TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[Soanxious]

Thanks Regina will do .. at the moment I have NO urge to test.. in fact its making me sad.. so if it continues like that I wont be testing im not even groping my boobs etc looking for symptoms.

Sorry your cycles are still long Jo wish there was something I could suggest for you ... but glad your feeling better about not testing

 

[Soanxious]

Tilly... how are you? (just incase you pop in from time to time)

 

[josie1234]

Yes it is hard not testing Tanya but I think something just switched in my brain and I thought that it was stopping me enjoying life and was taking over everything. Not having the tests in the house helps but to be honest, due to my long cycles now, I have come to accept that it is not going to happen. But to be honest, I am not sad, I am grateful for my DS as some people don't even have that.

Is it today Sparkle?

 

[Soanxious]

I have split up with OH....

He thinks im having some kind of affair because im on here talking to everyone.. he says I was allowing my Mc and my ttc and this place to take over my life.. and he's fed up of it.. so he's gone.

I will be popping by to check on everyone but wont be here as much as I was... all xxx

 

[Oasis717]

Tanya I cant believe it surely he will come round? Are you ok? Im so sorry imsure he will be back xxxxx

 

[josie1234]

Oh Tanya hope you are ok and things get sorted. Xxx

 

[crysshae]

Becks - I hope Brooklyn is back to 100% very soon.

Tanya - I hope it's just the stress y'all have been under and everything works out.

Jo - I'm glad you are able to move on and not dwell. I hope you find the perfect job for you.

Jenn - Keep us posted please.

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Crystal his eyes are bad today after much better yest. im sure ive not ovulated I need to get back to my normal temping time. If I have its bloody earl for me! xxx

 

[crysshae]

Poor guy. Have you tried allergy meds? I use Benadryl for little ones. My DH and DD have eye allergies, and their eyes do that when their allergies are bad with congestion and runny eyes and nose. Sometimes only their eyes swell and turn red.

I don't think you've ovulated either, especially with your CM pattern and off temps. You'd think FF would be watching all of that.

 

[Sparkle125]

So Sorry Tanya...I hope he will come around.

AFM: Home resting! Transferred one super high quality blast! I have one in the freezer and they are watching 4 more for the next two days to see if any more will make it to freeze. YAY! EXCITING! Beta on the 10th!

Thanks for all the well wishes! Hope everyone is doing well!

 

[crysshae]

That's wonderful Jenn! Now the wait...

 

[tillyttc]

Omg soanxious iam so sorry I really hope that you can both work things out and get back on track ! The whole ttc thing can be such a strain ! I dont come on here to much I do stalk abit but I found that It was taking over my life and and I didnt want that ! With that said there are no men on here as far as I know well ive never come across any ! Xxx

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks for the advice Crystal will see how he is tomorrow. Yes sometimes ff is pretty naff! Hoping to get a proper temp tomorrow as back to normal routine xxxx
Fantastic news Sparkle. Everything crossed for you! xx

 

[Soanxious]

Woo hoo Sparkle.. so excited for you

Thanks girls I have written and essay on what happened in the link below in signiture.. so I dont have to repeat it.. yawns... gonna see how things go

Oh and my daughter is coming back sooner from Zante.. grrrrrr homeless n jobless.. and wants to sponge off me.. well nope no no.. so she best organise a job before she comes back.

 

[Oasis717]

Tanya wil read up in min. I hope you're ok. Your temps are great just climbing and climbing same as when I was pregnant with Brooklyn xxxx

 

[Soanxious]

Thanks.. link was broken.. fixed now..

Well first time my chart has looked like this... crikey I just looked back at my other charts and this one is totally different to them!!

I think you may of ov today Becks? and have a temp raise tomorrow? are you testing with opk? x

 

[Left wonderin]

Tanya I also just spotted your chart it looks great nice high temps and it does look different to the others you charted . I keep bloody forgetting to take my temp in the am so my chart will be useless this month !! Errrrr how annoying !!! Ill try remember tommrow , I think I'm cd8 today although my AF was the lightest I've ever ever had so expecting my cycles to be all over the place ... Might not even get another for months !! We shall see .

 

[Soanxious]

Thanks Regina.. its looking different thats for certain... hope its a good sign

its a nightmare at the trying to remember to chart in the beginning.. then gets addictive... grrrrrrrr lol.. x

 

[Left wonderin]

I was addicted before .......... I'm so temping in the am !!

 

[Soanxious]

Welcome back to insanity then haha