ttc after a d&c

[mommylov]

I wouldve thought that she would say "Come in so I can see if it is infact a protein issue" because if its not, then that would explain a lot more about my spotting I have been having this week which btw is still happening today. I am thinking that my body is trying to let af happen but because my progenterone levels arent where they need to be, then thats why I am not have a full on period. I did the first 2 so why I wouldnt now I dont know. Between not being able to get a fertility dr to see me and this, I kind of just want to give up.

 

[xoxo4angel]

Jeez Jessica. What happened to the DH who couldn't keep his paws off of you? I know so many husbands who would LOVE to have their wife initiating and hinting around for We really can't win, can we? *sigh*

 

[xoxo4angel]

I wouldve thought that she would say "Come in so I can see if it is infact a protein issue" because if its not, then that would explain a lot more about my spotting I have been having this week which btw is still happening today. I am thinking that my body is trying to let af happen but because my progenterone levels arent where they need to be, then thats why I am not have a full on period. I did the first 2 so why I wouldnt now I dont know. Between not being able to get a fertility dr to see me and this, I kind of just want to give up.

You can't give up! You just can't!

Addition: I too am shocked they didn't want to do a urinalysis.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Am I wrong to say that you still might be pregnant Amy? How definitive are those tests. Are they much stronger than a urine test? I am completely ignorant about these tests.

 

[mommylov]

UGh, no cancellations yet.. made an appt for dec 5th...
Im wondering if I should go back to my dr's office and request a different dr and get a second opinion.. .is that bad to do? Im wondering since they all work together, they may not like it if you "bad mouth", so to speak, a collegue of thiers.

 

[mommylov]

Am I wrong to say that you still might be pregnant Amy? How definitive are those tests. Are they much stronger than a urine test? I am completely ignorant about these tests.

Ya, the dr said those are the more reliable than urine tests.

 

[aaronswoman79]

I second that Angel! Gosh this Nov. 1st is not turning out good. On top of everything it is the 3 month anniversary of my traumatic miscarriage. It happened on Aug. 1 and I was hoping the have a pregnancy surprise today. Angel I am on the verge of just giving up with this man, and going to get inseminated. I am to the point where all I want is his swimmers because he has not been supportive, and he acts like a child every time it is ov time. At times I feel like he just wants to go against me and when I need him to bd with me he seems opposed to it.

 

[TTCSecrets]

Angel, temp is still above coverline, expecting it to drop tomorrow and welcome AF lol! Been checking all day thinking it was coming and it hasnt done yet, its due today and its almost 9pm no sign yet, another bfn on frer.. Although, you know how af should come on average 14 days after ovulation, i had my positive opk a fortnight ago today, but if i didnt ovulate until two days after that would mean my af would come two days later than the two weeks after pos opk :S So now im thinking well maybe af could come anytime this weekend :S

Geegirl hey and welcome,sorry for your loss!! You will be fine on this forum, these ladies are the nicest set of women youll ever meet! and i truly mean that and they know i do!

Amy thats ridiculous ?!?!?! I thought the main phrase was * A POSITIVE IS A POSITIVE* I read that no vitamins or proteins or anything can make a positive , the only things that can are certain fertility treatments?!

No amy dont request anything at your doctors...DEMAND THE TESTS!! Its alright for them to say oh well come back in two weeks, she doesnt know what the hell two weeks is like for us ttcers especially after a loss!

I am so mad .. I actually just burst out crying while writing this and then when DH asked what was wrong it was a mixture of *Amys doctors are shit telling her to come back in two weeks* * work was crap* *AF isnt here yet but im not pregnant either* God i let rip and burst out crying. So hes doing what he does best, look at me like ive cracked up and now hes gone to the shop to buy me donuts :S He wonders why im putting weight on..because he feeds my sorrows xxxx

 

[aaronswoman79]

Am I wrong to say that you still might be pregnant Amy? How definitive are those tests. Are they much stronger than a urine test? I am completely ignorant about these tests.

Ya, the dr said those are the more reliable than urine tests.

