TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

Call me Becks:) totally understand that but hopefully the timings will add up and you catch that egg!! I'm on the second day of af and I must admit I get excited for the next cycle lol. I'm so sorry for your losses but I wish you masses of success in ttc, I lost two lo's back to back before Brooklyn so he really is our little miracle. They do happen:) xxxx
 
Morning Ladies

Just had my first acupuncture session - well it certainly was different:winkwink:

I'm trying to remember everything to help you Josie - this is a bit jumbled but she asked lots and lots of questions:wacko:

First she asked about my history, my periods, my discharge, whether I get nausea, sore boobs, back ache etc and where in the cycle I get them.

Then she took my pulse, looked at my tongue, my fingernails.

Then she asked what medication I was on, how long I'd been trying, what condition would I say my over all health was in, was I stressed, how was my PMS, what did I like to do to relax, how much alcohol I consumed, did I smoke, was I fairly active etc.

The she felt my hair, asked if I feel bloated, how heavy my periods were, how long a cycle I had, what my temperatures where like, how my periods what were the colour, whether I clotted or spotted etc.

She then laid me on a bed - I had to remove my jumper - and she stuck needles in me I could feel them going in - but they weren't uncomfy but OMG one really hurt :wacko: She then told me to lay still and relax.

I could feel a pulling sensation, a tingling, and almost like I was laying on a rock on my lh side (that's were the needle that hurt was).

She then got me to stretch out my hands and squeezed all my fingers in turn - asking which side I could feel - again on my little finger I got what felt like a small shock up my lh side all my other fingers I never really felt anything until it came to my thumb - when I got an electric shock lh side again (she also said I needed to drink more water as the skin round the needles where puckering).

I relaxed for a bit longer and could feel like a contracting in my back and a vibrating it was weird (all normal she said) I had a nice chat with her about general things and then she took the needles out - no problem - apart from that one :wacko:

She told me to get up slowly and get dressed - she also advised against alcohol tonight (as the effects could be harsher) she also advised having lots of water to help flush out what she had loosened - and to let nature take its cause (whether wee or number 2:blush:) she also said I may feel tired or hyper after the treatments all this was perfectly normal.

I will be seeing her for my 2nd treatment this Friday :happydance:

Overall I feel confident in her and a little bit better - I have no temp this morning as once again it was over 37 :wacko: off to guzzle some water, have a nice day ladies.

:hugs:

X
 
Thanks hun - I did feel rather special that night and thought I didn't scrub up to bad:winkwink:

:hugs:

X
 
You look fantastic you really do, wish I looked that good lol xxxx
 
Fi that pic is gorgeous!! you can see how happy you were that night :)

Well i've not long come back from the EPAU as I started to lose darker brown this morning with pains, they done another test and its faint and they took my hgc which I get results around 4.30pm but they have told me I am going to mc again.. so now im just waiting. They have given me co codamol for the pain and my OH has been brilliant, he has just popped out to do the food shopping, I'm trying to hold it together but this is our 3rd mc since oct now and im feeling like it will never happen for us.. what makes me more upset is.. I never loved my kids dad.. the man im with now is the first man I have ever fallen in love with and I really wanted us to have a mini us.. :cry: xxx
 
Beautiful pic, Fi! Sounds like your acupuncturist knows what she's doing. Fingers crossed it does everything you need it to do!

Tilly - it's great your DH can work his schedule around your cycle. I hope AF and O come during the right timeframe for you! Good luck!

Regina - I hope you and your little one are doing really well!

Jo - How are you today?

Becks - Hope AF is being nice to you this month.

Tanya - A darker line is great especially on those dip tests. :happydance:

Lisa - Sounds like Caitlin is enjoying her solids. That's great!

AFM - Temp dropped today, so AF is most likely inevitable.
 
Crystal, it was darker for me last night but lighter at hospital this morning, plus pains and darker discharge, he told me I was losing this one too... :( xx
 
I'm so sorry Tanya. I know it's hard to see it right now, but miracles do happen.
 
Oh Tanya, hunni, I'm so v sorry I really am, I only wish things were different please don't loose hope I know that's hard right now, believe me I've been there but I honestly, truely believe you will have a mini you. I totally get what you're saying. I didn't love my girls dad either and my husband is the first man I've ever loved. I wish I had a magic wand:( you don't deserve this as none of us do:( sending you masses of love xxxxxx
 
Tanya - so sorry that you are going through this hun. Miracles do happen, look at this thread. That is what keeps me going. Can the EPU give you some answers/advice?

Sorry I haven't been on as I have been at work today. Trying to catch up on the thread. Yes thanks I am ok. I will read back and comment on thread.
 
Thanks everyone... I just rang EPAU and they told me that the HGC has gone down to 35 now from 48 and that she will speak to the doctor when he writes up the report and will ask him what happens next as I asked why this keeps happening, and she said because this is my 3rd mc in a row I may possibly be able to get some fertility tests done... I doubt it.. but will wait and see. Im just waiting for a call back off them sometime today xx
 
Fingers crossed Tilly. It is hard when DH is away and you need to make sure that timing is right. AFM - as my chart is all over the place, I do not have a clue. Hopefully this cycle will end soon. My DH is home 4 days then lives away for his 4 days on and it is like that the whole time. He does also have training days once a month so that means he has to go back 2 days before his shift and also he is on courses in Mar. Things very stressful. My moods are terrible at the moment, fed up with everything. Although he is promoted he is losing money due to petrol costs and paying to live in the barrack block and food. tonight he has gone out to watch rugby so wasn't happy with that either. when he is home, I am working. so obviously stress is not helping. Sorry for moaning.

Fi - thanks for the info, very helpful. I am going to ring up on Monday and book an appointment with an acupuncturist. Glad that my doctors are so helpful (not!).

Lisa - great that Caitlin is loving the porridge. Bless her.
 
Fi - your photo is lovely, looking gorgeous.

Sorry this is all bitty but I am catching up on the threads
 
soanxious iam sorry this is happing to you its so unfair I had the exact same thing happen to me last month , got lovely lines and even a big fat yes on a digi then they started fading to nothing ! nothing anyone says makes it better but you will get there ! I feel for you hun .xxx
 
hi Josie, do you not get any signs from your body when ov is happening ? af not here for me yet but fingers crossed tomorrow ! will start taking agnus cactus from the first day of af to when I ov as its improves ov and the hormone to sustain a pregnany in the early days . xx
 
Hi Tilly I am now on cd 82. No I am never really sure. Fertility Friends say I am 13 dpo. So I think af will come tomorrow as temp dip. I hope cycle does finish as I am so moody. Not good. I have still been taking tablets so should I stop them if I have ov?
 

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