TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[Oasis717]

Roll on tomorrow then Jo! Cd 49! Xx. Thankyou am testing already lol bfn on ics xxx

 

[josie1234]

Yes roll on tomorrow. What DPO did you get BFP with Brooklyn?

 

[Oasis717]

Ah super early, at 5dpo I had a faint line but thought it was an evap, then it was still there at 6dpo on Wondfo's (best ics in my opinion but dear) so I tested with SuperDrug early test at 7dpo and got a definite line. Not got wondfo's this time just rubbish ics! Xxxx

 

[josie1234]

Nice to have early and not have to wait eh? Wish I could excited for me. I know I am not out but don't want to get hopes up.

 

[dancareoi]

Becks I think 5 dpo.

Stalking all charts !!!

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Lisa going to get a SuperDrug early test tomorrow, these ics are rubbish! Xx Jo you've got every chance here I'm excited for you!! Xxx

 

[crysshae]

Thank y'all. I hope it means something. Trying my best not to symptom spot!!!

I think 5 dpo too, Becks. It's funny you don't wanna be pregnant right now but you're already testing. Hard not to be excited or hope, huh?

You're definitely not out Jo.

 

[Oasis717]

Lol Crystal maybe deep down I do want to be and I'm just telling myself I don't to avoid disappointment! I don't know I think I would be v happy if I was but am not thinking I am. I always know I'm pregnant before the test goes positive and I'm just not feeling it at the mo but you Neva know. Hoping your temps stay up tomorrow or today should I say lol xxxx

 

[dancareoi]

Crystal those temps look lovely!

Caitlin awake again, hence time of post.

The bags under my eyes are so big I could put my shopping in them!

 

[josie1234]

Aw bless ya Lisa. Hope you manage to get some snoozes today.

Yes totally understand that Becks. Fx you don't have to wait too long.

Crystal how are you today, it is hard not to symptom spot.

AFM - crampy this morning. Feel like af is coming

 

[josie1234]

Just saw an amazing article on Daybreak about a lady that suffered 20 miscarriages and a doctor helped her by giving her an anti-malaria tablet. It was something to do with her immune system and when they tried a known drug for immune problems, it didn't work with her so they agreed to try this other tablet. Amazing.

Was really fed up yesterday as I did my 2 classes and someone put on facebook that the class was s**t, totally shocking. It is not a friend of mine who put it on but a friend of a friend (and she tagged my friend, who is also a fitness instructor - obviously not knowing I would see the post). I was fuming and gutted. So sent her a message saying that if she did not enjoy the class she should speak to me after the session to let me know. She said that she didn't even break a sweat and no offence meant. I told her that I did take it personally as it is not nice to read that sort of thing on facebook. I honestly felt like packing it all in yesterday. She obviously didn't have a heavy enough weight and if I do see her in my class I will beast her (if I don't throw a kettlebell at her first!!). I don't mind people having an opinion but there's ways of saying things. I always ask for feedback at the end of the class and there were a few said they really enjoyed it and I know you can't please everyone but just one comment like that really puts you down. Other people from the gym had seen the comment and asked who the instructor was. I was not happy! Anyway, sorry for my rant xx

 

[josie1234]

Forgot to say, the couple had a lovely 9 month old baby boy now.

 

[Oasis717]

Omg Jo what a bloody awful thing to say let alone post on Facebook, I'm not surprised you were fuming, I am sorry, the old saying if you have nothing to nice to say springs to mind, honestly, some people xxx
Bfn on SuperDrug Early test today which I expected but it's so strange as the prickling in my boobs continues on and off and an abundance of creamy cm as well, strange, I'm not pregnant but I have pregnancy symptoms lol. Xxxx

 

[garfie]

Becks - Have you heard yourself you are no where near out yet lady - your Brooklyn was an exception not the rule you have many days of testing yet so enjoy POAS

Josie - Oh wow I would certainly beast her next time you see her and just when she thinks she can take no more - beast her again or is that just a bit mean? I take it she's a civillian and not in the forces? - as she would already know the consequences of saying something like that

So when are you going to the dr for the blood test - we are all on the edge of our seats here lady

Lisa - Hope Caitlin has let you get some zzzzzz's in

Crystal - Have you started symptom spotting?

Regina - How long now?

AFM - I was so excited to get my pre seed - but hubby got to the mail before me - so another discussion/argument took place which ended up with me saying if you are really serious - then go and get the snip! he was saying things like having a baby at my time of life, that he'd got over wanting one (wtf everything he wants he gets) he wanted a new car - he researched. He wanted a new phone - he researched. He wanted to move - he researched etc. So I said to him (and in hindsight was probably not the wisest thing to say) so I want a baby/can't keep a baby - do you research no you give me the cheapest rod with a little maggot on the end I didn't mean to say it quite like that - he never said a word

Have a nice day ladies



X

 

[crysshae]

Jo - What an awful thing for someone to say. I hate it when people are like that. They would rather be ugly and talk behind someone's back just so they can complain about something instead of giving the feedback you asked for.

When are you getting your tests? If those cramps are AF coming, I hope she comes soon so you'll know where you are in your cycle.

Becks - Lol. I hope you get what is best for you right now. 6 dpo is definitely not out though. Like the others said, that early test was an exception.

Lisa - I hope you can get a good nap with Caitlin today. Do you think she is going through a growth spurt or something?

Fi - So he has completely changed his mind?? What he said on your night out wasn't just the drink talking? I hope everything is okay.

AFM - Of course I see everything as a symptom. It's the TWW. Lol. I should've said I'm trying not to announce any of it!

 

[Oasis717]

Nah my temps are nosediving too Fi! I've always got a positive about 4 days before af so reckon there would be something there on an early but it's ok xxxxxx

 

[Oasis717]

Lol I know how you feel Crystal the tww is crazy! I only feel this way cause I've been pregnant 7 times and every time I've known way before the test. Only this time I'm getting mixed signals which is confusing me but ivd been blessed with Brooklyn so I'm honestly a great believer in what will be now will be xxxxx

 

[Oasis717]

Does it have a massive effect on temp if you wake up a couple of hours before taking your temp? I seem to keep doing this lately! Xx

 

[crysshae]

I think so. I think it's lower the earlier you wake up. But also if I have to get up and go to the bathroom or let the cat out (that's another story - he's been a pain lately) after waking up early when it's cold, my temp seems to be lower when I check it at my usual waking time...I guess due to getting chilled while out of bed and having to warm back up...

 

[dancareoi]

Jo, bet that women won't be in one of your classes again, if she is, make her pay!

Becks, still early days. Any variation from normal temp taking makes a difference. Still early days for testing

Took Caitlin for a walk this morning to get her to sleep. No sleeping for me though as its her christening on Sunday so I'm busy getting the house ready.