TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[dancareoi]

Hi all ,

Just wanted to see if anything happening to Tilly!

Sheyan, not experienced the pain you are talking about, so I'm no use to you I'm afraid.

Regina, hope DH come round a little now. My DH had similar second thoughts when trying for Caitlin. I'd had the 2 losses, he first in jan 12 at 17 weeks was devastating and I was in a very bad place as for 4 months I didn't know if see were even going to try again. Then to lose another after that was awful. He was worried about trying again because he didnt want to see me going through all he pain and heartache again if things didnt work out and was worried about the effect it would have on the other kids.

However, we kept on going and now have Caitlin!

They see things from a different perspective than we do, I think we get blinkered by it all but they somehow seem to look at it from a more sensible point of view and therefore worry about it more.

He'll come round and once you have another bundle of joy it will all be forgotten.

 

[dancareoi]

Hi all ,

Just wanted to see if anything happening to Tilly!

Sheyan, not experienced the pain you are talking about, so I'm no use to you I'm afraid.

Regina, hope DH come round a little now. My DH had similar second thoughts when trying for Caitlin. I'd had the 2 losses, the first in jan 12 at 17 weeks was devastating and I was in a very bad place, as for 4 months I didn't know if see were even going to try again. Then to lose another after that was awful. He was worried about trying again because he didnt want to see me going through all he pain and heartache again if things didnt work out and was worried about the effect it would have on the other kids.

However, we kept on going and now have Caitlin!

They see things from a different perspective than we do, I think we get blinkered by it all but they somehow seem to look at it from a more sensible point of view and therefore worry about it more.

He'll come round and once you have another bundle of joy it will all be forgotten.

Caitlin seems to be better now, 3 sick free days and back to her 2 weetabix for breakfast, so fingers crossed that's it!

 

[Left wonderin]

Dance good to hear your story and it kinda puts it into perspective . Anyway ttc this month is off the cards . We had to put one of our dogs to sleep today . It was so hard so in no mood to bd at all . Maybe its just as well gives us time to talk more ............ Well gives me time to reassure him


LABOUR WATCH
Hi Tilly how are you , hope your feeling good

 

[tillyttc]

Hi all iam still here lol ! Saw consultant on Thursday she did a sweep and told us to get busy lol anyways we got busy last night and I lost my mucus plug 20 mins after was huge not expecting that nither was hubby lmao ! Gonna have another sweep Thursday if things arn't moving also had pineapple,curry,walking and the rasp tea so iam a trying lol . Xxx

 

[Left wonderin]

LABOUR WATCH 23/11/2014

Tilly you sure are !!! Its so exciting

 

[Oasis717]

Tilly you're doing all u can good luck!!! Xxx

 

[Oasis717]

Regina I'm a bit behind with posts I'm so very sorry about your dog, are you OK? Sending lots of luv xxx

 

[Oasis717]

Can't remember if I told you all but I've got an app with my new doctor on 11/12 xx

 

[tillyttc]

Quick update waters went while mopping kitchen floor this aft lol iam still in labour and delivery no sign of baby and iam getting abit jacked lol! Will post with updat soon as . Xxx

 

[Left wonderin]

Quick update waters went while mopping kitchen floor this aft lol iam still in labour and delivery no sign of baby and iam getting abit jacked lol! Will post with updat soon as . Xxx

LABOUR WATCH 24/11/2014

yahoo sounds like there has been alot of progress hope your being well looked after . Damm I have to go to work but ill be back In 8 hours to check in . I'm soooo excited xxxxxxx

 

[Left wonderin]

Men!!! Seriously ill never understand them !!! OH now is fine with having another baby but want me to be " sneaky" about it ???? Ie he feels its too much pressure with me announcing " its time " lol..... But how can you be sneaky about b'ding 4-5 nights in a row !!!!!!! When the norm is not that ! Maybe ill have to make it the norm

Got pos Opk yesterday and a bit of lovin its a long shot but at least I'm not totally out this month

 

[garfie]

Good Luck Tilly

Looking forward to the update later



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[josie1234]

Good luck Tilly. I can't wait to hear your news. So excited for you xxxx

Hey Crystal how are you doing hun?

Yes men are a strange breed and it is hard not to make out you are ttc lol.

How is everyone else? I think I have missed some posts. Cycle still not over grrr ! OH came home early so was back Fri night. He goes back 1 Dec which is great. Xxx

 

[josie1234]

Hi Fi, how are things with you? Ok, I hope xx

 

[dancareoi]

Hope all is going well for Tilly - will be checking in again tomorrow for news!

AFM - had OV pain all day today - so wish I was TTC again

 

[Oasis717]

So ladies 4 ICS yest v v faint line, 3 today all with more noticeable lines but BFN on Superdrug 4 day early tests, I've had 50 of these tests and no evaps til now and I've only 7 left! How unfair xxxx

 

[Left wonderin]

I wouldn't count yourself out yet might still be too early for super-drug if that dip is implantation can take 3-5 days for hcg to rise . Don't give up hope yet

 

[Oasis717]

But I don't get it Superdrug would surely be showing if those ICS are true! Oh bloody hell I think I prefer stark white, its my birthday today so would been a lovely present! Xx

 

[Oasis717]

Oh and the last ic I did just now was a BFN go figure! Xx

 

[Left wonderin]

Awh Becks I'm so sorry .. Happy birthday I'm sure you will get your special present maybe just a little late are you doing anything nice today ?