TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[crysshae]

Lol! I hope it is a sign.

 

[Driving280]

Hi all - Just realized that I have been neglecting this thread... But as you can see from my siggy, I did get a (natural) BFP in May that looks (FX!!) like it is going to be sticky. We just got the Maternit21 results back too and it's another little boy! I am still nervous but getting more and more optimistic.

 

[josie1234]

Wow that's amazing. Congratulations hun xxx

Becks - FX d for you.

Nothing different here

 

[crysshae]

That's wonderful, Driving!

 

[Left wonderin]

Hey everyone Driving congratulations delighted for you its bloody hot isn't it !!
AF arrived yesterday so looking like either 13/14 day LP again this cycle . Still no results from smear eeeerrrrrrrrrrr . AF being kind enough

Sean moved from his crib to a cot he looks so tiny and lost in it !
I hope Tanya is ok and comes to fill us in soon

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks ladies but still no positive opk: ( Driving that's amazing, I'm so pleased for you xxxx
Regina my first cycle my lp was only 7 days then 11 then 12 and finally 13! I'm really pleased your cycles seem to have resumed much quicker than mine xxx

 

[Oasis717]

This aft opk, positive or almost? I think just about there xxx

 

[crysshae]

Looks like it's definitely getting there.

 

[josie1234]

Looking good Becks

 

[Oasis717]

At last lol xx

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Jo! Xx

 

[tigerlilly]

Hi ladies may i join you? I'm 41 and have a 19 month old son and currently miscarrying our second at 6wks. I do plan to try again soon once everything settles as I don't feel i have a lot of time on my side. I Hope you will be able to offer words of wisdom from ur own experiences. Sending you all love and baby dust x

 

[crysshae]

Welcome tigerlilly. I'm so sorry for your loss. This group is full of support.

 

[Oasis717]

Tigerlilly I'm so very sorry for your loss, we have a wonderful group of ladies here and will help in anyway we can xxxx lots of luv to you xxxx

 

[josie1234]

Hi Tigerlilly so sorry for what you are going through at the moment. It is heartbreaking. Hopefully this thread and the lovely ladies on here can give you support and hope. This thread proves that there is hope. Big hugs to you hun xxxxx

 

[Oasis717]

How are you all today? Got some sunshine after pouring all night long but at least the humidity has gone for now, we just can't fit in as much bd as when we were trying with Brooklyn and school holidays don't help lol, we are doing early mornings and twice at night! Xxx

 

[crysshae]

Lol Becks. I think you have it covered.

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks but i dunno Crystal it hasn't worked last few months lol! Fingers crossed def positive today though xxxx

 

[dancareoi]

Hi all, hope everyone is well?

Becks, baby dust your way xx

Driving, congrats on your bfp

Tiger, so sorry you are going through a loss, we have all been there. My first loss was 5 years ago, I was 37. 10 months after that my rainbow boy was born.

I lost one in jan 2012 age 40 and another sept 2012 age 41, but now have my beautiful rainbow girl, born a week after my 42nd birthday. She will be 11 months old next Sunday!

Going through a loss is not easy and seems even worse when you are older, but you can see from this thread us over 40's do go on to have our rainbows.

I need to update the first page, but so far we have 6 rainbows and 4 ladies who are pg.

Speaking of which, congrats driving. I have you on first page but no details.

Any chance he following could let me have your ages?

Sparkle, crystal, Tilly and driving?

This will enable to update first page, which in turn will offer hope to other lovely ladies in the same TTC position.

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Lisa hope you're all OK xxx