TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[Xanth]

I am either 7 or 8 DPO - FF says 8 I thought 7!!

Slight cramping over weekend and my temp dipped sat pm (i usually take am) then went back up on sunday morning.

36.1-36.2 before OV

36.5 - 36.6 after OV

36.7 - 36.8 since weekend.

Did have slight red spotting this morning, AF due Fri/Sat so not sure what that was - hoping not start of AF.

If i can hold out and AF doesn`t start, I will probably test saturday.

FX for everyone else.

Hope it's implantation bleeding xx

 

[Xanth]

Desperado my cycle buddy how are you doing xxx

 

[dancareoi]

I am either 7 or 8 DPO - FF says 8 I thought 7!!

Slight cramping over weekend and my temp dipped sat pm (i usually take am) then went back up on sunday morning.

36.1-36.2 before OV

36.5 - 36.6 after OV

36.7 - 36.8 since weekend.

Did have slight red spotting this morning, AF due Fri/Sat so not sure what that was - hoping not start of AF.

If i can hold out and AF doesn`t start, I will probably test saturday.

FX for everyone else.

Hope it's implantation bleeding xx

Hi, not had anything since, so we`ll see.

on another matter, i have been to the hospital this morning to get the results of all the tests i had done back in May.

Everything is fine, there is nothing wrong with me and i am perfectly healthy!!

If they had found something it would have been treatable, once Pg, but then you would have that worry.

As it is, it is just really down to my age.

the consultant said for us to just keep trying. Once PG I have to contact the hospital immediately, they will then see my probably at about 6 weeks and will see me and scan me every 2 weeks. They have promised that if anything does go wrong, they will not let us get as far as we did last time and have to go through the heartache of a birth again.

So, really it`s down to my eggies and just hope we find a goodun!!!!

 

[Desperado167]

I am either 7 or 8 DPO - FF says 8 I thought 7!!

Slight cramping over weekend and my temp dipped sat pm (i usually take am) then went back up on sunday morning.

36.1-36.2 before OV

36.5 - 36.6 after OV

36.7 - 36.8 since weekend.

Did have slight red spotting this morning, AF due Fri/Sat so not sure what that was - hoping not start of AF.

If i can hold out and AF doesn`t start, I will probably test saturday.

FX for everyone else.

Hope it's implantation bleeding xx

Hi, not had anything since, so we`ll see.

on another matter, i have been to the hospital this morning to get the results of all the tests i had done back in May.

Everything is fine, there is nothing wrong with me and i am perfectly healthy!!

If they had found something it would have been treatable, once Pg, but then you would have that worry.

As it is, it is just really down to my age.

the consultant said for us to just keep trying. Once PG I have to contact the hospital immediately, they will then see my probably at about 6 weeks and will see me and scan me every 2 weeks. They have promised that if anything does go wrong, they will not let us get as far as we did last time and have to go through the heartache of a birth again.

So, really it`s down to my eggies and just hope we find a goodun!!!!

That's great news sweetie ,chuffed for you

 

[Desperado167]

Desperado my cycle buddy how are you doing xxx

Wow look at your chart I can't work out how to put mine on my siggy Am good af cramps today ,have thrush since Sunday And tiny bit of spotting with the thrush ,how's you ?

 

[dancareoi]

Dancareoi have you got a link to your chart. I love looking at charts lol x

Hi, how do i do the link? I`ll put it on for you.

I take my temp every morning before getting out of bed - before I OV my temp was 36.1 - 36.2 - the day after FF says OV my temp was 36.4 and then was 36.5-36.6.

Sat/sun i was getting a dull ache in my lower abdomen and saturday night i did my temp and it was 35.8. was getting dull aches again yesterday and yesterday morning and this morning my temp has gone to 36.8.

I am not getting any other symptoms, although I am extremely tired, but putting that down to our hol last week.

so we`ll see what happens -- what`s happening with you?

There's a link on FF that says sharing and then you can just copy and paste the link here

I am a real technaphobe, need idiot notes for everything!!

I have gone into sharing then i have a whole list of stuff, what do i need to copy and paste?

 

[dancareoi]

I think I`ve done it - sort of -let me know if it works

 

[Xanth]

I am either 7 or 8 DPO - FF says 8 I thought 7!!

Slight cramping over weekend and my temp dipped sat pm (i usually take am) then went back up on sunday morning.

36.1-36.2 before OV

36.5 - 36.6 after OV

36.7 - 36.8 since weekend.

Did have slight red spotting this morning, AF due Fri/Sat so not sure what that was - hoping not start of AF.

If i can hold out and AF doesn`t start, I will probably test saturday.

FX for everyone else.

Hope it's implantation bleeding xx

Hi, not had anything since, so we`ll see.

on another matter, i have been to the hospital this morning to get the results of all the tests i had done back in May.

