ttc after a d&c

try again in the morn amy u never know :) but yeah i know its tough decision cos dont wanna be dissappointed and doesnt mean ur not preg if u get bfn now, dilema, :) there is aday when hcg is high enough to change ffrom bfn to bfp though :)
pregnology website says there is a chance u get bfp on 12 dpo but if u dont could still be preg :) fx for u sweetie, xxxxxxxxxxxx

Funny that you mentioned that because I just went on there to check too! Yup, says that I should test on thursday... Im scared and anxious!
 
Ladies thank you thank you thank you!!! My next beta test is friday!!! It was very very low hcg. We will see what fri brings!!!

8 pages u ladies are on a roll im gonna try to play catch up tonight. Have six hrs of work to go!! Hope your all okay! <3

:dust:
 
Natasha... guess what I did... went to the store at lunch and bought 2 (3) hpt packs... I want to pee on one the next time I go to the restroom here at work so bad! lol Laura gave me hope again!
 
Just poas... :bfn: 10dpo..... I think Im out this month :sadangel:

Just waiting for :witch: at this point.... :cry:
 
we talk too much everyday to catch up :) think u know most o the news anyway :) :) xxx welcome back x

Lately, I feel like I cant keep up the way some of you do and I end up saying something stupid or wrong or I miss someone or something. I know a big part of it is that Im just in a down/sad mood and Im really not trying to be like ME ME ME.. so Im sorry.

Welcome back Bethany, you were truly missed :hugs:

Crystal, welcome and I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you find comfort with the girls here, they are a wonderful supportive group.

Wishing you all the best always and :dust:

You can never say anything stupid to us Amy :hugs:. Sometimes we feel positive others times negative. I know how you feel, especially with the sad mood. Some days I feel better, like I am on top of the world, and all of the sudden the next day I feel like complete utter sh*t! I am starting to think I might have a mood disorder, or maybe I am bipolar and this whole miscarriage has brought it out?? Try to keep your chin up hon, I know its easier said than done. Because right now I am thinking to myself, I can barely follow the advice that I am giving your :(
 
we talk too much everyday to catch up :) think u know most o the news anyway :) :) xxx welcome back x

Lately, I feel like I cant keep up the way some of you do and I end up saying something stupid or wrong or I miss someone or something. I know a big part of it is that Im just in a down/sad mood and Im really not trying to be like ME ME ME.. so Im sorry.

Welcome back Bethany, you were truly missed :hugs:

Crystal, welcome and I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you find comfort with the girls here, they are a wonderful supportive group.

Wishing you all the best always and :dust:

You can never say anything stupid to us Amy :hugs:. Sometimes we feel positive others times negative. I know how you feel, especially with the sad mood. Some days I feel better, like I am on top of the world, and all of the sudden the next day I feel like complete utter sh*t! I am starting to think I might have a mood disorder, or maybe I am bipolar and this whole miscarriage has brought it out?? Try to keep your chin up hon, I know its easier said than done. Because right now I am thinking to myself, I can barely follow the advice that I am giving your :(

Thanks hun! I know our emotions are all over the place, huh? Before you start to think something is wrong, really take into consideration all that you have been through. To me, it sounds like all your emotions are valid and normal so I wouldnt say that you have anything wrong with you. It just takes time I guess for us to really accept things for what they are and really try and find our inner peace. A big part of that for me is you ladies so thank you so much! We'll get through this together! :hugs::hugs::hugs:
 
He will be gone from the 12-29. IF my cycle is back on track and we don't catch the egg on this first go (which I am not counting on), then my next O should be around 29 Oct. I should point this out to him and see if he can come back Friday the 26. I mean who really works on the weekends...surely I'm getting ahead of myself. So much for trying to be romantic, "Honey, you need to come home on the 26th so we can make a baby. Or we need to make a :spermy: deposit before you go!"

lol. Its like they are a sperm bank literally!! Only I am starting to get scared that maybe my husband has a problem with his sperm count?? He has been under so much stress and pressure these last few years. I have no basis to think he has low sperm count, but I am so paranoid that maybe they are damaged. I inspect him to make sure he is wearing nothing too tight in that area, I am even scared for him to take very hot showers. I think I'm going being crazy :wacko:
 
Ooooo, well i got 9 tests for £20 the FRER ones, so i think i might do the whole, one test every morning thing, as it will take me to about 16dpo, and see if they get more positive ( or positive at all ), if not by then ill know im out this month.

I might goole and see if acid reflux is a pregnancy symptom and hiccups, all ive done today and yesterday is hiccup and get reflux :/ hmmm, or i could just be fantasizing :D No harm in wishful thinking i guess! xxx

Acid reflux was one of my first pregnancy symptoms in all 3 pregnancies. Though I never got it this early. But with my last pregnancy that I mc, 2 days right before my period was due, I woke up with bad acid reflux and decided to take a pregnancy test, I got my first positive that morning!
 
