Girly922
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Welcome munchkin. I'm so sorry for your loss. You sound very positive at trying again, and I really wish you the best. We tried again as soon as I'd stopped bleeding. That month wasn't successful. Getting that first AF after m/c was devastating but I guess it was my body's way of letting me know it wasn't quite ready. The following month we got our bfp and we've had no problems. It just made this time completely terrifying.
As for recurrent m/c's. it did worry me. Everyone I know who has had a loss, has had more than one. But not necessarily one after the other. My friend had one years ago before she had her little girl, and then another more recently. So it doesn't mean your next pregnancy won't go smoothly.
I was amazed at how many women suffer m/c's because its just something that's not spoken about. I was pretty open with people after mine and couldn't believe how many friends/work colleagues who had all been through the same. My MIL has had 5 losses out of 9 pregnancies so its more common than we really realise. And I think a lot of that is down to it being a taboo subject.
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As for recurrent m/c's. it did worry me. Everyone I know who has had a loss, has had more than one. But not necessarily one after the other. My friend had one years ago before she had her little girl, and then another more recently. So it doesn't mean your next pregnancy won't go smoothly.
I was amazed at how many women suffer m/c's because its just something that's not spoken about. I was pretty open with people after mine and couldn't believe how many friends/work colleagues who had all been through the same. My MIL has had 5 losses out of 9 pregnancies so its more common than we really realise. And I think a lot of that is down to it being a taboo subject.
Xx