TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[crazymam]

I know what you mean by taking a step back, I did and then found I was pregnant. so you never know.
We decided to tell everyone today. Because I am so slim I cant possibly hide it until 12 weeks, and decided to think positive thoughts anyway.PLus I think my work colleagues had guessed anyway so only a matter of time before everyone else did.
Still so tired cant see me going back to work just yet either

 

[Oasis717]

I've been wearing my dressing gown in the house constantly so dd 12 doesn't see, 14 weeks on Saturday and there's no hiding my belly now! Been wearing a long coat when I go out, good job it's been constantly cold starting to get a bit hard doing things, some housework is rough on my back now xxx

 

[Creative]

Hi Garf I know what you mean hun. But we are here if you need us. Totally took a step back myself due to my situation. If it happens it happens. No point getting myself worked up. DH away now 4 days then back 4 days
thats how it will be for the next couple of years. I ve also had to give my shift work up so now looking for job. Fingers crossed it all works out. Fairy dust to everyone thats waiting xxx

I know what you mean by taking a step back, I did and then found I was pregnant. so you never know.

That's exactly where I was too. I even applied for a job and began to come to terms with the fact that it wasn't to be after trying for a whole year and then BANG

 

[dancareoi]

I've heard that so many times, people relax about it all and it happens!

Becks, I too have been wearing a long winter coat all the time, so as you say, good job it's been cold. My belly seems to be getting bigger every day.

 

[Oasis717]

Me too!! Mine is growing fast xxx

 

[crazymam]

well trying out my travel sickness bands to see if they actually work

 

[Oasis717]

They did nothing for me but they do work for some, really hope they help only minor nausea today thank god! Xxx

 

[Left wonderin]

Is it only me and Garfie still waiting for our BFP .. This thread is looking more and more like a first or second tri thread which is wonderful ) me and oh did all we could this month ( poor man is worn out !) so it's all up,to Mother Nature now

Hoping to join you all soon with a ticker lol...and hope mine moves as fast as all you guys are !! Beck's yours and dances is speeding along , and crazy I blink and your 7 weeks !!!!

 

[josie1234]

No I am waiting too xx

 

[Left wonderin]

Hi Jo you me and Garfie so bet I've missed someone else ... That 3,0000 tuns of baby dust required so . Where you at in your cycle ?

 

[Oasis717]

I'm so so hoping for you ladies, it would be amazing for us all to be expecting together, come on April bfp's!!! Xxx

 

[josie1234]

Left - my chart is at bottom of sig. Just click. Not holding hope this month as havent DTD much due to hubby being away. I am CD 18 and if i i've ov when FF says i did (which seems early) then i am 8 dpo. I havent fallen since charting and have defo been DTD plenty of times. I have been awake since 4. DH went up to his mums yest as looks like things arent good for his dad. He hasnt been well for a while and doesnt look like he has got long.

 

[dancareoi]

Left - my chart is at bottom of sig. Just click. Not holding hope this month as havent DTD much due to hubby being away. I am CD 18 and if i i've ov when FF says i did (which seems early) then i am 8 dpo. I havent fallen since charting and have defo been DTD plenty of times. I have been awake since 4. DH went up to his mums yest as looks like things arent good for his dad. He hasnt been well for a while and doesnt look like he has got long.

for your DH.

You may not have DTD much, but the timing was perfect.

Sending you all

 

[crazymam]

Lisa is right Josie, its not the quantity but quality that counts! After all it only takers the once they say. Look at all those girls that fall pregnant first time! Hope your DH is okthough.
My first husband used to work 4 days and 4 days off. I never seen him the 4 days he worked as I also worked and I fell pregnant twice no problem so I wouldn't worry too much about it.
Travel bands seem to work for me, wore them for bed and still woke up several times for toilet but managed to fall straight back to sleep each time as I didn't feel sick. Now I am scared to take them off lol

 

[Creative]

I'm feeling ghastly. How the heck to people work with MS. I remember that I did, but I had a great ward sister who would hide me in the shower to eat so the matron wouldn't discover "a nurse eating on duty"
Luckily a lot of my work is sewing and I can pick it up and put it down as necessary.

 

[crazymam]

creative I cant face work, have been off coming up to 3 weeks now and cant see me returning until I hit second trimester now. I am too exhausted all the time, and travel bands are not working as well as I first thought! I am not allowed to eat when I want at work , work with the public, so its just a no go at the moment.Plus I have no energy until about 1 in the afternoon, and then it only lasts an hour or so x

 

[Oasis717]

Oh ladies I really feel for you, I told a close friend yesterday that I was nearly 14 weeks and she said I thought I hadn't seen you in weeks!!! I was just too ill, it was all I could do to pick my 4 year old up from preschool.which is an hour round trip, I walk, dh took him. I wouldn't want to go back to those weeks for love or money it's so very hard!! But rest assured relief is just around the corner and apart from the odd bad day I'm slowly feeling human again xxxxx

 

[Creative]

But rest assured relief is just around the corner and apart from the odd bad day I'm slowly feeling human again xxxxx

I can only dream.

Please don't get me wrong. I know sickness is a good sign and with the MC I'd not had any. it's just very very wearing.

 

[crazymam]

so I have just over 6 weeks to go before I feel human again
but I wouldn't change it for the world, it is a relief to be feeling so poorly all the time x

 

[Oasis717]

I was the same, I relished the symptoms, was terrified when they went but STILL found it very hard to be so I'll for so long, hang in there ladies xxx