TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[josie1234]

Hi all, another day done, off to bed in a bit. Are you going to find out the sex Regina or are you going to wait?

Hope you're ok Becks, maybe have the chance to put your feet up and relax? Fingers crossed that you are feeling better soon.

How's everyone else? Lisa, how's the hormones? You and Caitlin getting settled into a routine? Jan/Karen/Dawn/Crystal - how are you all doing? Sorry if I have missed anyone. I am a bit fed up so hoping tomorrow is a better day xxx

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Jo. I'm ok thank you just suffering with terrible constant hb sorry you're feeling fed up. I've felt a bit like that too. The heartburn is really getting me down. I have Gaviscon but it doesn't really work. Hope you feel better tomorrow xxx x

 

[Left wonderin]

Hi Jo, just took a peek at your chart , could be an ovulation dip today ? Mmmm
Sorry your feeling blah !!! And as to your question If LO co-operates I'm definatly finding out if I'm team blue or pink !!

 

[josie1234]

Aw Becks big hugs. Hope it eases off for you. Do u have to watch what you're eating? Does certain foods make it worse.

Hope LO lets you have a peek Regina. So exciting.

Thanks I will prob be ok tomorrow. Think its because I saw DH and now he's gone again. See what temp does over next few days. Hope you are right. Tiny bit of ewcm tonight. Done opk late due to work. Oh dud I tell u about my ebay opk. They said I can keep the 30 hpt they sent in error. Is this a sign lol

 

[Oasis717]

Have to avoid loads Jo as if I can't have enough as it is everything seems to set it off, it's really painful. Oh well! Not surprised you feel bit down when dh goes. That must be so hard when is he back? Xxx

 

[garfie]

Hi Ladies

I'm still around

Josie - Hope you have a better day today - it is hard when the men work away - when I was 21 I was engaged to a soldier and when he went away I was heart broken so it must be worse that he is your soul mate

Left - not long until your scan now is it - hope we get to see some pics

Lisa - How are you and Caitlin - hope those hormones are settling down.

Becks - Sorry you are feeling uncomfortable BIG

A belated congrats to Xanth? -

AFM - Just taking it one day at a time - still can't believe the results I was given - but also crossing my fingers that the next little one will be perfect - does that sound mean?

Love to all the other ladies



X

 

[dancareoi]

hi all,

Jo, must be difficult with DH being away formal long, especially when you are TTC

Regina, looking forward,to seeing scan pics.

Becks, not much longer and once Brooklyn is here all those discomforts will be forgotten.

Fiona, hopefully your next little one will be absolutely perfect.

Karen, hope Omar recovered from your fall.

Hi to everyone else.

Afm, scar is healing slowly, still got a couple of very small holes in it, but its getting there.

Caitlin is 3 weeks old today!

My hormones are settling down now, still feel sad that there'll be no more babies, but I'm not crying all the time like I was last week.

DH been to docs today to see about having the snip! I'd rather he didn't have it done but I suppose its the only option, well either that or jus keep churning out more babies, that's the option I'd go for!

Well must go Caitlin's after milk again!

 

[josie1234]

Hi all

Becks - must be a nightmare having to think about what you are eating and then finding out afterwards that it has given you problems, too late then! Not long now until Brooklyn will be here and all will be forgiven!

Lisa - glad that you are not crying as much, big hugs. Hormones are a nightmare eh?

Yeh looking forward to another scan piccie Regina.

Garf - fingers crossed that you get your perfect LO soon xxxx

Yes it is hard ttc when he is not here, all these courses are a nightmare at the moment. You think I would understand as I was in the RAF for so long but no, I think I am worse. I came out for family stability and not got it now, bad times. I love it when he is home but still nag, then feel bad for nagging and then feel bad when he is away so I don't know what the hell I am doing. He is shattered as he is working 12 hour shifts for 4 days and then comes home and wants rest and I nag because I am doing everything while he is away and he just chills. Then I wonder how it would be if I did fall pg, but he said he would get a compassionate posting nearer but I believe that when I see it happen. I have just looked at the calendar and I won't see him now til at least 15 Oct. I might have to pop down and see him if I can, bit difficult with DS football commitments. Blimey, I am getting myself in a tizz just thinking about it all. Should just hide in a cupboard and have a cry lol.

