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TTC after miscarriage before AF
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Hi ladies, can I join?
I lost my little Selah almost five weeks ago at 21+5. Completely heartbroken but just want to start trying again! The recovery was pretty straightforward and bleeding has been gone for a couple weeks now. I thought AF would have arrived by now but it hasn't. So maybe I still have a chance. I'm not tracking, but I don't think I've ovulated. I typically feel it/tell by my cm, but I know each cycle can change things. So I'm just playing a waiting game I guess.
It's horrible than any of us have to be here, but I'm looking forward to getting to know you ladies and seeing lots of bfps for us all.
I lost my little Selah almost five weeks ago at 21+5. Completely heartbroken but just want to start trying again! The recovery was pretty straightforward and bleeding has been gone for a couple weeks now. I thought AF would have arrived by now but it hasn't. So maybe I still have a chance. I'm not tracking, but I don't think I've ovulated. I typically feel it/tell by my cm, but I know each cycle can change things. So I'm just playing a waiting game I guess.
It's horrible than any of us have to be here, but I'm looking forward to getting to know you ladies and seeing lots of bfps for us all.
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LilMiss_91
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I'm so sorry for your loss tcinks.
And for everyone elses losses. It sucks that these forums even need to exist.
I'ven been getting clear stretchy CM for about the last week or more but I don't think it can be ovulation related as I wouldn't think it would last this long. Also I have been known to get this kind of CM for the week or so before AF so maybe it's that. I feel so stuck in limbo right now. I feel like ttc is fruitless right now but I can't bring muself to not do ANYTHING until af arrives because I feel like I have to do SOMETHING to keep me sane. This wait for af is worse than any tww in my life knowing that it could be another 4wks until anything happens.
And for everyone elses losses. It sucks that these forums even need to exist.
I'ven been getting clear stretchy CM for about the last week or more but I don't think it can be ovulation related as I wouldn't think it would last this long. Also I have been known to get this kind of CM for the week or so before AF so maybe it's that. I feel so stuck in limbo right now. I feel like ttc is fruitless right now but I can't bring muself to not do ANYTHING until af arrives because I feel like I have to do SOMETHING to keep me sane. This wait for af is worse than any tww in my life knowing that it could be another 4wks until anything happens.
tag74
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So sorry for your losses.
My MC was July 9 and I do temp and use OPKs. I had EWCM 10 days or so after the MC and then again right before I O'd a couple days ago.
My CM was all over the place this cycle though.
Hope this helps.
My MC was July 9 and I do temp and use OPKs. I had EWCM 10 days or so after the MC and then again right before I O'd a couple days ago.
My CM was all over the place this cycle though.
Hope this helps.
Mummy1506
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Hello.
Sorry to hear of everyone's losses! It's heartbreaking.
I MC first week in July & no AF or ovulation as yet, I had long cycles with late ovulation before MC (ov typically CD 28-33), I didn't get negative HPT for about 2 weeks after so hoping for OV in the next week.
So frustrating just waiting not knowing whats going on!
Good luck with everyone hoping for their rainbow BFP.
Sorry to hear of everyone's losses! It's heartbreaking.
I MC first week in July & no AF or ovulation as yet, I had long cycles with late ovulation before MC (ov typically CD 28-33), I didn't get negative HPT for about 2 weeks after so hoping for OV in the next week.
So frustrating just waiting not knowing whats going on!
Good luck with everyone hoping for their rainbow BFP.
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Lilmiss & tcinks, so sorry for your losses 
your in the right place those, these ladies are lovely!
AFM - we're ntnp at the mo and I think I'm about 6dpo! If no ad by 16th Aug I may just crack open a test!! Will properly start ttc again next cycle and I can't wait!!!
your in the right place those, these ladies are lovely!AFM - we're ntnp at the mo and I think I'm about 6dpo! If no ad by 16th Aug I may just crack open a test!! Will properly start ttc again next cycle and I can't wait!!!
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Lilmiss & tcinks, so sorry for your losses
AFM - we're ntnp at the mo and I think I'm about 6dpo! If no ad by 16th Aug I may just crack open a test!! Will properly start ttc again next cycle and I can't wait!!!
Yay babylove!!! I've missed seeing you around!! I hope you get your sticky bean soon!!! Can't wait to start seeing some tests
Welcome to all new here. I am so so sorry for your losses. It just breaks my heart reading about more. I'm glad you found this thread though. I found it very supportive and the ladies amazing
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Lilmiss & tcinks, so sorry for your losses
AFM - we're ntnp at the mo and I think I'm about 6dpo! If no ad by 16th Aug I may just crack open a test!! Will properly start ttc again next cycle and I can't wait!!!