Everything is fine, there is nothing wrong with me and i am perfectly healthy!!

If they had found something it would have been treatable, once Pg, but then you would have that worry.

As it is, it is just really down to my age.

the consultant said for us to just keep trying. Once PG I have to contact the hospital immediately, they will then see my probably at about 6 weeks and will see me and scan me every 2 weeks. They have promised that if anything does go wrong, they will not let us get as far as we did last time and have to go through the heartache of a birth again.

So, really it`s down to my eggies and just hope we find a goodun!!!!

I'm glad everything is ok

I'm also terrified of getting as far as
I did last time. You were even further. I just don't know how you coped xxxxxx

 

[Xanth]

Desperado my cycle buddy how are you doing xxx

Wow look at your chart I can't work out how to put mine on my siggy Am good af cramps today ,have thrush since Sunday And tiny bit of spotting with the thrush ,how's you ?

Your chart is on your siggy or did you mean the thumbnail pic?

I'm ok. No real symptoms. I don't have a feeling that it's going to be this month. Xxx

Hope the thrush gets better

 

[Xanth]

I think I`ve done it - sort of -let me know if it works

Yes. I've got it now
I love studying other peoples charts xx

 

[dancareoi]

I am either 7 or 8 DPO - FF says 8 I thought 7!!

Slight cramping over weekend and my temp dipped sat pm (i usually take am) then went back up on sunday morning.

36.1-36.2 before OV

36.5 - 36.6 after OV

36.7 - 36.8 since weekend.

Did have slight red spotting this morning, AF due Fri/Sat so not sure what that was - hoping not start of AF.

If i can hold out and AF doesn`t start, I will probably test saturday.

FX for everyone else.

Hope it's implantation bleeding xx

Hi, not had anything since, so we`ll see.

on another matter, i have been to the hospital this morning to get the results of all the tests i had done back in May.

Everything is fine, there is nothing wrong with me and i am perfectly healthy!!

If they had found something it would have been treatable, once Pg, but then you would have that worry.

As it is, it is just really down to my age.

the consultant said for us to just keep trying. Once PG I have to contact the hospital immediately, they will then see my probably at about 6 weeks and will see me and scan me every 2 weeks. They have promised that if anything does go wrong, they will not let us get as far as we did last time and have to go through the heartache of a birth again.

So, really it`s down to my eggies and just hope we find a goodun!!!!

I'm glad everything is ok

I'm also terrified of getting as far as
I did last time. You were even further. I just don't know how you coped xxxxxx

It`s was the worst thing we have ever experienced and i never want to go through that again and we don`t want the kids to have to experience this again. My DS, age 10, wrote on something they were doing at school about their worst experience, he wrote `the loss of a sibling`

To lose a baby at anytime is painful, but somehow the one we lost at 8 weeks didn`t seem as bad as this time. i suppose this time we were thinking of it as a baby, a perfectly formed little baby. As well as all the scan photos i also have photos of the baby after it was born, dressed in a minute gown which was far too big for it.

As I say the hospital are going to everything they can to prevent us from going through this again, so that has put our minds at rest about trying again.

If i am lucky to get PG again it is going to be constant worry for the whole time!!!

Here`s wishing us all lots lof luck and baby dust.

 

[Xanth]

I am either 7 or 8 DPO - FF says 8 I thought 7!!

Slight cramping over weekend and my temp dipped sat pm (i usually take am) then went back up on sunday morning.

36.1-36.2 before OV

36.5 - 36.6 after OV

36.7 - 36.8 since weekend.

Did have slight red spotting this morning, AF due Fri/Sat so not sure what that was - hoping not start of AF.

If i can hold out and AF doesn`t start, I will probably test saturday.

FX for everyone else.

Hope it's implantation bleeding xx

Hi, not had anything since, so we`ll see.

on another matter, i have been to the hospital this morning to get the results of all the tests i had done back in May.

Everything is fine, there is nothing wrong with me and i am perfectly healthy!!

If they had found something it would have been treatable, once Pg, but then you would have that worry.

As it is, it is just really down to my age.

the consultant said for us to just keep trying. Once PG I have to contact the hospital immediately, they will then see my probably at about 6 weeks and will see me and scan me every 2 weeks. They have promised that if anything does go wrong, they will not let us get as far as we did last time and have to go through the heartache of a birth again.

So, really it`s down to my eggies and just hope we find a goodun!!!!

