TTC After Loss 2011 BFP!!!

[Kaede351]

Ahhh, hopefully baba stays in at least a couple more weeks lilrojo! But hey, won't be long for you now!

XxX

 

[lilrojo]

I know im excited..

How are you doing Kaede.. been to the midwife again as of late.. 32 weeks seems to fly by doesnt it..

 

[Madrid98]

Madrid I know thats what im hoping for.. i stayed that way for 2 weeks with my daughter.. so we will see where i am at my next appt in 2 weeks.. lol

By then you'll be 36wks so it should be safe. How exciting getting closer to meet your little one!!!

 

[lilrojo]

Thanks Madrid thats what im hoping for..

How are you doing, where are you at in your cycle.. ?

 

[Madrid98]

I'm 2dpo today I think. Waiting to be 11dpo to test & see what happens.

 

[Deethehippy]

Madrid - i am 3DPO, we will be testing around the same time

 

[Madrid98]

Really? Excellent!! I hope we both get our bfp's in over a week!! Have you done anything different this cycle?

 

[Deethehippy]

No not really, i take multivits (pregnancy ones) and omega oils anyway.
We tried to BD when we thought we would rather than when we knew we should (if you get what i mean) we didn't use OPK's or anything, just went by 'natural' signs. Its our first month actively trying since loosing 'MiniWg'.
I know its unrealistic to expect a BFP first month but obviously i would be overjoyed! I tested today I am no good with waiting and i just love peeing on sticks LOL When will you be testing do you think? I'll do one IC a day now until AF

 

[lilrojo]

Yay fxed tight for you both.. maybe it will be lucky for you both to be testing the same time

 

[Madrid98]

Are you testing already? lol I can't do that to myself anymore. I did it last month and I had my testing thread and all but it was too stressful. I'll try to wait until 11dpo so that I can get an accurate result.

I don't see any reason why you may not get your BFP this month too even if it's your first ttc cycle after your loss.
But I feel sort of the same way in the sense that it's my first month trying the supplements. I can't help but thinking I won't be so lucky to get it first go. I'm please with the O being back to normal.

I've forgotten what it means to have a go 'natural' cycle. When I've tried I've been so stress that it made things worse.

 

[Kaede351]

Ooo, FX'd for you both Dee and Madrid

I was at the midwife on the 10th and all was good, next time I see her is on the 30th. She's coming out for a home visit to discuss my birth plan, I'm strangely nervous about it haha XD then afte that I have another appointment 2 weeks later at the midwife office getting busy and exciting now! Haha

XxX

 

[Deethehippy]

Not long to go Kaede, dont worry about the birth plan, you can change anything you like on the day anyway Its just to give you and them an idea what you might prefer i think. Will you use a birth pool or anything do you think? Try to rest up for the next few weeks if you can

 

[Kaede351]

Whoops double post lol

XxX

 

[Kaede351]

I'm hoping to use a birthing pool of its available, but there's only 1 at the hospital and I guess it depends on if anybody is in it when I go in lol. I don't fancy sharing

I'm nervous more about having midwife in the house than anything else... Which is kinda silly I'm always paranoid people will think the house is a mess, as much as I try to tidy up it never seems to me like it gets any better lol... And this is BEFORE we've got a child in it XD

XxX

 

[Deethehippy]

Don't be silly - think of all the houses they must vsit, i'm sure they see all sorts! and i bet yours is just fine. Who knows, the midwives house may not be perfect either

 

[puppycat]

Lots of dust girls xxx

 

[Kaede351]

I know it's silly lol. But I think it's a trait I've picked up from my Nana. She's always been paranoid about people being judgemental of her house too... Something I always used to laugh at her for because her house is ALWAYS spotless. But hey ho, I'm just weird like her I suppose

XxX

 

[lilrojo]

Haha kaede.. that is funny that your so paranoid.. I feel the same and my house is quite clean.. lol I think im worse now when im nesting and want to do so much more than i have the energy for.. hope your house visit goes well..

 

[Kaede351]

Haha, I think that's my biggest problem at the moment too. I've started nesting and I've non-stop cleaned for 3 days I've pulled all the muscles in my bum and upper legs where I was on my hands and knees scrubbing the bathroom floor last night and I haven't done the kitchen floor yet lol.

XxX

 

[lilrojo]

Dont wear yourself out hun.. you still have time to use that toothbrush on the kitchen floors lol..