TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[Soanxious]

I don't know what's happening with my egg.... it looked like I was about to ov the other day.. and I take a test today and its only half the colour it was at its darkest the other day..and my temps are not showing me ov so my charts say im due to ov this weekend.. sat/sun... but not sure now whats going on.. no ov signs like I had last cycle.. last cycle was awful..my boobs were enormous and very painful..now they are just normal..nothing at all... >>Confused<<

 

[Soanxious]

Becks you have a nice big rise on that chart.. I hope I get one this month.. im worrying now... do your OPK tests fluctuate? x

Crystal Thanks she is so cute... I miss her so much living so far away... and FYI I would be soooooooooooooo POAS by now if I was you...you have such willpower!! I like it! LOL

Fi I am glad its all ok and a good reminder for us all to check.. website is good.. Oh thats nice taking 2 kind of holidays.. thats good.. time for the couple and as a family..as both need time I don't have anyone to watch my DS this year for me and OH to go away.. I was thinking of asking his dad... but he will grunt n say no plus my son does not really like him and has not stayed overnight before with him.. my middle daughter moved out last year so she used to be there for when me and OH had a night away at beach.

AS for my son....he best get some elbow grease on it... im not going to clean it as he needs to know how his actions cause problems.. he is 99.9% a perfect child..but lately he's in a world of his own and obviously wandered in living room with shoes on before he went to school... its ok he has OCD he loves cleaning... lol his bedroom is spotless. maybe I should rub a lipstick mark on his carpet n see if he likes it

 

[crysshae]

Lol Tanya. It'll probably come along on time this weekend.

Fi - I won't be testing until after AF is due.

My cycle was weird last month too, only 19 days long, and although my temps went up I most likely didn't actually ovulate. That happened to me the very first time I charted in April. I'm beginning to think it has something to do with resetting in spring like the rest of the earth is doing.

 

[Soanxious]

Son came home.. got some elbow grease on marks got them out.. then decided he liked it and spot cleaned the whole house carpets... Gosh I love OCD people!!!... suppose it helped that the stuff he was using cleaned it up fast lol

 

[crysshae]

Why didn't I get an OCD child? Lol!

 

[josie1234]

lol. My DS was going to football training the other night and just as he was leaving, picked up his water bottle that he had filled with water and blackcurrant cordial and the lid came off, went all over the floor. As he was leaving, I had to clean it up as couldn't leave it lol. He is so clumsy but I am the same lol.

 

[Oasis717]

Tanya im not sure ive o I had a ton of ewmc tonight and im expecting a temp drop in the morn. My opks usually go darker than the control but this time was only just as dark as then went light again couple hours later and have been neg since so unless I get a rise in the morn I doubt ive o! Plus dh and I are exhausted after another stressful day and a ton of mess and fell asleep without bd. I give up this month! ! Xxxxxx

 

[tillyttc]

Well saw the midwife yesterday and they are sending me for a viability scan on the 15th april part of me is glad but iam nervous as everytime I seem to go to that place its bad news oh well only time will tell ! Its gonna be along 11 days ! Hubby is flying home next weekend cause he doesnt want me there on my own . Xx

 

[Oasis717]

Totally understand that Tilly its v hard not to worry but you have every chance of success! Loads luck to you xxxxxx

 

[Oasis717]

Just got a v def opk this time. I think the stress of yest put o off so hoping its today as weve been able to bd more xxx

 

[crysshae]

Becks - Definitely positive. Fingers crossed for you!

Tilly - That's completely understandable. I'm glad DH is going to get to come home for it and the 15th will make you see that place in a completely new beautiful perspective.

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Crystal! Xxx

 

[Left wonderin]

Tilly they will feel like 11 long days I'm sure ! Hopefully this time a new memory with good news is created for you I remember so well my early scan and how terrified I was but also how despite it being negative the last time I was there this time it all turned out fine remember statistics are on your side

Becks looks like its all systems go to me good luck egg hunting

AFM 6 weeks check today all good with me and baby . Dr started to talk about contraception and had I considered the mini pill or coil ? I think I was a bit too quick with my reply of oh no I want to try again soon ! The poor man nearly fell off his chair lol !!! He did say well hopefully ye will give yourself a little more time to recover from this one who is not even 6 weeks yet ........... I think I gave him the impression that I was going home to start trying right after I left the surgery !! I went so red lol

 

[crysshae]

Lol! That's awesome, Regina!

 

[garfie]

Regina you will remember that story for ever - mine at my 6 week check was:

Dr - okay I think we need some bigger scales (I thought he meant me at first) good job he said to weigh your son

Me - Er okay

Dr - Hmmm so what are you feeding this big man?

Me - Er me (and yes I don't know who went the reddest)

He coughed and said er keep up the good work (he was 8.14 born and at six weeks was over a stone)

Can't believe Sean is 6 weeks already - how much does he weigh now



X

 

[Soanxious]

Hi all just quick pop on.. got taken into hospital last night... vomiting so much then vomiting up blood... been on a drip had tests..im constipated so been partially unblocked.. Bp dropped to 97/52 had to wait for it to climb to 105/58 before they let me home..so ill feel like im dying. just got home so going to bed.. NO bd for me last night or tonight so probably miss this cycle. talk soon hope everyone is well x

 

[Oasis717]

Oh no Tanya you poor thing thats terrible! Have they said what's wrong? Feel so sorry for you xxxxx

 

[crysshae]

Goodness Tanya! Hope you feel better soon.

Jenn - How long do you wait before you hear the news or start testing?

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Regina hope it will be third time lucky! Xx

 

[Left wonderin]

Oh Tanya how awful for you and frightnenign . Hope your snuggled up in your bed feeling better right now .

Fiona lol...... ROFL I love your story !! Hysterical lol ......
My poor LO has awfu l snuffles poor little thing I feel so so sorry for him .