TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[josie1234]

Thanks ladies. Bought some superdrug tests as that was nearer so may test tomorrow.

I know it is hard when you feel down about yourself especially when you have been through such a tough time but you've got to make a start sometime and better now than later. Even if you just do a bit and increase every time. I am just finishing off a workout for you and will enclose it

 

[Soanxious]

Just dreading my wee times Jo x

Crystal Im not going back till tuesday for more bloods, but way I am feeling I will know my outcome by weekend x

I have had a massive op on my face and I have not even bothered looking at the results yesterday.. Im just walking past the mirror not caring.. I was going to take a shower..glam up.. do hair n make up and show new nose off.. but as I still have 2 black eyes I will leave it a few more days...

Nice that our fella's still like us with blobby bits hey. then again some men are concious about their weight too I know mine is but I like my men chunky not skinny... so im happy with him his weight.... does an overweight man cause sperm problems? we have no problem getting pregnant its just me keeping them in my womb x

 

[Soanxious]

Ooooo exciting times Jo yeah I think all supermarket and own brands are more or less the same arn't they?

 

[josie1234]

So - I know what you mean, every time you go for a wee it is a worry. Did you manage to watch any of your stuff and pass the time? I really hope things are ok for you hun. You have had a lot of things to deal with lately but I am looking forward to seeing a pic of your new nose. Hope the black eyes go soon.

My DH has put weight on (think it is my cake baking) but also with him living away, the food in the mess is rubbish so he eats in the block, microwave food. I do tell him to batch cook and take stuff with him but he can't be bothered. He takes stuff that I put in freezer (left overs lol). Working shifts too is hard as he doesn't really find time to exercise and he is so tired when he comes home what with driving and BD'ing lol.

Yes, it can cause sperm problems but he was checked and he is fine. Just me. Too old But I tell you, this peri menopause is not going to get me down. This cycle has given me some hope.

Ok, ladies I have enclosed the workout. If you have any medical issues, make sure you get clearance from GP first. Start off doing what you can so don't worry about doing it all in one go. Just do a bit to start and then work up. I have done a warm up (at the top) and I will also enclose some stretches but if you have any questions just ask.

Good luck (obviously if you are pregnant - do not be doing this)

 

[josie1234]

Yes, I think supermarket/store ones are the same. No symptoms for me, cramps have gone. If AF is due I normally get sore back, nausea and cramps, oh and really bad depression/teary. I had the depression/teary a few days ago but no symptoms.

 

[Oasis717]

Me too Crystal! Yes we definitely have got to sort this out! We can cheer each other on! xxxxxx
Jo thanks so much for taking the time to do those workouts, will def be taking your advice, you're the expert I know I can do it, it's just sticking to it! Dh put on weight giving up smoking last year but it just drops off him (git) lol. And me too I don't like skinny men! Xxxx
Tanya can't wait to see your new nose! Xxx

 

[josie1234]

You are welcome, I am here to help. You will feel so much better for doing it, not just looking better but mentally too. Don't keep putting it off, just make a start. Even if it is only one exercise on day 1. You keep adding on and you will feel the benefits. I put my gym kit on then know I have to go and do something.

Let me know how you get on.

Yes, I like my men to be stocky, rugby players, hmmmm.

 

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[crysshae]

Thank you, Jo. That's very helpful.

Becks - Yes we can!

Tanya - I'll be watching for your show off pics.

 

[josie1234]

I was just looking on the first page (lists of people on this thread). So - if you look on it, it gives me hope to see the rainbow babies on there.

I am happy for my first name to be put on there, Lisa if you have time to put it on. Anyone heard from the others? Wonder how they are getting on.

 

[Left wonderin]

I'm here still waiting

 

[Oasis717]

Oh bless you Regina!! We are all waiting with you xxxxx

 

[josie1234]

Aw hun, hope the little fella comes tonight/tomorrow xxxx

 

[crysshae]

He'll be here soon!

 

[Left wonderin]

Awh thanks girls after tonight only one more sleep or lack of lol !!! But I tell ya something in the last few weeks he has been so bloody active every night seriously non stop for hours , moochin legs , arms , bum , rolls he seriously feels like a bag of eels !!!!!! He will be a nighttime wiggler !!!!!!!!

 

[Soanxious]

Jo - I've caught up with films on my sky+ box..and going to watch some downloaded homeland when I go into bed. im having a very lazy day as I am to scared to wander around... I will upload before during and after pics when I am sorted and able to do my make up lol.. and yup has to be a nice chunky rugby man type..mm mm mm

Becks - I was excited to see it.. then once I had cast off I just felt blurgh!.. I can't touch it at the moment..its still painful and feels "ODD" and I still have to put the cast on at nights. I can't wait to feel feminine again..by glamming up a little

Crystal - Im funny looking mind..

Regina - the last few days seem to draaaaaaaaag don't they.. good luck for when he does come along.. does sound like he will be a night time baby

 

[Oasis717]

Will really look forward to seeing a pic Tanya and will be great when the pain and swelling have gone and you can see the end result, you are brave! I've watched the op a few times on the tele. Ouch!! Xxx
Still no af although got cramps now. Looks like I'm going to reach 12dpo xxx

 

[Soanxious]

Becks another day.. nice one.. when will you test if you go another day or 2?

AS for seeing operations on nose.. me too.. I had the closed procedure this time and its far worse for bruising and pain than an open one.. as I had the open last time and didn't hurt half as much as this but I did have a rhinoplasty on top.. thats the worse bit of pain for me.. x

 

[dancareoi]

Hey girls, I've been AWOL for a few hours and there's a million pages to read! Will read in more detail when I get time!

I'm happy to add name to front page if everyone's happy with that?

Tanya (so?) hang in there, all is not lost. We drove past Cardiff today on m4 and the weather was horrible, so wet and dismal! Chucking it down in Tenby tonight !

Becks, still in there, don't give up yet

Jo still not sure with you! (Acupuncture !! )

Fi, hope you are well

Regina- come on little Seany we're waiting

I feel so sad hearing about that poor little baby in Carmarthenshire who has died at 6 days old, probably by the family dog

Watching bbc Wales tonight which did more on the story than main news and I had tears in my eyes, that poor family. What a tragic waste of a beautiful life, I need to stop thinking about that beautiful little baby girl in the picture they are showing , it breaks my heart.

Little Eliza-Mae another angel in heaven xxx

 

[Oasis717]

Ah I dunno ladies I know I'm out I've got spotting after bd and af cramps! But it's ok I'm happy I've reached 12 dpo, give me a good chance for trying the next few months xxxxx