ttc after a d&c

[mommylov]

Tash, keeping my fingers crossed that you are Oing and from the sounds of it, you and dh dtd plenty so I think this could be your month too!!

Lots of to you girls!

 

[TTCSecrets]

Amy i know this sounds awful, but i am so glad your results are at 19!! They are so much lower than i even expected!! I thought it would be in theearly 100's or something! Apparently then decrease by 66% every two days or something like thats what the doctor told me, so by next week all being well, they could be down to 0! And then its a fresh start in there for a new lo!! I didnt think id say this to any of us but i hope u get AF sharpish so at least its like, not a fresh start i dont mean it to sound awful :S I think im wording this wrong but its like a new beggining of trying? FX !! XxXXXx


Yeah ames im getting plenty of bding in, ive told dh that we just need to bd until like, tuesday, just to be sure since i have no idea when o is or was lol!! Plus ive had no ewcm this month, just masses of watery cm so who knows :/ xxxx

 

[mommylov]

Amy i know this sounds awful, but i am so glad your results are at 19!! They are so much lower than i even expected!! I thought it would be in theearly 100's or something! Apparently then decrease by 66% every two days or something like thats what the doctor told me, so by next week all being well, they could be down to 0! And then its a fresh start in there for a new lo!! I didnt think id say this to any of us but i hope u get AF sharpish so at least its like, not a fresh start i dont mean it to sound awful :S I think im wording this wrong but its like a new beggining of trying? FX !! XxXXXx


Yeah ames im getting plenty of bding in, ive told dh that we just need to bd until like, tuesday, just to be sure since i have no idea when o is or was lol!! Plus ive had no ewcm this month, just masses of watery cm so who knows :/ xxxx

Thanks doll, ya totaly know what you mean! Im really hoping that by going trhough this naturally this time that it makes it better for the next time and for testing. I really cant bare another mc so Im praying third time is a charm.

I didnt have EWCM at all last time. I def noticed a difference after my d&C so maybe thats the case with you too? I used preseed which helped and obv worked since we got preg on the first shot this last time so if you are worried about his swimmers making it, maybe try and get some of that stuff! The girls here recommended it to me and it worked!

 

[xoxo4angel]

Sorry...trying to catch up and get ready for DH to come home. I still have not talked to him. He tried calling me this morning, but I didn't want to talk to him! My sister said I am overwhelmed and need to be careful not to displace my hurt...AKA let's be mad at DH because his ungrateful bestfriend is now a Dad. I think she might be on to something.

Anyway, my HSG will not impact TTC. In fact I'll go Tuesday to have my follies scanned (CD12)! Bring on the good eggs! (Kind of bummed I didn't do this sooner...my right tube was blocked and I ovulated from my right side last month! *sigh*)

Amy 19 is good! Did your Dr say when she wants you to come back? You are almost done! My guess is you'll be at 0 by Monday!

Tash ~ Ov pains...hmmm. Good plan to keep BDing through Tuesday!

 

[TTCSecrets]

angel glad that all is clear!

i asked about having a scan to determine if i have ovulated or are about to and they said no... would just like to know whats going on. i put in two fake temps for tomorrow and saturday and then it puts me at like 3 dpo when i dont even think ive od yet haha! xxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

ames i definitely will get some pre seed think it will help with the whole lack of ewcm..

third time will definitely be a charm for u bab!! Hoping and praying for u!!

just had a nice bath now watching soaps! xx

 

[mommylov]

Sorry...trying to catch up and get ready for DH to come home. I still have not talked to him. He tried calling me this morning, but I didn't want to talk to him! My sister said I am overwhelmed and need to be careful not to displace my hurt...AKA let's be mad at DH because his ungrateful bestfriend is now a Dad. I think she might be on to something.

Anyway, my HSG will not impact TTC. In fact I'll go Tuesday to have my follies scanned (CD12)! Bring on the good eggs! (Kind of bummed I didn't do this sooner...my right tube was blocked and I ovulated from my right side last month! *sigh*)

Amy 19 is good! Did your Dr say when she wants you to come back? You are almost done! My guess is you'll be at 0 by Monday!

Tash ~ Ov pains...hmmm. Good plan to keep BDing through Tuesday!

Now you are making me think I should do this too! lol But if your tube was clogged, does that mean the last two times you conceived right away, you released from the other side? Talk about luck! I dont know why Im scared of everything now. Scared of what the testing will say.. scared that Im not going get the right testing done... that I am not being aggressive enough. So many fears now having gone through this twice

My dr is just waiting for the levels to get to 0 and then she wants to check me to make sure everything is cleared out of my uterus (Which I thought was the case if you get to 0). Then she wants me to wait a cycle cry and THEN we'll start testing.

 

[mommylov]

ames i definitely will get some pre seed think it will help with the whole lack of ewcm..

third time will definitely be a charm for u bab!! Hoping and praying for u!!

just had a nice bath now watching soaps! xx

Yay for preseed! Ooh a bath sounds soooo nice and soaps too!! hehe I use to be a days of our lives adict!