So are they going to look into why you got a positive urine test? Or at least take another blood test to make sure? They can't leave you hanging Amy. They just can't

 

[aaronswoman79]

Angel, temp is still above coverline, expecting it to drop tomorrow and welcome AF lol! Been checking all day thinking it was coming and it hasnt done yet, its due today and its almost 9pm no sign yet, another bfn on frer.. Although, you know how af should come on average 14 days after ovulation, i had my positive opk a fortnight ago today, but if i didnt ovulate until two days after that would mean my af would come two days later than the two weeks after pos opk :S So now im thinking well maybe af could come anytime this weekend :S

Geegirl hey and welcome,sorry for your loss!! You will be fine on this forum, these ladies are the nicest set of women youll ever meet! and i truly mean that and they know i do!

Amy thats ridiculous ?!?!?! I thought the main phrase was * A POSITIVE IS A POSITIVE* I read that no vitamins or proteins or anything can make a positive , the only things that can are certain fertility treatments?!

No amy dont request anything at your doctors...DEMAND THE TESTS!! Its alright for them to say oh well come back in two weeks, she doesnt know what the hell two weeks is like for us ttcers especially after a loss!

I am so mad .. I actually just burst out crying while writing this and then when DH asked what was wrong it was a mixture of *Amys doctors are shit telling her to come back in two weeks* * work was crap* *AF isnt here yet but im not pregnant either* God i let rip and burst out crying. So hes doing what he does best, look at me like ive cracked up and now hes gone to the shop to buy me donuts :S He wonders why im putting weight on..because he feeds my sorrows xxxx

Sorry about your bad day Natasha. The thing I hate is when I am moody my husband gets moody right back at me. Even when he knows I am hormonal he acts like a big jerk at times. Or he looks at me like I am crazy or completely lost it, and this is where I have the urge to just punch him in the face. Of course I can't do that, but I hate it when he gives me this, "Damn this lady is crazy" look.

 

[xoxo4angel]

UGh, no cancellations yet.. made an appt for dec 5th...
Im wondering if I should go back to my dr's office and request a different dr and get a second opinion.. .is that bad to do? Im wondering since they all work together, they may not like it if you "bad mouth", so to speak, a collegue of thiers.

Dec 5th is a good date! We'll be singing "All I want for Christmas is my B-F-P, my B-F-P!"

The second opinion might be better received from an outside source. Dr's in the same practice will support/defend each other to patients. Tempted to hit the Doc in the Box yet? Was this your GP or OB office?

 

[mommylov]

Thanks Tash, I know I as always told a pos is a pos so Im at a loss for words myself.

Jess, this was the second round of blood work they did. The frist one was on monday and the second was last night. If I was in fact pregnant, then those numbers shouldve been going up atleast to the point of making the blood pregnancy test come up pos but it wasnt.

I am so sorry, I know you girls are going through the same struggles as me and I really want nothing but the best for us all. I am just beyond devestated right now and dont know what to think. My dr is really nice but new. After my mc, dh and I were talking about wanting to see a more epxerienced dr but then we said well there are pros and cons to that. New = tend to look at EVERYTHING (So we though), want to test for everything, etc. Old= more relax and doesnt have a sense of urgency since they know it all. I really dont know what to think.. I am probably just rambling at this point so Im so sorry. Colleguezilla can obv see that Im upset and so I told her whats happening and she thinks Im preg.. Im like you dont get it, I need to have levels oof certain hormones be there and they arent.. hgc, progesterone.. none of it is there so no its not possible. She just doesnt get it. I shouldnt have even said anything to her and just stick to talking to you girls.

 

[mommylov]

UGh, no cancellations yet.. made an appt for dec 5th...
Im wondering if I should go back to my dr's office and request a different dr and get a second opinion.. .is that bad to do? Im wondering since they all work together, they may not like it if you "bad mouth", so to speak, a collegue of thiers.

Dec 5th is a good date! We'll be singing "All I want for Christmas is my B-F-P, my B-F-P!"

The second opinion might be better received from an outside source. Dr's in the same practice will support/defend each other to patients. Tempted to hit the Doc in the Box yet? Was this your GP or OB office?

