TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[Left wonderin]

Mmm maybe ill temp from now , thanks so

 

[Left wonderin]

And I'm 6dpo not 4 ! How did I get that wrong ... I'm so not with it this cycle lol......

 

[dancareoi]

Lovely to hear from you Tilly, labour watch is looming!

Crystal and Jenn, looking good ladies xx

Becks, 12 day LP this time, so maybe things are settling down now.

Regina, PMA

Tanya, all of mine have had every jab going!

My eldest DS, who will be 13 on Thursday, had his MMR just as everything was kicking off at the time regarding the autism issue, so we were unsure what to do. My mom's friend's son is a doctor and his children had both had the mmr and he recommend we had it done.

We never gave it a thought with the others, they just had it.

Caitlin had hers on 22nd October and she's been fine. She's got a snotty nose but don't think it's related.

Ds4 had flu nasal spray 2 weeks ago and ds12 had it too at school.

Hope your GD is better soon, she looks soooooooo cute

 

[Left wonderin]

Dance are you still bf ?

 

[Oasis717]

Happy birthday Regina!!!!!!! Thanks ladies 12 day lp is better and I'm getting a b complex tomorrow xxx

 

[Oasis717]

Just had my final interview with cb and my pack is being sent out 24th Nov (my birthday) for my next cycle xxx

 

[Soanxious]

Dan all mine had jabs my son was ill after all his and now it seems my GD is not good with them either, shame they cant all be well afterwards

Thats a better lp Becks and good news about CB

I am CD 6 and I start my CB trail ov tests CD8 (Thursday) so free POAS addiction yay!!!

I have come down with a head cold, and very sore throat... normally when I am run down I get pregnant... as my immunity is less and too busy fighting that it dont tend to fight the sperm as much so FX I am still kinda run down when I ovulate LOL

 

[josie1234]

Hi all,

Sorry I haven't been on much. Still stalking though. OH home so I skived off work (said I was ill) and we had a lovely day at spa and then lunch lol. He goes back tomorrow and then don't see him for 3 weeks

Fingers crossed for you Tanya that them sperm get you while you are under the weather lol.

Happy Birthday Regina - hope you have had a lovely birthday and that everyone gets a BFP for Christmas, come on stay positive.

Really felt like AF was coming as got backache and felt sick and really tired. But nothing yet. Another long cycle!

Looking forward to your updates and some baby news soon.

xxx

 

[Left wonderin]

Oooh a day at the spa sounds just lovely I'm off with the girls for a night on Sunday and I cannot wait , although I feel a little guilty about leaving LO. He is only 9 months but I'm trying to tell myself its only one night lol.....just thought today I should really test before I go on sun morning just in case lol.... If its a bfn at least ill have the wine to look forward too

 

[Oasis717]

Tanya I'm ill ATM too, hoping it means a bfp this cycle for you, just had my hair done then walked home in the rain and looked like a drowned rat when I got back lol. Xxx
Jo that sounds like a lovely relaxing day I don't blame you for skivving off! Really hope your cycle comes to an end for you soon xxx
Regina hope you had a great day, don't feel guilty about going out you're right its just one night! Def test first though xx
I'm feeling more relaxed this cycle I know I shouldn't be defeatist but I'm starting to doubt I'll have anymore children and I can't keep living in limbo every month putting my life on hold so although we will still try (not ready to give up altogether) I'm going to concentrate on my diet and the kids and put TTC on a bit of a back burner, as much as I can doing a trial! I think I need to start accepting this might just be it for us, if it happens its a blessing but after 10 months I need to let go a bit xxxx

 

[Oasis717]

Oh and Casey ds is six tomorrow, where does the time go!! Xx

 

[Left wonderin]

Becks you have hit the nail on the head as to how I feel about ttc right now . I can't let myself become totally obsessed as in the back of my mind I know it may not happen again and even though I would be very sad about that I would still be eternally grateful for the blessing I was given . So even though when I see A bfn I'm gutted I also need to get on with living the life I have and not stuck waiting for a life I think I want ( lo#2 ) .

Ill still keep trying every month and hoping for a BFP

 

[Oasis717]

Regina I could have written that myself, seriously, you completely are on the same page as me, I'm so glad you understand xxx

 

[tillyttc]

Hi ladies had my scan on Monday she's weighting in at 6lb 9 oz so far with three weeks to go ! She's head down and dropping a little each day can't walk 100 yards without needing to pee , still haveing contractions ! Iam so ready now feel iam gonna pop lol another thing I've noticed iam horny as hell and hubby ain't here yet roll on 2 weeks on sat hehe . Xxx

 

[josie1234]

Hi Tilly do you think she will be early then? Your OH won't know what he is in for when he gets home lol. Won't be long now hun. So excited for you to meet your LO.