ive just worked out from my last pregnancy that i tested positive on 9dpo 10dpo at the latest, and that was with 11pm diluted pee, im hoping i have that luck again this time round, ive already been writing down octobers fertile days i my diary as i feel out this month, im not even really sad about it, i mean i am, but, i feel complacent just like for gods sake whatever lol! So im plotting my diary with all my fertil days for next month and ive just ordered 60 ( extreme i know but might satisfy my poas addiction ) opks for next month and ordered a bbt thermometer. Will do it properly next month , and if that dont work, in november im going to completely let loose, not plot anything apart from temperatures.. this is my plan :)

i mean to a certain extent i have this instinct that i am indeed pregnant again, but then im thinking, no, you want to be pregnant which is very different from actually being pregnant, i have no sore boobs like last time, ive gone off sex like last time but i think that purely is the stress. i mean im not gonna lie to you girls, in the relationship its me that wants :sex: all the time and he takes it as he gets it, and normally im all for sexual inuendos and him jokily saying what he wants to do to me later, and he made a reference earlier and i just gave him this disgusted i dont think so look, and even when i said no because i cant be bothered because the bed is too noisy, he said u wait til we move in on our own on saturday ;) Which i have been looking forward to sexually for 6 months, but im just like meh nope dont really feel like it, which i honestly believe 100% is the stress of being in the bedroom between his mum and partner on one side, and his two brothers on the other side so having to literally be quiet like mice, and also having to plan sex, literally, without even TTC, we have to plan sex to when everyones asleep or when everyones out which is rarer than finding a hundred pound in my handbagEDIT: which also makes me think thats why im so tired, because his fmaily dont go to bed til like midnight, i go to bed at 10 shattered and have to wait til gone midnight just so everyone is asleep so we can bd, and doing that the past few weeks has knackered me out, again, i been thinking im pregnant cos im tired but it all has logical explanations :( RANT OVER :) xxx
 
ladies thank you thank you thank you!!! My next beta test is friday!!! It was very very low hcg. We will see what fri brings!!!

8 pages u ladies are on a roll im gonna try to play catch up tonight. Have six hrs of work to go!! Hope your all okay! <3

:dust:

woohoo jen is my bump buddy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

yey hurray yipeee xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
 
Natasha, it will be so nice once you guys are in your own place. Youll find the fun in it again.. going from room to room... doing it on YOUR terms and not around everyone elses bed times. This weekend cant come fast enough for a lot of us! Once you are in your own place, I hope that you can be relaxed more and not have to stress about these stuff anymore! In the meantime, is the floor or heck.. the car out? lol
 
Just poas... :bfn: 10dpo..... I think Im out this month :sadangel:

Just waiting for :witch: at this point.... :cry:

its still too early sweetie, u cant tell from a bfn at the mo, only from a bfp :)
it would be a very early unusual bfp at this stage, its more normally got at day af is due r later , my last time i got bfns til day af was due , i was lucky i got it 2 days early this time :)
please dont let bfn get u down, it doesnt mean anything at this early stage xxxxxxxxx
 
ladies thank you thank you thank you!!! My next beta test is friday!!! It was very very low hcg. We will see what fri brings!!!

8 pages u ladies are on a roll im gonna try to play catch up tonight. Have six hrs of work to go!! Hope your all okay! <3

:dust:

woohoo jen is my bump buddy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

yey hurray yipeee xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Oh I missred this!!! Jen, are you officially taking that as a pos?!?!!? If you are then YIPEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!! I guess its not official until your ticker is updated.. lol jk!
 
Just poas... :bfn: 10dpo..... I think Im out this month :sadangel:

Just waiting for :witch: at this point.... :cry:

its still too early sweetie, u cant tell from a bfn at the mo, only from a bfp :)
it would be a very early unusual bfp at this stage, its more normally got at day af is due r later , my last time i got bfns til day af was due , i was lucky i got it 2 days early this time :)
please dont let bfn get u down, it doesnt mean anything at this early stage xxxxxxxxx

I hope youre right.. I cant take this anymore :cry:. I have all sorts of aches and gassiness (Sorry tmi) but no sore boobs.. just dont know what to make of all of it :shrug:
 
my bad, maybe i got it wrong, if there is low hcg isnt that a bfp ?? its the baby makes the hcg so if not pos how can u have hcg? it shows up in blood before pee, so hope i took it up right xxxxxx when i got faint pos i still kept checking in case it was chemical and my af would still come, but tis gettin stronger line every day, oooohhhhhh it better work this time :) xxx for both of us xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
 
Just poas... :bfn: 10dpo..... I think Im out this month :sadangel:


I hope youre right.. I cant take this anymore :cry:. I have all sorts of aches and gassiness (Sorry tmi) but no sore boobs.. just dont know what to make of all of it :shrug:

my signs of preg are different this time to last time, i had no boob pain last time, no crying and hardly no signs this early. i feel different this time and im hoping its a good sign, xxx
 
my bad, maybe i got it wrong, if there is low hcg isnt that a bfp ?? its the baby makes the hcg so if not pos how can u have hcg? it shows up in blood before pee, so hope i took it up right xxxxxx when i got faint pos i still kept checking in case it was chemical and my af would still come, but tis gettin stronger line every day, oooohhhhhh it better work this time :) xxx for both of us xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Yup, I think youre right!!! It will!!! I cant wait and sooo excited for you guys!!! :happydance:
 
Just poas... :bfn: 10dpo..... I think Im out this month :sadangel:


I hope youre right.. I cant take this anymore :cry:. I have all sorts of aches and gassiness (Sorry tmi) but no sore boobs.. just dont know what to make of all of it :shrug:

my signs of preg are different this time to last time, i had no boob pain last time, no crying and hardly no signs this early. i feel different this time and im hoping its a good sign, xxx

Me too, except for this time I have no sore boobs, peeing normal (I think) but I cant remember if all this came before or after I officially got my bfp. I guess thats whats making me question whether I am pg or not. I thought for sure I was last week and then then week I have had all sorts of doubts... I just really wish I knew either way but am REALLY hoping to be pg. :baby:
 
i was the same hon, first week in tww wait i was so sure, i had a few days doubt ( even though i still had syptoms :) ) and then i thought i was but was afraid it was me wishing for it :) xxx best o luck chick ,i so hope we rbump buddies soon xxx
 

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