ttc after a d&c

[xoxo4angel]

Can you ask for a personal day? I really wish I were closer so I could scoop you up for a long lunch! It will be alright.

 

[horseypants]

amy, thinking of you. ask them to test hcg quant twice. if things are going well, ask for the progesterone and be pushy. i wish i had done this my last time around. xoxoxoxox keep us updated. i havent said much but have been checking in on you ladies.

 

[mommylov]

Thanks girls. If I take a personal day, then I will just be at home alone until DH comes home so that wont be any good. I wish you ladies were here too... I am STILL tryin gto get a hold of my dr's assistant. My dr I guess is on call today. My nerves are all shot and I have been really thinking about asking for another dr. I am on hold at the moment with the front desk and they are trying to help me get a hold of her right now. I have been calling them like a mad lady and I hate doing that but I really need answers as to whether I am in fact pregnant or not or whats going on.

 

[mommylov]

Just talked to my dr (FINALLY) .. she looked over my second results and said Im not pregnant. She said that sometimes you can have certain protiens in your blood that will make a urine test come out pos but that the blood test is more accurate. She cancelled my appt for tomorrow and told me to call back in 2 weeks if I dont get my period. So back to the drawing board I guess....

 

[xoxo4angel]

Noooooo!

I have NEVER heard of this before.

 

[xoxo4angel]

Maybe the lesson to be learned here is that you are not getting the attention you need from this Dr. Why would she cancel your appointment instead of doing follow-up blood work. I just don't get why Dr's act like it's a HUGE deal to draw blood...they should start the basic fertility labs on you. Grrr.... I need to come talk to them!

 

[mommylov]

Go figure I am the first to have this happen. She wants me to wait 2 weeks and if I dont get my period by then, then she wants me to come in. I read up a little about this and they said that it COULD be a sign of cancer but Im not sure if that is true. I am so beyond heartbroken. To see af come is one thing but to get 5 pos hpt? Such a blow...

 

[xoxo4angel]

Oh Amy! What is anyone to believe anymore...now they are telling us its possible to get 100 +ve HPTs, but its still not a sign of pregnancy. I want to read more on this protein...

Now is the time I wish I had a private jet, I could come wait with you while DH is at work! <~~~not exactly a G6!

 

[xoxo4angel]

Out of curiosity, did she say where your period was? Why it is late?

 

[mommylov]

She tells me at the end of the phonecall "... call me in two weeks though if you dont get your period M'kaaaaay? Keep trying!!!". Ya ok, why the heck should I keep trying when obv something is not right with my body.

 

[mommylov]

Out of curiosity, did she say where your period was? Why it is late?

Nope, all she said was that I needed to come back if it didnt come in 2 weeks.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Ugh I just want to cry.. I called the drs office and my dr or her assistant werent there and I asked to talk to a triage nurse. She only gave me my progesterone levels which were at 8.53. She told me that they didnt do a quant and that they did another qual but she sounded really confused. I told her about my 5 + and one of those being a CB Digital and she said those are not too sensitive so she was stumped. Im worried this isnt a viable pregnancy

Hi luv . Just wanted to say, hon aren't you barely 4 weeks pregnant yet? You oved late right? I know this is hard to do, but please please try not to get stressed! I know I should practice what I preach because I will also get very worried next time I get pg. I think the reason why your progesterone might be a little low is because you are so early on. When was af due? As of yesterday you took these tests right? What dpo were you yesterday? And another thing, sorry but that nurse sounds clueless.

 

[xoxo4angel]

She (your Dr) sounds rather dismissive...please tell me you still have the appointment with the fertility clinic?

I'm surprised the protein in urine didn't prompt her to want to know WHY you had so much that it could cause a false +ve.

I hope all FS are like mine...she looked at me like a puzzle and wanted to fit all the pieces together. She left no stone unturned!

 

[aaronswoman79]

isit it just! after not having a good doctor since childhood this women was a god send! all of the other doc there are grumpy old men. i have nothing further to say on them you probs know what i am on about! does everyone around you seem to be pregnant when you are ttc? i swear every other person i see has a bump! :-o x

So sorry for your loss geegirl! I know what you mean about everybody being pregnant. There are pregnant women everywhere, I have also been seeing a lot of pregnant dogs around here lately! Its kinda weird actually. That is one thing I notice that I won't even mention to hubby, he is gonna thing I am wacko. lol. One of the many things I come and share on here with all my non-judgmental ttcer!!

 

[mommylov]

She (your Dr) sounds rather dismissive...please tell me you still have the appointment with the fertility clinic?

I'm surprised the protein in urine didn't prompt her to want to know WHY you had so much that it could cause a false +ve.

I hope all FS are like mine...she looked at me like a puzzle and wanted to fit all the pieces together. She left no stone unturned!

The fertility clinic near me didnt have anything available until after thanksgiving so I got put on the cancel list incase someone was a no show. I might look into seeing if there is another fc near me.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Just talked to my dr (FINALLY) .. she looked over my second results and said Im not pregnant. She said that sometimes you can have certain protiens in your blood that will make a urine test come out pos but that the blood test is more accurate. She cancelled my appt for tomorrow and told me to call back in 2 weeks if I dont get my period. So back to the drawing board I guess....

Nooooooooooooooooooooooo. I don't want to believe her Amy. I am not trying to give false hopes but there are many women who took a while to get a positive on there blood test. All I am saying is, just wait it out. You never know. How can 3 poas show positive. Protein in the urine?? Right around the time af is due? I am confused by what she said.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Go figure I am the first to have this happen. She wants me to wait 2 weeks and if I dont get my period by then, then she wants me to come in. I read up a little about this and they said that it COULD be a sign of cancer but Im not sure if that is true. I am so beyond heartbroken. To see af come is one thing but to get 5 pos hpt? Such a blow...

Amy, I wish I could get on a plane right now and spend time with you in Colorado! I wish it were that easy. But hon, this is too much of a coincidence. You are getting positives right before af is due? Go and take another blood test. Maybe this one was not accurate enough, maybe they didn't get enough blood in the vile. I feel like crying right now... I am crying now. I have not lost hope for you. Just give it a few days. Maybe they didn't do the blood test right. I have never heard of this happening.

 

[aaronswoman79]

She tells me at the end of the phonecall "... call me in two weeks though if you dont get your period M'kaaaaay? Keep trying!!!". Ya ok, why the heck should I keep trying when obv something is not right with my body.

Wow, she sure sounds sympathetic. I will tell you one thing, if this doctor is wrong, or didn't read the test right, or missed something. Or just did something wrong, I would switch doctors right away. Because just imagine you could still be pregnant, and if you are, the doctor put you through unnecessary hell.

 

[xoxo4angel]

Amy ~ I hope someone cancels and you get in ASAP! Be sure you have the dates of your last +ve OPKs when you go. My Dr went ahead and started the CD21 blood work because I kept such good records! (A benefit of being obsessive!) Wish this day would hurry up for you...I'll be thinking of you and your DH.

Jess ~ Hi.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Remember how I told all of you I got a positive smiley face on my ov test? I told my husband I could be oving at that time (2 days ago). Because my boobies were sore and I was feeling symptoms. I told him I probably never oved 2 weeks ago, remember I was on a lot of medicines with that bad tooth. Well, being as concerned and on the same page as me with ttc, after I told him this he went to sleep and that took care of that. I told him yesterday that I could be oving still and guess what he did? Went right to sleep! And now my sore boobs are gone and no symptoms and guess what all my frer tests are negative. I was never pregnant. I was probably oving! And my husband screwed everything up!