TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[Oasis717]

Well it definitely worked Lisa! He obviously knew his stuff xxx

 

[josie1234]

Anything is worth a try Lisa. Regina - hope you are ok today, see that your temp went down, keep us updated.

How's all the other lovely ladies today?

Well, I am in that can't be bothered to do anything mood today. CD 7 and feeling bit crampy and bit of lower back ache. Been feeling bits of that since AF. Bit strange. Still on the B6 every day and it definitely made my LP and cycle longer than last month. Hope you all have a good day xx

 

[bash73]

I'm not charting temps and here is why...I get up at 430am Mon, Wed, Fri, Tues varies, Thurs and Sat at 530a and Sunday varies. I tried for one round about a year ago and it wasn't worth it. Plus my husband is up for work at 3am every morning. I look at it this way, DTD e/o day worked as I had the CP last cycle so I'm sticking to that plan LOL. Thursday will be here before I know it to see what's next. Yesterday and today, felt sick to my stomach in the morning but I think it's the vitamins. Thanks!!!

 

[garfie]

Afternoon Ladies

Well I've been to have my HCG drawn again - this time it has been marked URGENT - I started spotting over the weekend and with my past history I can't take any chances. The only positive is it was brown spotting which I know can be implantation etc but now I guess I just wait



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[josie1234]

Blimey Bash no wonder you don t chart. Good luck. Think DTD every other day is the way to go. Lots of fairy dust to you x

 

[Oasis717]

Hope it's just implantation Fi, don't forget at 9 weeks I had brown blood and here I am at nearly 5 months, glad they've marked it urgent, hopefully you will know soon enough having a little round ligament pain at mo and am woken every night in pain with my hips, I had the same with my last two children but you forget how much it hurts! Dh is getting me a body pillow in town today so hoping that will help Have a good day all xxxx

 

[Creative]

Fi, keeping my fingers crossed for you.

 

[josie1234]

Fi, fingers crossed for you hun. With it being brown, hopefully things will be ok. Hope so, thinking of you xxx

 

[dancareoi]

Fiona, keeping fingers crossed for you

Becks, I am finding sleeping quite uncomfortable too for the same reason. I have a pillow either side of me to lie on and stop me sleeping on my back!

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[Oasis717]

Yes Lisa me too, little worried at the mo, I went to pick up ds 4 and the 35 min walk down was ok apart from getting a major stitch up the hills but walking back I gotta pain in my groin and I don't know how I got back, I'm praying it's just ligament pain but I've never had it this bad before, phoned dh at work and he's coming home, he said I mustn't do that walk anymore and he will try to change shifts so he can do both runs, I was fine doing it Friday, I also had like a dragging ache up inside which is a bit better now I'm sitting, I hate anything like this I get so frightened xxxx

 

[josie1234]

Becks hope you re ok. Is there anyone that can help with the runs if your DH cant change shifts x

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Jo, pain went off after an hour but I've still got the stitch like feelings right up the top of my stomach if I try to bend, I rang the mw and she said it does sound like spd which I had with both the last two pregnancies as I've no cramping, contractions or bleeding and the pain is gone its just a case of making sure I don't overdo it, dh was working mainly from home but recently has had to work half a week in the office, we are going to drop the Monday pre school as its only 3 hours and just take Casey wed and Fri which dh thinks he will be able to arrange, I guess this pregnancy is 5 years on from my son and makes a lot of difference in what I can do, I walked 2 hours a day til the end with him, guess I'm just too old to be able to do that now will still walk but will split into two half hour walks near to home xxxx

 

[Left wonderin]

Hi Fi I'm sure spotting of any kind is very scary x hopefully your mind will be put at rest tommrow when you gt the blood results xxxxx
Ouch Becks that sounds painful , you be taking it easy girl ya here !!!

AFM ff got it wrong no AF yet so didn't o/v on cd 12 , as I have LP of 14 days every month which would mean AF should have arrived today . I'm thinking I o/v on the 13dop - 14dpo so AF should arrive tommrow or Wednesday . My temps went way down this morning so she is a coming !!!!

