TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[crysshae]

Becks - It did me a lot of good. I hope it relieves some of your stress too.

Mrs Diaz - 7 dpo is really early for testing.

Regina - I hope it was just an off smear. If you were already pregnant when they did the test, that could have caused the abnormality. My sister has done that before and the smear after delivery was normal.

 

[MrsDiaz]

Omg itchy nipples and lots of white discharge , lol im sorry I know thats gross and tiny cramps

 

[Sparkle125]

Hey Ladies!

I have been reading everyday! Sorry Becks. Those darn tests are terrible to tease us like that. Congratulations Tilly! A Girl and halfway there! Congratulations Crystal! Awesome news on the ultrasound! Glad to see everyone else is doing well.

AFM: I am 8w2d today. I have another ultrasound on Monday. The morning sickness is in full force and my super sonic sense of smell has arrived. My goal is to enjoy every week. Given my loss at 24 weeks, that is sometimes easier said than done. But, I am staying positive and enjoying every pang of nausea...well, kinda.

 

[MrsDiaz]

Congrats to all of you! I hope this my time!>&#8226;<

 

[tillyttc]

Sparkle so happy that everything is going great that includes the morning sickness lol must admit I missed it when it went as I new I was doing fine when I had it if that makes sence lol. Xx

 

[Oasis717]

Thank you all. I guess there's always next month xxx
Sparkle im so glad all is going so well xxxx
MrsDiaz I sympathise as im in the same situation. No family at all my side just my children. My dh family is mine which is mum, nan and sister. He also lost his grandad and dad but on my side I have no family at all so I totally understand xxxx

 

[Oasis717]

I hope your smear is ok Regina I had abnormal cells back in 1998 and had to have a loop excision of the cervix which is basically a big lump taken out. I had yearly smears for 10 years after. I just got a letter this week sayinh my smear is due. I always worry til I get the results. Im a year older than you im 43 on the 24th November xxx

 

[Left wonderin]

A fellow scorpion !! Becks lets both get BFP before our birthdays as gifts to ourselves its terrible I'm more concerned the results will come back saying I need treatment not because of cervical cancer but because it would delay ttc . That's awful I know !!!

Sparkle I've just realised all you have been through to get to this point ! Wow your journey has been long and tough ! You are amazing and so wonderfully positive this rainbow baby your bringing home is one special LO

Good morning everyone else , hope ye all have a lovely saturday anyone up to anything exciting ??

 

[Oasis717]

I totally understand that Regina I know id feel exactly the same. Although wehavent been trying 100% weve still been trying for a few months now resulting only In a cp so im starting to panic a little but yes hear hear bfp before our birthdays definitely xxxx

 

[josie1234]

Becks - it's not over until AF arrives!

Hope you are all having a lovely weekend. Today was the opening of the new gym so been busy with that but all good. Lots of people came and some signed up so that is good. Still work to do but one milestone done!

 

[MrsDiaz]

I'm testing tomorrow. I'll be 9 dpo. What ya think?

 

[Oasis717]

I dunno Jo I think im out! Xxx
Good luck Mrs Diaz 9dpo is good to test but then again I start at 4dpo! With my youngest nearly 9 months now I got a faint line at 5 dpo! Xxx

 

[dancareoi]

Good luck mrs diaz

 

[josie1234]

Good luck Mrs Diaz. Fingers crossed for you.

I didn't sleep well. Woke at 4 as rain woke me up. Temp 36.4. Went back to sleep woke at 7.05 temp 36.7. Do I use first temp? Congested yesterday and headache.

What are your plans today? Nothing planned for me which is nice. Catch up on chores I think

 

[josie1234]

I hope you are wrong Becks

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Jo. If it were me id use the second temp. Im pretty sure im out but I guess you never know! Xxx

 

[josie1234]

Temps still looking good though Becks. When is AF due?

 

[Oasis717]

I know its odd cause my temps are better than any of my charts in the last 6 cycles of trying! Odd. My boobs have been burning since yest but again ive had that with very bad pmt before which I seem to have this month. Still getting stark white on ics although I dont trust them at all I thought id use them up. Im becoming very pessimistic lol. Ive had my hopes up many times just to be disappointed. According to ff af is due Tuesday xxxx

 

[Oasis717]

Are you going to use the second temp? I would its much more your time for taking plus 3 hours is usually enough for me to get an accurate reading. Xxxx

 

[josie1234]

Hope Tuesday comes quick and no AF
Yes think I will change my temp on FF. Fell back to sleep again after 7 and woke at 10. Temp still 36.7.