TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[josie1234]

Hi Alien welcome to this thread. So sorry for your losses. Some lovely ladies on here to hopefully chat to and give you support. I am Jo and being peri menopausal I have not given up hope but accepted that I may not conceive but I am ok with that. I really hope you get your BFP and rainbow baby. There is hope hun xxxx

 

[crysshae]

Becks - The worry never goes away does it? Fingers crossed your little one is perfect.

Allen - I'm so sorry for your losses. I hope the diagnosis and support you have now make a huge difference in you getting your rainbow.

 

[Oasis717]

Hi Alien, so sorry for your losses, welcome to our group xxxxx

 

[Oasis717]

Crystal I'm really worried about another cp, I did an ic when I got back from shopping and the line was fainter, mind you the others id done had 5 hour plus hold wee not 2,hours, feels like forever til wed and I can do another SD test xxxx

 

[crysshae]

Hopefully it's just the hold wasn't as long and those ICs can be a pain too.

Lisa - My due date is February 22nd.

 

[Oasis717]

Feb 22nd how lovely, be here before you know it! Thanks Crystal I hope that's all it is xxxx

 

[tillyttc]

Hi dan my due date is 29th nov ! Fifteen weeks to go . Xx

 

[Alien73]

Thanks so much for the warm welcome

My name is Kim btw. Sooooo happy to see your different stories on here - yes, i have read the ENTIRE thread, lol.

Becks, crossing my fingers for a sticky one!

 

[Oasis717]

Thank you Kim have you really read the whole thread!? Xxx
OK so I held my wee a bit longer(still not as long as before) and got the same line as yest , need to stop worrying, about a cp, about how my boobs don't hurt as much today, how I feel OK when I think I should be feeling ill, help!! How do I stop worrying? Xxx I know its still v early for ICS to pick much up xx

 

[crysshae]

I wish I could help you stop the worrying. I was always worried from the moment I found out with all my pregnancies, but after having a loss, it's an additional worry. I pray and thank God A LOT every day. Can you get a FRER since it usually gives a darker line and might be easier to compare?

Wow Kim! That's a lot of reading.

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Crystal, when did your symptoms really start? I can't for the life of me remember with Brooklyn, gunna stick with the SD early tests as they pick up 10 and frer is 12 I think and SD is what I used Saturday, but I have to wait til wed as we only go into town once a week! Xxx

 

[Oasis717]

Oh wow crystal just past 12 weeks huge congrats!!!! Xxx

 

[Alien73]

I did, took quite a while lol...

Do you know the sensitivity of the IC you are using?

 

[Oasis717]

They are supposed to be 10 but are notorious for not being v sensitive at all! Xxx

 

[crysshae]

And checking for pregnancy in water. Lol.

Thanks Becks!

All of my pregnancies were different. A couple I had no idea before I tested. With the twins, I don't remember being sick at all.

With this one, I had a really bad trapped air feeling in my back between my shoulder blades at 2 dpo. That lasted most of the week.

Frequent urination and aching legs started at 4 dpo.

This is what I wrote in my notes at 5 dpo:
Pain in lower back and back of hips most of the night. Felt nauseated when going to restroom in the night. More nausea around lunch time. No food in the house I wanted to eat, so ate crackers.

Metallic taste overnight and after lunch. Teeth feel sensitive today.

Backache crampy metallic taste nausea at bedtime.


At 6 dpo, I started gagging when brushing my teeth and rinsing my mouth. This is still going on. In every pregnancy I've gagged over gross things or smells but this is the first pregnancy I've ever gagged while brushing my teeth.

So every pregnancy can be completely different. I think the sex of the baby can make a big difference for some women too - me included.

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Crystal I hopevim worrying for nothing but the only symptoms I have at 11dpo is slightly less sore boobs, occasional round ligament pain, moodiness and terrible headache but I feel much better than a couple of days ago which bothers me as that's what happened with my cp, guess I will know more Wednesday as if the lines the same as Saturday or gone its a cp xxxxx

 

[crysshae]

You're welcome. I hope you have a nice dark line on Wednesday.

 

[Sparkle125]

Lisa--my due date is February 18th. I am 12w5d. I don't know how to do a ticker?!?

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Crystal xxxx

 

[garfie]

Just checking in from turkey ladies Becks OMG congrats Hun

Love to everyone else - afm thought I was starting this morning - but nope
she's disappeared - watch her reappear tomorrow when I'm on a jeep safari!



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