Hope you all have a good day xx

 

[Oasis717]

Oh Jo I feel for you I really do. Adams not just my dh he's my best friend and soul mate and I miss him when he's out for a few hours as he does me so I can't imagine how it must be to be parted so long. I totally understand why you would be sad and as much as of course he's working hard it must be tough on you doing everything whilst he's away. Sounds like its v hard. 15th is quite a while so I don't blame you for wanting to go see him before. Wish I could say something to make you feel better xxxxx sending you lots luv xxx

 

[crysshae]

Jo - I know it's hard when DH is away, especially while TTC. Mine has worked out of town quite often in the past. He would be gone 2-3 weeks at a time too. I hope your DH is able to get that closer post soon.

Regina - Looking forward to seeing pics of your little one soon.

Becks - Heartburn is the worst. With mine, it didn't matter what I ate. I had it all the time. I'm so sorry it's not giving you any relief. How are you feeling today?

Fiona - That is not mean. You are right to wish for a perfect little one.

Karen - I hate falling when pregnant. It's always so scary. I hope you weren't left with any bumps or bruises.

Lisa - I'm glad your hormones are settling. I bet time is just flying by, 3 weeks already! Wow!

I hope everyone is doing well.

 

[josie1234]

Aww thanks heaps Becks, made me feel better. It will get better once his courses are done. Still neg opk anyway. Been out and bought myself a nice top lol.

I am getting really forgetful at the moment, forgot to take money off someone at my bootcamp yesterday and have only just realised and then also one person too at my buggyfit as they arrived late. Also don't know where I have put the 30 hpt strips that I got sent in error (which apparantely I can keep for my inconvenience and they will send the opks). Need to buck my ideas up lol.

Hope you are having a better day today Becks xxxx

 

[josie1234]

Thanks Crystal, how are you today?

 

[crysshae]

I'm doing well. Took a day off yesterday and spent the whole day just being lazy and reading. Now I want another.

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Jo. Really hope you feel better and I'm glad you'll be seeing dh more soon too. That's lovely dreaded hb is bad again was a bit hurt by a mums comment up the school. I went to school with her and she bullied me for 7 years. I shouldn't really talk to her anymore but I wouldn't give her the satisfaction of knowing how badly she affected me back then. Things changed when we got older and I never took anything off her the. But she ruined my grammar years and turned all our friends against me. She's split from her husband now and is alone with one son. Saw her and her mum when I was picking up Casey. She made a face at my stomach and I said what's that face for and she said we were just wondering if you were ever going to stop. I said I'm not I'm having another after Brooklyn. She looked horrified so I said well its nothing to do with anyone else. My husband and I would like a large family and it's up to us what we do. As long as we're happy it's nothing to do with anyone else. I saw a few of my lovely friends I'd not seen for ages up there too and everyone's so positive. I don't know why some people think they have the right to comment on my life and what I choose. It's not like I'm even friends with her anymore. Their stares were so obviously patronising and disapproving it made me feel that small. Ok so my girls have a different father but like that makes me a bad person. That's just life. Xxx x

 

[crysshae]

Oh Becks! Don't let her bother you. Sounds like she's the small one. She was a bully as a child, and she still is. She has nothing better to do than judge others. It must be a sad life to live that way.

 

[Oasis717]

Totally agree Crystal. Feel a bit better now. Thank you xxx

 

[Left wonderin]

She sounds like one miserable , bitter green eyed cow. !!!!!!!

 

[dancareoi]

Regina I was thinking the same, she's just jealous of what you have Becks, I wouldn't even give her the time of day!

So your girls have a different dad, so what, that's not unusual is it?

When I was in hospital one of the staff asked me if I had a new partner, I suppose because I have 2 older ones and a big gap then 2 younger ones, so nowadays people expect it!

Afm - we have an angelversary this week. It will be a year on 26th that we found our LO had left us and a year on 28th we had D&C .

All seemed lost then, I never expected a year later we would be lucky enough to have a perfect little rainbow.

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks so much ladies. I know you're right. Feel much better now.xxxx
Been having a lot of pain this last hour and half. Struggled to eat my dinner as I can't sit forward or walk properly it's had me in tears not sure what's going on xxxx

 

[crysshae]

Becks - Maybe you should go get checked out...