TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[Soanxious]

Thank you Jo, glad you are keeping busy.. but had the day off to enjoy the lovely weather had.. I spent it in the garden..its nice to potter about
Im off to Cornwall this weekend.. can't wait.. so looking forward to the break.. hope you get some time off this weekend.. are you up to anything? x

 

[Soanxious]

just started bleeding

 

[tillyttc]

Oh bugger iam sorry hun . Xx

 

[crysshae]

I'm so sorry.

 

[Oasis717]

Crystal I think those temps mean a lo!!! So exciting!!! Xxx mine up slightly today. Xx
Jo lovely to hear from you. Im good weve been finishing decorating the kitchen today just needs finishing touches xx
Brooklyn is now pulling himself to standing and he's not even 7 months! Got some pics of him doing it will upload later as on the laptopx
Tanya hope you're ok xxx

 

[Oasis717]

Oh no Tanya ive only just seen your post. Dont panic yet remember I bled with Brooklyn. Your temp is still good. Sorry hunni xxxx

 

[Soanxious]

My tests are lighter hun.. but thanks x I just gotta tell OH when he is home later... and that's upset me the most because he is over the moon with new job and is on top of world.. he had interview when I started bleeding this morning..so couldnt tell him.. and he just rang me to tell me the job his is...

 

[crysshae]

Thanks, Becks. That would be awesome. Good to see your temp is going back up. Maybe the lows were an estrogen surge.

Tanya - So sorry you have to tell your DH on a day when he is so happy, but glad he got the job he wanted.

Jo - Good to see you. Hope you're doing well.

 

[Soanxious]

Thanks xx

I dont want to tell him not today

 

[Oasis717]

Tanya im so v v sorry xxx

 

[Sparkle125]

I am so sorry Tanya. Thinking of you....xxxx

 

[dancareoi]

Tanya I am so sorry.

My consultant at heartlands Hospital in Birmingham is one of the leading mc specialists in the country.

She thought I was super fertile, which means you get pg very easily, even if something is not right with the egg/sperm which then sadly leads to mc.

Her advice to me was to make me less fertile by giving progesterone. This means it may take longer to get pg but hopefully then its a keeper.

I started progesterone 7 days after OV. I got pg straight away with Caitlin .

Although you are 1 1/2 hours from Bham it may be worth trying to see her.

To start with it might be worth sending her an email and give a brief description of your ages and the chemicals you have had. She should respond to the email and hopefully will refer you for an appointment.

Her email is [email protected]

You have nothing to lose by emailing her, but everything to gain!

 

[Oasis717]

Thats lovely advice Lisa. Tanya been thinking of you allday xxxx

 

[crysshae]

Wonderful advice, Lisa. Very sweet of you.

 

[Oasis717]

Those temps are just going up and up Crystal! Im def out mine are rubbish lol xxx

 

[Sparkle125]

So, AF is trying to show herself....but not quuuiiittte yet. I have tiny signs she is coming but for the first (and last) time, come on LADY, SHOW YOURSELF!!! I am ready to get this show on the road! Hopefully tonight, but for sure, hopefully tomorrow. At that point, I will call my doctor's office and get this party started!!!!!!!! COME on AF, you are welcome to the party....just this once....and then your invitation is revoked for at least 9 months.

 

[crysshae]

I'm trying not to get my hopes up. Lol. It was late this morning and I felt hot so could've been that. So hope it's not! My temps didn't steady till day 7 with DS5 and went up day 11 after my BFP so you still have time.

Yay Jenn! Exciting!

 

[Oasis717]

Good luck Sparkle! Xxx

 

[Sparkle125]

Ok Ladies! AF has arrived! I hope to see the doctor tomorrow and start my medication on Tuesday. I will be on that medication for 10-14 days to build my uterine lining and then I will have my transfer 3 - 5 days later. YAY! PLEASE, NO ROAD BLOCKS!!!!

 

[Soanxious]

Thanks everyone.. just got back from St Ives xx

Lisa thank you so much I will email her tomorrow and let you know what is said xx My daughter lives in Birmingham so often back n forth there Thank you for that! x

Well I just got back from St Ives, the weekend was Beautiful we took my son...Having a mc on holiday is bad enough..but to have it when you have your 14 yr old son with you sharing a room and having to put on a brave face is tough.. fortunately the major bleeding started today.. so yesterday we spent 7 hours out at sea on boat. Today was tough.. AGONY actually.. OH wanted to bring me home but I pushed through it and only burst into tears in public 4 times....

Im taking this cycle off so I can have my antibody tests in 6 weeks...don't want to skip as a month older but needs must in case its something that can be helped.

Im hoping to see some bfp's soon....

who's testing? x