cute count down things in ur signature, like the ones that say how long since ur loss?

one week down , 4 to go, come back OH

 

[Storked]

lilesMom, for the loss tickers I'd google lilypie and go from there. And you totally beat me on niece/nephew count. I just have 16

 

[lilesMom]

thanks babe, ive been an aunt since i was 1 and a gran aunt since i was 23 ( i think) how u today? still on a wait? too early for any news?
im goooonnnnaaaa be soooo excited if u get ur bfp this month . i really hope u do, jen too.