TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[Oasis717]

Ds was out building a snowman earlier were in the south east so had quite a bit! My moods are still shocking lol, can't wait til my hormones level out, well I hope they do! Xxxx

 

[dancareoi]

Crazy - yeah for 2-3 weeks

Jo- temp is still higher so still looks good

Becks, glad you are still feeling bad!

 

[Left wonderin]

Delighted your feeling rotten Becks Jo fingers crossed for you . Dance over the 13 week mark ))

Me 9 DPO and waiting !!!!!! Lol.

 

[Oasis717]

Oooo Lisa yes I've just noticed your ticker! I'm catching you up lol xxxx

 

[dancareoi]

Getting there, but still can't relax though.

I am starting to get the odd little flicker and I am sure it's the baby, its def not wind, because I want getting it this time last week!

Every now and again I get this funny little feeling in my tummy, hoping it is a good sign that all is ok.

Heaving in sink again this morning and brought up some bile! Everyone was upstairs, so went into utility to block out any noise so DS and DD wouldn't hear. Walked back into kitchen and DD is sat at the table listening to everything!

I think she suspects something, because this is now the second time she has caught me being sick in a morning! Last time she asked me if I was having a baby!

 

[Left wonderin]

Awh Lisa that is so cute , when do you plan on telling them . They will be so excited . How exciting about the flutters . It must feel like forever watching the tickers but me looking in fromthe outside the weeks are flying by ! I'm still waiting 5 days to testing if Af does not show up first . Hoping and praying that I have cause for celebration on paddy,s day and I get a leprachon beanie

Xxxxx to everyone else

 

[dancareoi]

Awh Lisa that is so cute , when do you plan on telling them . They will be so excited . How exciting about the flutters . It must feel like forever watching the tickers but me looking in fromthe outside the weeks are flying by ! I'm still waiting 5 days to testing if Af does not show up first . Hoping and praying that I have cause for celebration on paddy,s day and I get a leprachon beanie

Xxxxx to everyone else

A paddy's day beanie would be lovely.

Other people's pregnancies always seem to go so fast, but when it's your own the weeks seem to slow down.

If all goes well, we will wait as along as possible until we tell anyone including the kids. We told them before when I was 13 weeks that we were having another baby, only to have to tell them 3 weeks later that the baby had died, we can never ever put them through anything like that again, hence the reason we want to wait.

Sending lots of your way.

 

[Left wonderin]

Awh thanks Dance . It must have been heartbreaking having to tell your children that news how old are your children ?

 

[dancareoi]

Awh thanks Dance . It must have been heartbreaking having to tell your children that news how old are your children ?

DS 11 - starting secondary school in sept(got a place at the grammer school of his choice)

DD 8 - going on 18!

DS - 2 - oblivious to what's going on!

What about you?

 

[Left wonderin]

Me I am still trying for no 1 . At the moment only have 3 fur babies but hoping to add to our family reeeealy soon lol...... Unfortunately didn't find the man until a few years ago and have been trying for a year and a half now with only one pregnancy which ended in mc at 11+4 on Christmas Eve gone .

 

[Left wonderin]

I have 4 sisters all with lots of kids , its nice being an aunt but I want to be a mam

 

[Oasis717]

You will get there xxxxxx
Lisa I felt my son for the first time just before 14 weeks, I'm so excited for you, that's my goal, what I'm looking forward to most, to feel the baby xxxx

 

[josie1234]

Left - fingers crossed for you and hope the time goes quick so you can get your BFP. Lisa,love that you can feel flutters. Hope everyone is ok. Didnt sleep very well, woke up feeling really upset. Dreamt that i was talking to her and she was telling me there was no hope to have a baby. Temp went up though.

 

[Left wonderin]

Who were you talking to in your dream Jo . You do know that our dreams are supposed to be the opposite of the future ie If you dream some one is dying its a long life for them , no babies means Lots of Babies

Morning everyone

 

[josie1234]

Lol. I forgot to put that i was talking to a doctor.

 

[garfie]

Morning Ladies

Aw Lisa the flickers are amazing - aren't they?

Josie - Yea for your temp going up - anyone care to tell me what is happening with mine I feel like I'm a kettle about to boil maybe I won't O this month again

Becks - How are you feeling today?

Crazy - Good luck at your appointment

AFM - Not sure at all what is happening - still got sore boobs but the paracetamol seems to take the edge off still testing negative and now ran out of tests my temp seems to be higher than ever but

Have a good day ladies



X

 

[Oasis717]

Morning ladies, Jo that's another good rise, hopefully it keeps going up. I had a very vivid dream last nite but it was a nightmare, my fault for watching a horror film right before going to sleep. My boobs seem to have gone back to being unbearable! They hurt til 12 weeks with my son. 10 weeks tomorrow. I lost the first last year at 11 plus 4. Can't wait to pass that. Xxxxxxx

 

[dancareoi]

Morning ladies.

Fiona, sorry, but your chart has stumped me, totally different from last month so difficult to see what's going on, maybe it will become clearer over the next couple of days.

Jo. Still looking good.

Becks, its good to pass those milestones, sept loss was 8+6 so I was glad to pass that one.

Regina, keep hoping and maybe you too will get your rainbow

 

[Oasis717]

Yes definitely I can't wait to get to 12 weeks just to get past that awful milestone. Still not letting myself get excited just yet. I feel like I have to detach myself a bit just in case. That's so sad xxxx

 

[dancareoi]

Yes definitely I can't wait to get to 12 weeks just to get past that awful milestone. Still not letting myself get excited just yet. I feel like I have to detach myself a bit just in case. That's so sad xxxx

I know wha you mean about not letting yourself get excited, I still feel that way and that's after another scan today.

We had a private nuchal scan. My risk factor to start with was very high, 1 in 74 with 1 in 150 high risk.

However, when the checked all the markers and checked against the bloods they took last week, my risk reduced to low at 1 in 1484 and even lower risk for trisonomy. I have the maternal age of a 22 year old. They have a 97% detection rate, so we are happy with those odds.

Baby has grown 1cm since last Friday and still measures perfect for the dates.

Still feel I can't relax and enjoy just yet though.