 

[dancareoi]

Hi Fi I'm sure spotting of any kind is very scary x hopefully your mind will be put at rest tommrow when you gt the blood results xxxxx
Ouch Becks that sounds painful , you be taking it easy girl ya here !!!

AFM ff got it wrong no AF yet so didn't o/v on cd 12 , as I have LP of 14 days every month which would mean AF should have arrived today . I'm thinking I o/v on the 13dop - 14dpo so AF should arrive tommrow or Wednesday . My temps went way down this morning so she is a coming !!!!

Let's see what tomorrow brings! Maybe your temps will go up again!

Becks hope you are taking easy now with your feet up .just realised your avatar has changed, can't see too good on phone but is that your wedding day?

Regina are your results back tomorrow!

Not too long til OV again - lots of baby dust your way

 

[Oasis717]

Hi Lisa, yes the pic is so tiny on here I need to find another but it's all I had on my phone, it is our wedding day last year I think I will ring the doctors today, this stitch pain in my upper right side has just been constant and I can't see that being normal, it's just as if I've run and got a really bad stitch but it doesn't go away it's just woken me up again, getting a bit worried now as I thought it would ease off by now xxxx

 

[dancareoi]

Hi Lisa, yes the pic is so tiny on here I need to find another but it's all I had on my phone, it is our wedding day last year I think I will ring the doctors today, this stitch pain in my upper right side has just been constant and I can't see that being normal, it's just as if I've run and got a really bad stitch but it doesn't go away it's just woken me up again, getting a bit worried now as I thought it would ease off by now xxxx

No harm in calling docs for peace of mind. You may have pulled something as your ligaments wil be easier to pull hence the reason a lot of people get back ache in pg, you may have pulled something in your tummy instead.

 

[Oasis717]

I hope that's all it is, baby's been awfully quiet or perhaps the pain has stopped me noticing. It hurts like hell though. Just from walking, crazy xxxx

 

[josie1234]

Hi Becks - found this on internet, don't know if it helps you any but like everyone has said, best to go to doctor just to get your mind put at rest.

Week 23

Some women get a stitch-like pain down one side of their abdomen. This is because your uterine ligaments are stretching as your uterus is enlarging. The pain will usually go away after you have rested and it is nothing to be worried about. However, if the pain does not go, or if you have any bleeding or vaginal discharge with the pain, then you should ring your doctor or midwife and talk about it.

It is from the website
https://www.cyh.com/HealthTopics/HealthTopicDetails.aspx?p=438&np=457&id=2756

I know it is further along that your date but let us know how you get on, hope you're ok. The hormone Relaxin does cause ligaments to stretch and care needs to be taken not to overstretch. Take it easy hun. Lovely pic of your wedding.

 

[garfie]

Becks - I have heard people who suffer with that and it causes lots of pain - hope your DH can swop shifts - I remember the school runs well, luckily I don't have to do them anymore as we live in a village and the children get picked up and dropped off

AFM - I'm so excited HCG results are back 1,079 so far so good got to have them repeated again tomorrow (just in case my body is taking a while to catch up)

For now though ladies



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[Oasis717]

Thanks Jo, and thanks ladies, I did get an emergency app with doc It's a 7 min walk and I left 25 mins before I had to be there! Walked really slowly and was ok, pain coming and going now, it's a pulled muscle she said which can be very painful, don't I know it!! Told me to take paracetamol (which I won't cause don't take painkillers) and rest for a few days, walking that far is out from now on I think but thankfully dh can change his office hours to a Monday, Tuesday and Thursday so he can take ds, relieved it's nothing to do with the baby! Dh bought me a body pillow yesterday, really hoping it helps my hips cause I'm waking every half hour to move as they're so bad xxxxxx
Wow fantastic numbers Fi I'm so so pleased for you!!! Xxx