I'm glad everything is ok

I'm also terrified of getting as far as
I did last time. You were even further. I just don't know how you coped xxxxxx

It`s was the worst thing we have ever experienced and i never want to go through that again and we don`t want the kids to have to experience this again. My DS, age 10, wrote on something they were doing at school about their worst experience, he wrote `the loss of a sibling`

To lose a baby at anytime is painful, but somehow the one we lost at 8 weeks didn`t seem as bad as this time. i suppose this time we were thinking of it as a baby, a perfectly formed little baby. As well as all the scan photos i also have photos of the baby after it was born, dressed in a minute gown which was far too big for it.

As I say the hospital are going to everything they can to prevent us from going through this again, so that has put our minds at rest about trying again.

If i am lucky to get PG again it is going to be constant worry for the whole time!!!

Here`s wishing us all lots lof luck and baby dust.

So sorry to hear that I just can't imagine.

My 19 year old never cries, but when he came home after I had my miscarriage he just put his arms round me and cried. It was heartbreaking.

None of us are ever going to have a happy worry free pregnancy again, and its a shame to lose that innocence.

Every minute will be a worry. We will help each other through it, because we will all get there.

 

[dancareoi]

I am either 7 or 8 DPO - FF says 8 I thought 7!!

Slight cramping over weekend and my temp dipped sat pm (i usually take am) then went back up on sunday morning.

36.1-36.2 before OV

36.5 - 36.6 after OV

36.7 - 36.8 since weekend.

Did have slight red spotting this morning, AF due Fri/Sat so not sure what that was - hoping not start of AF.

If i can hold out and AF doesn`t start, I will probably test saturday.

FX for everyone else.

Hope it's implantation bleeding xx

Hi, not had anything since, so we`ll see.

on another matter, i have been to the hospital this morning to get the results of all the tests i had done back in May.

Everything is fine, there is nothing wrong with me and i am perfectly healthy!!

If they had found something it would have been treatable, once Pg, but then you would have that worry.

As it is, it is just really down to my age.

the consultant said for us to just keep trying. Once PG I have to contact the hospital immediately, they will then see my probably at about 6 weeks and will see me and scan me every 2 weeks. They have promised that if anything does go wrong, they will not let us get as far as we did last time and have to go through the heartache of a birth again.

So, really it`s down to my eggies and just hope we find a goodun!!!!

I'm glad everything is ok

I'm also terrified of getting as far as
I did last time. You were even further. I just don't know how you coped xxxxxx

It`s was the worst thing we have ever experienced and i never want to go through that again and we don`t want the kids to have to experience this again. My DS, age 10, wrote on something they were doing at school about their worst experience, he wrote `the loss of a sibling`

To lose a baby at anytime is painful, but somehow the one we lost at 8 weeks didn`t seem as bad as this time. i suppose this time we were thinking of it as a baby, a perfectly formed little baby. As well as all the scan photos i also have photos of the baby after it was born, dressed in a minute gown which was far too big for it.

As I say the hospital are going to everything they can to prevent us from going through this again, so that has put our minds at rest about trying again.

If i am lucky to get PG again it is going to be constant worry for the whole time!!!

Here`s wishing us all lots lof luck and baby dust.

So sorry to hear that I just can't imagine.

My 19 year old never cries, but when he came home after I had my miscarriage he just put his arms round me and cried. It was heartbreaking.

None of us are ever going to have a happy worry free pregnancy again, and its a shame to lose that innocence.

Every minute will be a worry. We will help each other through it, because we will all get there.

Hi, it`s good to have someone to talk to.

How is everyone today, FF says I am now 9 DPO, but i think 8, but what`s a day here or there.

Wher is everyone else on their cycle?

 

[Creative]

Possibly 11 days PO. No reason to suspect anything yet.

 

[Xanth]

7dpo today. Nothing exciting to report lol.

Creative are you going to test soon, or are you good and actually wait until you're late

 

[Creative]

No I am not good. all the bad habbits on here have rubbed off on me and I POAS this morning. BFN

 

[lilblossom]

Same thing here ...bfn

 

[Xanth]

No I am not good. all the bad habbits on here have rubbed off on me and I POAS this morning. BFN

sorry for the BFN,

but you did make me laugh when you said the bad habits have rubbed off on you

 

[Xanth]

Same thing here ...bfn

 

[dancareoi]

Sorry there are no BFP yet, there`s still time.

I have nothing to report, cramping at weeked 5 DPO and extremely tired, but putting that down to our holiday a couple of weeks ago. Two increases in temp since OV, see my chart, but nothing too get excited about.

FF says I am 9 DPO today, I think it might be right. I got EWCM on Thurs 7 June and I usually get AF exactly 2 weeks after that with a 10 LP, which means AF due tomorrow.

On day AF is due i susally get very very very light spotting, which doesn`t get heavier until the following day, so I will see what tomorrow brings.

I could POAS tomorrow but I am worried I will get BFN - at least if i leave it I can have that hope for a bit longer - does that make sense?