TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[Oasis717]

Well all I know is one min im angry next in tears my boobs are killing! I hate pmt lol xxxx

 

[MrsDiaz]

yeah I'm cramping myself, it just feels full in my uterus.

 

[Oasis717]

My cramps are gone now they lasted about 3 days and I felt sure I was about to start af. Some months my pmt is worse than others but its been better lately cause of my diet. This month though its awful. According to ff af due to start tues xx

 

[MrsDiaz]

Yea me too:/

 

[Oasis717]

Well as I already knew im out spotting after bd meaning af tomorrow or Wednesday right on time. So since we started in Jan it took three cycles and that ended with a chemical then this is cycle 6 and still nothing. We originally said we'd give it 6 months then visit the docs if no luck so as we still haven't managed ttc 100% due to the kids illnesses etc we're trying to decide if we give it one more shot next cycle or go to the docs. Feelin down I knew I was out since 7dpo but its funny how you still have that slight hope still xxxxxx

 

[josie1234]

Aw Becks sorry about that hun. What are you hoping doc will do? More tests? I can't remember if your doc is nice. It's hard trying to decide whether to wait or seek help. AFM - tears today, god knows why! Tired as DH came home early so I heard him come in at half 3.

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Jo no doc awful we need to change first. We have decided to try one more cycle. In the meantime change docs. Your chart is looking awesome and the emotional is a good sign!! Xxx

 

[Oasis717]

Omg Jo ive just looked at your chart again its going triphasic just like mine was with Brooklyn! Xxx

 

[Oasis717]

Look! Xxx

 

[josie1234]

Oh Yeh! !!!! Blimey

 

[MrsDiaz]

hello ladies, boobies are getting sore and cramps are increasing. ugh stay away witch. 2 times have i dreamed about taking a pregnancy and were positives but idk

 

[Left wonderin]

Jo when I looked at your chart earlier I thought that too but don't want to get your hopes up,prematurely ! But have to say that chart is looking super . God I would so love it to be a BFP for you your so supportive of everyone it should be your turn for some luck and some baby dust to fall on you! Only last night I was reading a blog on mumsnet it was so filled with positive stories about ladies 42+ that went on to have babies and more than 1 !!! Lots of ladies 45/46 on third pregnancy HAVIN stared their families in their early 40s . Two ladies were premenopausal and both ended up with two bubba s ill try find the link it was very encouraging ! Made me feel like a spring chicken at 41 lol...

AFM smear over and done but bad news is results wont be back for 4-5 weeks !!!! Eeeerrrrrrr that's another cycle ill have to miss ttc .... On the positive side the practice nurse was so positive about me trying again , told me I'd buckets of time even if I needed treatment and kept talking about " when " I'm pregnant again not if I am .... I love that women

 

[MrsDiaz]

Hello ladies I never used a temperature chart before, but how does that work? I might just start using it.

 

[Left wonderin]

There is an ap called fertility friend its fantastic . Basically you take your temp at the same time every morning . Preferably before you get out of bed or do anything ! This gives you the lowest body temp. Temping is useful to see if you ovulated as your temp rises after ov . Check out fertility friend if you have any questions just ask

 

[Oasis717]

So hoping you you Jo!!!!! Xxxxx

 

[crysshae]

Becks - I'm sorry. I know what ya mean about keeping the hope until she shows.

Regina - That's forever to wait on results.

Mrs - good luck.

Jo - I've been thinking the same thing about your chart and symptoms. It would be so wonderful for you to get your BFP now that you've let the TTC stress go. Fingers crossed.

 

[josie1234]

MrsDiaz, hope you are right hun, horrible waiting isn't it.

Thanks everyone, I am getting kinda nervous. Regina - 4-5 weeks is a long time to wait eh? Fingers crossed all is good for you so you can get ttc as soon as possible. I bought 2 Superdrug tests yesterday but am determined not to test. Still very moody lol, but that is me normally!!!

Looking forward to seeing updates tomorrow from all ttc. Where are you Tanya?? Hope you are ok xx

 

[MrsDiaz]

I tested today at 10 dpo and negative :/ however the breast pain comes and goes which isn't normal before af, it always hurts when i get af and i was getting sleepy at the nail salon. lil cramps here and there but at after bd and 4-5 dpo i had major cramps, and lots..i mean lots of cm. good luck ladies!

 

[Oasis717]

Mrs Diaz its still early. Lots of luck. Xxx
Regina hoping your results come back quickly and all is well xx
Thanks Crystal. Hearing what regina wrote gives me hope its not too late. Just have to try harder!! Xx
Jo cant wait for your test xxx
I am starting an Avon round tomorrow 217 houses so lots more exercise and hopefully I can earn at the same time xxx

 

[dancareoi]

Becks based on last month, Af due today, any signs?

Jo I see bfn but still eArly days