ttc after a d&c

[mommylov]

Me too Tash... so wishing that for us all. I really wish for Jen, Laura, and Jess' little buns in the ovens to be healthy and wish that we all conceive our healthy little beans here soon too. I want us ALL to have LO by next christmas.

 

[lilesMom]

natasha keeping my fingers crossed for u , xxxx

funnoest thing today when i wok eup, it was sunny out. but my blinds were closed like normal and all the things in my bedroom were in their normal places but whatever way the sun was shiing it made loads of rainbows on my wall and ceiling i mean loads.
some were through my water bottle, some through a crystal and some from a cd but i havent seen it before and all those objects were in normal place
before i fell asleep last nt , i asked for us all to be ok and for my bub to be ok like i always do. but the last few days ye know i have been nervous again, i think i got my sign things r gonna be ok. i hope xxxxxxxxxxx

there were loads of um, i think they r for ye too xxxxxxxxxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Ive been watching youtube videos for days about girls revealing to their other halves they are pregnant , and they make me happy cry!! I cant wait until i can do that!!

I agree Ames, we will all have a bundle of joy by christmas, if not im gonna go out and steal one or something, and if that fails, ill buy a dog No where near a comparison but i need something to baby and feed and look after xxxx

 

[lilesMom]

i gotta go on my treadmil, i only had a littel walk this morn, if i dont do it now i wot do it till tomor, il be back soon xxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

amy i know, it is a really hard choice. u r prob better off following docs orders, but i usually research myself nad make my own choice. but i do totally feel and understand ur fear, xxxx im normally quite a happy normal person who looks more r less on the bright side, ive changed a bit since my loss and def since being preg again, the fear is always there a littel, it just gets more and less prominent at times. its a yucky way to feel about being pregnant but its what we r left with
i still think that u would be ok with progesterone early but i obvs cant know that u will xxxxxxxxxxx what does hubby think?
if he is like mine, its follow doc to the letter xxxxxxxxxxxx

You said it! Paul is def a "by the book" kind of guy for the most part. He def is more so now with loss #2. This one was just as hard as the first for him but for different reasons. This time was more physically taxing so he has been worried sick.. IMing me and calling and texting to make sure Im ok. He was really freaked out yesterday but I told him that I am much better and feel like we are on the way down this hill now.

 

[mommylov]

natasha keeping my fingers crossed for u , xxxx

funnoest thing today when i wok eup, it was sunny out. but my blinds were closed like normal and all the things in my bedroom were in their normal places but whatever way the sun was shiing it made loads of rainbows on my wall and ceiling i mean loads.
some were through my water bottle, some through a crystal and some from a cd but i havent seen it before and all those objects were in normal place
before i fell asleep last nt , i asked for us all to be ok and for my bub to be ok like i always do. but the last few days ye know i have been nervous again, i think i got my sign things r gonna be ok. i hope xxxxxxxxxxx

there were loads of um, i think they r for ye too xxxxxxxxxx

Awww that is def a great sign! Enjoy your walk!

 

[xoxo4angel]

I know I am late again on this one, but HI BETHANY! I Turkey Day and I hope it lifts your spirits! Enjoy your reading!

Laura ~ LOVE the rainbows!

Amy ~ My DH was much like Laura's...that is why I called my RE the Oracle! He wouldn't and still doesn't do anything without her permission. I was on the fence about trying straight away after loss #2...DH made the decision for us. I was more afraid of miscarrying again...there were too many questions and NO answers to explain what was going on with me. As for waiting between children...I say have them back to back while you are used to the diapers!

Tash ~ Fx that you get to give your OH his sweet M&Ms for Christmas!

 

[TTCSecrets]

Angel i hope so too!! I know what hes got me, he doesnt know i know though, just found out, his friend let it slip in the kitchen n chris hushed him and i pretended i hadnt heard when they came in the living room hehe xxx

 

[mommylov]

I know I am late again on this one, but HI BETHANY! I Turkey Day and I hope it lifts your spirits! Enjoy your reading!

Laura ~ LOVE the rainbows!

Amy ~ My DH was much like Laura's...that is why I called my RE the Oracle! He wouldn't and still doesn't do anything without her permission. I was on the fence about trying straight away after loss #2...DH made the decision for us. I was more afraid of miscarrying again...there were too many questions and NO answers to explain what was going on with me. As for waiting between children...I say have them back to back while you are used to the diapers!

Tash ~ Fx that you get to give your OH his sweet M&Ms for Christmas!