I dont have a regular dr out here yet so this was my OB. Colleguezilla told me "You shoulve gone to my dr" ... .. she wanted me to go to her dr but this dr is RIGHT across the street from my work and the hospital is really nice and is where I wanted to give birth.

 

[mommylov]

UGh, no cancellations yet.. made an appt for dec 5th...
Im wondering if I should go back to my dr's office and request a different dr and get a second opinion.. .is that bad to do? Im wondering since they all work together, they may not like it if you "bad mouth", so to speak, a collegue of thiers.

Dec 5th is a good date! We'll be singing "All I want for Christmas is my B-F-P, my B-F-P!"

The second opinion might be better received from an outside source. Dr's in the same practice will support/defend each other to patients. Tempted to hit the Doc in the Box yet? Was this your GP or OB office?

Dock in the box?

 

[xoxo4angel]

I second that Angel! Gosh this Nov. 1st is not turning out good. On top of everything it is the 3 month anniversary of my traumatic miscarriage. It happened on Aug. 1 and I was hoping the have a pregnancy surprise today. Angel I am on the verge of just giving up with this man, and going to get inseminated. I am to the point where all I want is his swimmers because he has not been supportive, and he acts like a child every time it is ov time. At times I feel like he just wants to go against me and when I need him to bd with me he seems opposed to it.

You can't give up either!! I know they say chances are low with IUI, but low beats NO CHANCE IN HELL, right? Would he be willing to give you the "deposit?" Mine did it but begrudgingly!

 

[TTCSecrets]

i hope i wake up to af in the morning... never thought id say that, but if i were expecting frers would have shown me surely at 14dpo...

Hmf..I might take my sadnes and anger out on cleaning this house... 9:30pm or not i need to scrub and spray and bleach and clean... Thinking it might help and added bonus, my house will be clean lol :/ xx

 

[xoxo4angel]

UGh, no cancellations yet.. made an appt for dec 5th...
Im wondering if I should go back to my dr's office and request a different dr and get a second opinion.. .is that bad to do? Im wondering since they all work together, they may not like it if you "bad mouth", so to speak, a collegue of thiers.

Dec 5th is a good date! We'll be singing "All I want for Christmas is my B-F-P, my B-F-P!"

The second opinion might be better received from an outside source. Dr's in the same practice will support/defend each other to patients. Tempted to hit the Doc in the Box yet? Was this your GP or OB office?

Dock in the box?

Oh sorry, that is what I call those Emergency Clinics...the one's that are open 24 hours a day. We have them and they're called Patient First or Urgent Care. I took my BFF to one 4 years ago and they did her blood work on the spot (results in 20 min). I went to one in April as my MC started because my OWN OB couldn't get me in!

 

[mommylov]

I too wish I jad af just come already.. False +, 2 blood tests, etc = heartache. Obv want to be pg already but I would take af over all this any day. Well heading out of here and going home... talk you girls later.

 

[mommylov]

UGh, no cancellations yet.. made an appt for dec 5th...
Im wondering if I should go back to my dr's office and request a different dr and get a second opinion.. .is that bad to do? Im wondering since they all work together, they may not like it if you "bad mouth", so to speak, a collegue of thiers.

Dec 5th is a good date! We'll be singing "All I want for Christmas is my B-F-P, my B-F-P!"

The second opinion might be better received from an outside source. Dr's in the same practice will support/defend each other to patients. Tempted to hit the Doc in the Box yet? Was this your GP or OB office?

Dock in the box?

Oh sorry, that is what I call those Emergency Clinics...the one's that are open 24 hours a day. We have them and they're called Patient First or Urgent Care. I took my BFF to one 4 years ago and they did her blood work on the spot (results in 20 min). I went to one in April as my MC started because my OWN OB couldn't get me in!

I thought about it but just think Im going to be dissapointed. Im going to call my dr in a week, not 2 if af doesnt show. Then, maybe she will just need to give me a shot to make af show.

 

[xoxo4angel]

Oh Tash. That darn at least with temping you have an idea of what to expect next. I was impressed when my crosshairs showed up, but think it is off by a day.

Clean your house doll! and when you're done there...catch the Red Eye and you can do mine too! I am NOT a fan of cleaning....hope it makes you feel better! xoxo