Becks, Regina - see what happens and try not to focus too much on ttc and hopefully it will happen. FX

How's everyone else? Tanya how's your GD? Any better? Sounds very exciting you all doing the CB trial. Keep us updated it is very interesting.

Another long cycle, feel like AF is coming and temps low so just come on and get here!! Don't want another 100 day cycle, thanks.

OH just left to back to High Wycombe then he is on course at Brecon for 2 weeks so won't see him for 3 weeks. It is really stressful. Does my head in. You think being ex military I would understand but nope! Lol. Have a good day everyone, getting cold now how is it in Ireland?

 

[Soanxious]

Tanya I'm ill ATM too, hoping it means a bfp this cycle for you, just had my hair done then walked home in the rain and looked like a drowned rat when I got back lol. Xxx
Jo that sounds like a lovely relaxing day I don't blame you for skivving off! Really hope your cycle comes to an end for you soon xxx
Regina hope you had a great day, don't feel guilty about going out you're right its just one night! Def test first though xx
I'm feeling more relaxed this cycle I know I shouldn't be defeatist but I'm starting to doubt I'll have anymore children and I can't keep living in limbo every month putting my life on hold so although we will still try (not ready to give up altogether) I'm going to concentrate on my diet and the kids and put TTC on a bit of a back burner, as much as I can doing a trial! I think I need to start accepting this might just be it for us, if it happens its a blessing but after 10 months I need to let go a bit xxxx

Oh that's gutting your hair got ruined and yup I feel like I can't spend too much time dwelling on ttc.. I feel it does the opposite.. Im so glad I have this training position that is keeping me well and truly busy... plus it could also alter my future if I gain fulltime employment with them.. we need to try and not dwell... x

Hi all,

Sorry I haven't been on much. Still stalking though. OH home so I skived off work (said I was ill) and we had a lovely day at spa and then lunch lol. He goes back tomorrow and then don't see him for 3 weeks

Fingers crossed for you Tanya that them sperm get you while you are under the weather lol.

Really felt like AF was coming as got backache and felt sick and really tired. But nothing yet. Another long cycle!

Looking forward to your updates and some baby news soon.

xxx

nice for you to both get time at the spa... just dont slip up haha... yeah hoping manages to catch my egg I hope you don't have another long cycle.

Becks you have hit the nail on the head as to how I feel about ttc right now . I can't let myself become totally obsessed as in the back of my mind I know it may not happen again and even though I would be very sad about that I would still be eternally grateful for the blessing I was given . So even though when I see A bfn I'm gutted I also need to get on with living the life I have and not stuck waiting for a life I think I want ( lo#2 ) .

Ill still keep trying every month and hoping for a BFP

Yup well all need to fret less xx

Hi ladies had my scan on Monday she's weighting in at 6lb 9 oz so far with three weeks to go ! She's head down and dropping a little each day can't walk 100 yards without needing to pee , still haveing contractions ! Iam so ready now feel iam gonna pop lol another thing I've noticed iam horny as hell and hubby ain't here yet roll on 2 weeks on sat hehe . Xxx

Aww bless Tilly that's so sweet.. she is a right little plump madam already aww... yeah hormones change so much when pregnant... it must be horrible because he is not around when your feeling horny aww xx

How's everyone else? Tanya how's your GD? Any better? Sounds very exciting you all doing the CB trial. Keep us updated it is very interesting.


OH just left to back to High Wycombe then he is on course at Brecon for 2 weeks so won't see him for 3 weeks. It is really stressful. Does my head in. You think being ex military I would understand but nope! Lol. Have a good day everyone, getting cold now how is it in Ireland?

My GD is a lot better thank you well still not herself but better.. and managing to eat more and sleep a little better... ah so he is up near me then.. no wonder he is stressed its FREEZING up here.. and Brecon is always a few degree's lower than just outside Brecon... Brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr and I just feel Clearblue are taking the piss outta me hahaha @urine samples I have to do xx

 

[Left wonderin]

Heehehe ok we will vow not to stress about Tcc , we will take the laid back approach lol ...does that include not poas too early ?? I bet 20,0000 I'm out this month not poas till Sunday , the plus side of a bfn is I'm away that night and can have a glass or three !! Its been a while since I've drank between being pg twice and bf ... Mmmm over 2.5 years me thinks

 

[Left wonderin]

Ps how do you multi quote ??

 

[Soanxious]

Well if there is an upside to a BFN that is it and well deserved glass or 3 too

Im on my laptop and under everyones message is quote or multiquote, so I click multiquote under each persons message then when ready to post I cick reply with quote on last persons message and it gives me all the quotes

 

[Oasis717]

I had half a larger on Halloween at our party and it was my first drink in 2.5 years!!!!! Lol. Casey had a fabulous party at Kidzone and Brooklyn loved the toddler bit, I'm exhausted, once again bed far too later but I just have to watch TV and unwind!! Xx