Oh boy! lol My hubby isnt that bad yet but he def doenst like to go against the dr I feel just the same, scared after loss#2 and since we dont know for sure if its just a progesterone issue or if its something else too like clotting or something so we are going to wait too. depending on when I cycle, it might be a very happy new year for hubby BD wise

Tash, yes I second Angel and hope the M&M's will be coming out!!!

 

[TTCSecrets]

I have often thought about the time difference between children... I think im going to have my first and then see what happens, ill only catch when im meant to i guess, and plus to be honest, after being off birth control for so long, and trying to conceive so bad, it wouldnt feel right to purposefuly prevent it if that makes sense :/ xx

 

[xoxo4angel]

Tash ~ You overheard your gift? Well...you going to tell us or do we have to wait until Christmas?

Amy ~ Don't worry about all of the different testing out there...your Dr will do what she suspects is best for you and your DH. You don't want to be labeled a non compliant patient, so waiting it is! As for having an HSG...you too were able to get pregnant without much effort, so odds are your tubes are just fine. My DH and I must have been super lucky to have caught our eggys like we did!

Hi Kaylee!

 

[TTCSecrets]

hes getting me a doggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg!!! bless him i heard him talking to his friend , he is getting it on christmas even when its about 8 weeks old ad says its the one like i always wanted and hes going to bring it home on christmas eve and let me have it early )) How sweet, especially after me just saying to u girls i will get a dog! Im hoping it takes my mind off stuff , plus ive got so much love a dog would be so looked after here xxxxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

AWWWW! YAY!! Tash. How sweet! Now you have something major to look forward to!

 

[TTCSecrets]

I know!! My family will be mardy, they will be like *you shouldnt get a dog when you are never at home its not fair* But dogs dont need people to be there 24/7 besides over christmas i got time off,and soon i am changing to part time and having wednesdays off so the dog will only ever have like monday and tuesday and thursday and friday of sitting on its own for a fwe hours Im so excited! At least i have something to look forward to BEsides i always think having a pet makes a home ( so do children but a dog seems more realistic for me at the moment ) xxxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

About the time you have your hands full with a dog you'll fall preggers! Fx for your full happy home!

Ok ladies, DH just text, he has landed and is in his car on the way home...I need to pretend to be asleep, or I need to pretend to be too busy for him or I just need to snap out of this funk and be NICE!! I need an angel for kindness...cheers to me feeling better once I see him!

 

[TTCSecrets]

oh im sure once hes back, youll need a cuddle and once youve had a cuddle youl be okay, i cant remember why you arent talking to him, i must have mis read or not read or forgot But whatever it is, life is too short, besides you need his spermies

I know i said that, il just get a dog and then have to be pregnant too!! Although i heard chris talking and he said that he feels i just want to love something, and he said to brad ( our friend ) that he sees how i am with that cat from across the road, and i think he just thinks it wil be good for me, especially since my last puppy died tragically 3 years ago , just before i met chris, and i alwys said id never have another dog, and now that ive gotten over it i think chris is thinking maybe it will get rid of the badness i associate with dogs, you know what i know we argue sometimes but i actually dont know what id do without that man xx

 

[lilesMom]

amy ur so right , waiting is hard but the right decision , xxx u will get answers and help inmeantime and feel more secure with docs help and backing xxxxx

angel, hopefully dh will come in all apolegetic to u, if not expain to him why its hurting u and give him a chance to make it up to u xxxxxxxxxxxxx fx when u see him all u will want are cuddles, sometimes when im mad like that it can be dissolved by cuddles xxxxxxxx

tash a doggie lovely xxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

and chris is now going to look at the puppies, hes told me hes going to sainsburys to get me some biscuits... bless him.. i love ear wigging, i shouldnt do it but i dont think he realise even though the tele is on im not concentrating on it bless him lol!!! now what would be amazing would be, he gives me a dog for christmas and i give him a baby! Id actually love it to happen like that !! I need ideas for dogs names girls, now, i know it will be a boy cos in the past ive told chris that i prefer boy dogs, and he seems to remember the little things i say xxx

 

[mommylov]

ohhhh a puppy!!!! I always wanted a girl doggy names Ally or Saddie OR a boy doggy named Cody!

Thanks Laura, I think waiting will be hard but hopfully the outcome will be grand!

Angel, gl with dh.. Im sure when you see him though your heart will melt and hopefully you guys can just spend some time together and not talk about his freind

 

[TTCSecrets]

Thats weird ames i was actually just thinking of either Duke, Jackson or Cody! xxx