I wish I could take a bath but it wouldnt be preety of I did right now (Ewwww ). Sigh maybe next week!

 

[lilesMom]

angel so glad today went well for u hon, glad it wasnt painless and glad they flushed ur right tube clear, so now u have proper chance every month instead of every second, way better odds , yey xxxxxxx
ur sis is prob right but he stil should take care of u and be sensitive to u cos u have had big losses and r now being reminded of it big time , xxxxxxxxx
maybe give him a chance to look after u, xxxxxxx plus ul need to baby make soon xxxxx

amy hon that is great , 16 is very low for how little time has gone by, ( i know it feels like centurys to u but in realtive terms with all this crap , its fast ) xxxxxxx
tash is right , u could still concieve around xmas r new yrs xxxxx
my sil concieved very fast after natural mc and all was ok xxxxxxxxx
fx for u xxx love and hugs x

tash hurray for Ov and lots of Bd , u go girl enjoy and fx for little bub in a few weeks xxxxxxxxxxxx

hi jess, glad all is still well with ur bub xxxxxx

hi horsey, lamb, kaylee, geegirl. xxxx
if i missed anyone soz, our numbers r growing and my brain is gettin fuzzier
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Storked]

Hey girls, dropping by to share some happiness with y'all
https://new.livestream.com/accounts/398160/events/1594566/player_pop_up

seeing kittens playing has made my day brighter! Ok, back to reading.
Love and miss you all I will be back once I can put this crappy month behind me.
Maybe before then because Thanksgiving is one of the best holidays EVER and it will be hard to be sad with it coming up

 

[lilesMom]

amy i prob shouldnt say this but if it was me i woudl prob go for it and get progesterone early and hope for the best, but obvs then u may be risking more hurt ......
but u have proved u can get preg fast so its not ur tubes, r shouldnt be.
im not a odc so prob best to follow doc advice, ,
my sil was advised to wait but she didnt and all was fine when she wa sput on aspirin, but u have no gaurantee . its such a tough chooice. sorry not tryin to confuse u further, just lettin u know there r options and that it can work out xxxxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

Hey girls, dropping by to share some happiness with y'all
https://new.livestream.com/accounts/398160/events/1594566/player_pop_up

seeing kittens playing has made my day brighter! Ok, back to reading.
Love and miss you all I will be back once I can put this crappy month behind me.
Maybe before then because Thanksgiving is one of the best holidays EVER and it will be hard to be sad with it coming up

BBBEEEETTTTTHHHHAAAANNNNNYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!! miss you!!!!!! Come back soon!!!

 

[lilesMom]

hi bethany, thanks for link xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
love and hugs xxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

wow that was a fast visit bethany, i didnt even see ur name come up on the screen xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx love u xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

Thanks Laura! Im Just scared of carryign now.. Seems I can get preggers right away but fgrowing and carryign is my issue Hopefully this is the last time I ever have to go through this! Before DH and I said that we wanted one and then wanted to wait a couple of years for #2. Now we are thinking that we want to try for one relativley soon after #1 since I am having all these issues now. I dont want to ruin future chances by waiting. FX!!!!!!!!!

 

[mommylov]

amy i prob shouldnt say this but if it was me i woudl prob go for it and get progesterone early and hope for the best, but obvs then u may be risking more hurt ......
but u have proved u can get preg fast so its not ur tubes, r shouldnt be.
im not a odc so prob best to follow doc advice, ,
my sil was advised to wait but she didnt and all was fine when she wa sput on aspirin, but u have no gaurantee . its such a tough chooice. sorry not tryin to confuse u further, just lettin u know there r options and that it can work out xxxxxxxxxx

A part of me wants to too but I want to get meds and start them at the right time so. Im just so scared.

 

[lilesMom]

that is so cute big smiley face now, instead of my before cranky one

 

[TTCSecrets]

Ames your body wil be back to normal in no time Im sure of it! Then you can have a nice bath and start TTC again!
I understand you are scared, we all are scared I know i am! Im scared of everything,i even told chris that i dont want to ring the doctors and tell them when i get pg again, because i dont want it to be real, because u go to all these appointments and all these tests and for what, to have it all taken away again, i think ill find it hard to go to them at all before 20 weeks...

You will be fine! Hopefully you will get a new year baby!! Im hoping for a baby before christmas, hopefully ill be blessed.. So sick of feeling empty inside, literally
Hopefully we will all have our babies soon xxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Bethany !!!! Hey I know your still down but we are all here when you are ready xxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

amy i know, it is a really hard choice. u r prob better off following docs orders, but i usually research myself nad make my own choice. but i do totally feel and understand ur fear, xxxx im normally quite a happy normal person who looks more r less on the bright side, ive changed a bit since my loss and def since being preg again, the fear is always there a littel, it just gets more and less prominent at times. its a yucky way to feel about being pregnant but its what we r left with
i still think that u would be ok with progesterone early but i obvs cant know that u will xxxxxxxxxxx what does hubby think?
if he is like mine, its follow doc to the letter xxxxxxxxxxxx