TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[josie1234]

Thanks ladies yes i did think it was negative. Oh yes we are BD just in case. Not while i am writing this mind lol. Gave DH a rest yest. Thats what doc said about orgasms so that is good. Hopefully we are covering all bases and will get a result this month. Fingers crossed. Hey crazy has the news sunk in yet?

 

[dancareoi]

Thanks ladies yes i did think it was negative. Oh yes we are BD just in case. Not while i am writing this mind lol. Gave DH a rest yest. Thats what doc said about orgasms so that is good. Hopefully we are covering all bases and will get a result this month. Fingers crossed. Hey crazy has the news sunk in yet?

I think BD very other day is the way to go when OH are a little older too. Becks was alright at 4 times a day with her youngie , but us with oldies have to look after them a little more

 

[josie1234]

Lol love the comment about oldies. Yes i think i am wearing him out.

 

[crazymam]

Haha i totally agree about the oldies, they cant keep up either!
So glad your back becks too.
Xx

 

[Oasis717]

Beck's sorry about your scare , maybe we should ban peeing for the whole 9 months as I would imagine the fear is there every time you wipe ! There is no point in me telling you to relax as I'm sure you know that but still won't relax till you see turtle snug as a bug tommrow . Will be thinking of you

Oh and tmi me and OH had a fine time this am ( late for work again) this baby making will have me fired lol.......... Also decided I'm not trusting o/v tests anymore as got - at 8am + at 6pm and - at 11pm and - at 8am again . Going to try SMEP this month also , and cover all my bases . I'm hoping this month I get a two week wait lol never mind a BFP .

The great thing about this journey is I have met all you wonderful people

Haha i totally agree about the oldies, they cant keep up either!
So glad your back becks too.
Xx

Thank you bothxxxxx

Had a massive lol to Lisa's post and dh thought it was proper funny too, I have to say it was a lot harder for me than dh but I held my own! Xxx

 

[josie1234]

Good on you Becks lol.

 

[Oasis717]

Haha, you ladies crack me up xxxx

 

[Left wonderin]

Firstly Becks delighted to see you back and that all is good , ye had us worried glad you are feeling like crap lol....

Hello everyone else , Rolf about the oldies my poor man was nearly dreading seeing me coming last week cause everytime I saw him I was lookin for lovin

Me 4dpo I think or I could be 8 depending on which smiley face you take lol.... Anyway I felt a heavy nauceous this afternoon ( watery mount n all) tried ignoring it and told myself it was all in my mind as its way to early for those symptoms to show. However I think they were real , a familiar feeling one I've only had once before as its a weird feeling not sick tummy like tummy bug but different , heavy . Anyway only time will tell not getting my hopes up, could be anything lol....

 

[dancareoi]

Funny isn't it, when we were TTC we were at it like rabbits, but since I've found I was PG we haven't DTD at all. I just haven't had the energy or felt like it due to sickness.

Regina keeping everything crossed for you.

Oh and in case I forget nearer the time, Happy Anniversary Becks for Sunday!

In August me and DH will have been married 16 years and in October we will have been together 25 years!

 

[Oasis717]

Aw thanks Lisa, how lovely of you to notice yes our first anniversary, I'd love to say we were going out for a meal and having a romantic night but I can't eat much of anything and we also haven't bd since I found out I was pregnant, because we're too worried in the first trimester, dh has been very good and totally agrees, we are going to wait until 16 weeks which my midwife says is out of the major danger zone, you've been together a long time how lovely, I wish I'd met my dh years ago as I found my true love later in life but I guess I should be lucky I found it at all after all this time xxxx

Thanks Reginaxx that sounds promising, I had nausea at 3 weeks til 4 weeks so you never know! Xxx

 

[Left wonderin]

Wow Beck's only noticing 9 weeks now , boy the weeks are flying Lisa 25 years that a long time , I too found my true love later in life and so wish we had met 20 years ago but I wasted a lot of time moping over a broken heart !! Imagine then I would have had 20 years of ttc !! Instead of my rush job of 2-3 lol..

 

[Oasis717]

I know I can't believe it's gone so quickly! I spent many, many years unhappy due to an abusive ex so to be treated the way I am now means so much more as it's only now I'm truely happy, I used to think I should have done things differently but they say everything happens for a reason and I think if I hadn't gone through what I did dh and I may never have met! I'd like to be a few years younger but ONLY cause of the concern re fertility etc! I think I'm lucky in that I'm so happy now even if it did take most of a lifetime to find lol. Always been a half full glass kind of girl versus half empty xxxx

 

[garfie]

Morning Becks - congrats on 9 weeks + and in case I don't get on the lappy happy anniversary for Sunday

I am sorry I have been MIA would like to say it's because I've been busy but no it's because I only have use of the lappy part time ours has caught a bug and it is on hubbys to do list to sort - hopefully normal service can be resumed shortly

My hubby is also younger than me but is behaving like a grumpy old man at the moment - yes I know he has pressures at work what with the fire etc, yes I know he has to fly off to source new machinery, yes I know he has a lot more responsibilty, yes I know all these things but what about me as you know I have had some good OPKs and have we BD - Nope

I am hoping as it is now the weekend that he will be up for it on a more positive note I have an appointment to go and see the recurrent m/c specialist in Sheffield - I may have to go by myself on the train as hes not sure what will be happening at work think maybe on Sunday when I go and see the Mother in Law I need to have a word in her ear

Sorry for the downer - just the way I feel one step forward four back



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[crazymam]

Congrats on your anniversary this weekend Becks, and well done to you Lisa on 25 Years! Think it has almost taken me that long to find mr right haha

I have took my first sickie today as I nearly passed out yesterday I was so tired and felt so sick. Feel much better today, but then again I am just pottering around the house.
Appetite has increased quite dramatically though. Boobs killing too.
Still early days though and still apprehensive and still do a test every morning just to reassure myself its actually still there.
But thought I would add a ticker now to be positive...

Garfie I think you are just going to have to take control there and lock the bedroom door and pin him down ...x

 

[Oasis717]

Haha, locking the bedroom door and pinning him down! That made me laugh, good plan though, he might enjoy that, who said baby making had to be dull xxxxx
Thank you for all the anniversary wishes, really hoping I have a good day so we are able to celebrate xxxx

 

[josie1234]

Congrats on your anniversary. Lisa congrats also on a long marriage. Yep pin hubby down. When the timings right, they dont have an option to say no lol. In a grumpy mood today for no reason. Hope it goes.

 

[Oasis717]

I'm bleeding ladies, it's brown but it's how both mc started, I'm so scared I can't loose this one too xxxx

 

[crazymam]

I'm bleeding ladies, it's brown but it's how both mc started, I'm so scared I can't loose this one too xxxx

First take a deep breath and think positive thoughts. Then go straight to the hospital and get checked out. Praying for you that its all ok and try and stay positive. I know its only batural to think the worst but please try not to. Keeping my fingers crossed for you xxxx

 

[dancareoi]

I'm bleeding ladies, it's brown but it's how both mc started, I'm so scared I can't loose this one too xxxx

Becks, go and get it checked, it could be nothing, but no harm to out your mind at rest.

 

[garfie]

Becks - go to the hospital hun and get it checked out - put your mind at ease

BIG

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