Yay babylove!!! I've missed seeing you around!! I hope you get your sticky bean soon!!! Can't wait to start seeing some tests
Welcome to all new here. I am so so sorry for your losses. It just breaks my heart reading about more. I'm glad you found this thread though. I found it very supportive and the ladies amazing
Ah thank you happynewmom! It feels good to be back after a well needed break!!!
Fx for everyone on this thread that your bfps are just around the corner!!!x
I hope I'm not sounding too Debbie Downer, but it's CD12 and I'm getting nervous because I'm not feeling any pre-O symptoms, especially since I didn't O last month. I want this to be a nice clean, 1st full cycle after the MC. Fertility friend says my average is CD 14. I know stress can put it off, and I do have a house full of in-laws...
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Hi ladies I am sorry for your losses but, you came to the right place this thread has saved me!
Well I am officially cycle day 8 here and AF is now gone as of last night. I am beyond thrilled I was starting to feel like after all that time waiting for AF and it not coming that now it would never leave lol. But, now we are good to go
and I could not be more excited/nervous/scared. After all this waiting to try we are ready and hopefully we get a good shot at trying this cycle. We will see at least I am back in the game. Looks like a few of us will be testing pretty close together. Goodluck to us all!
but, you came to the right place this thread has saved me!Well I am officially cycle day 8 here and AF is now gone as of last night. I am beyond thrilled I was starting to feel like after all that time waiting for AF and it not coming that now it would never leave lol. But, now we are good to go
and I could not be more excited/nervous/scared. After all this waiting to try we are ready and hopefully we get a good shot at trying this cycle. We will see at least I am back in the game. Looks like a few of us will be testing pretty close together. Goodluck to us all!
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Hi ladies, and thankyou to everyone who has welcomed us newbies it's so nice to have somewhere to go at a time like this where you know there are ladies that can relate to you it's very much appreciated
I'm feeling a bit meh today. No signs of AF. No signs of a bfp. Nothing. It's been 4 weeks. 3 weeks since the bleeding/spotting completely stopped. I can't wait another 3 weeks
it's so nice to have somewhere to go at a time like this where you know there are ladies that can relate to you it's very much appreciated I'm feeling a bit meh today. No signs of AF. No signs of a bfp. Nothing. It's been 4 weeks. 3 weeks since the bleeding/spotting completely stopped. I can't wait another 3 weeks
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Hi Girls,
Hoping I can join you. Let me introduce myself. I am Susan, 40. My husband and I thought we pretty much would never have children as I have only got half an ovary and he has a low count and chromosome condition (XYY). We had a cycle of (AI) IUI in Jan 13 and fell pregnant first go, only to lose the baby at 16 weeks - I delivered a boy in my local hospital. It was determined he had triploidy (triple everyone chromosome). This was May 13. I was all set to commence IVF in August 13 but fell pregnant naturally on our first go after losing bub. My Son was born early in Feb 14 and is now 17 months old & the light of my life.
We were forced to have a 6 month break due to an incisional hernia (from c section and all fertility related surgeries) and we started TTC in Jan this year with the idea that we would try for 6 months only and then commence IVF. We saw the IVF Drs to get ready but AF did not arrive, I was pregnant on our 6th and final try. Saw heartbeat at 7 week scan, had Ob app at 8+1 weeks and baby's heart had stopped. I had a D&C the next day. That was a week and a half ago now.
We are now waiting for my AF to come back so we can start trying again, will give it 3 months naturally before doing IVF.
Although it feels very different losing at 16 to the 8+2 I had most recently, (least for me it was), I find myself having tearful moments at the most random of times.
Anyway, thanks for letting me share my story.... hoping to find some support (and give some support) in this forum
Hoping I can join you. Let me introduce myself. I am Susan, 40. My husband and I thought we pretty much would never have children as I have only got half an ovary and he has a low count and chromosome condition (XYY). We had a cycle of (AI) IUI in Jan 13 and fell pregnant first go, only to lose the baby at 16 weeks - I delivered a boy in my local hospital. It was determined he had triploidy (triple everyone chromosome). This was May 13. I was all set to commence IVF in August 13 but fell pregnant naturally on our first go after losing bub. My Son was born early in Feb 14 and is now 17 months old & the light of my life.
We were forced to have a 6 month break due to an incisional hernia (from c section and all fertility related surgeries) and we started TTC in Jan this year with the idea that we would try for 6 months only and then commence IVF. We saw the IVF Drs to get ready but AF did not arrive, I was pregnant on our 6th and final try. Saw heartbeat at 7 week scan, had Ob app at 8+1 weeks and baby's heart had stopped. I had a D&C the next day. That was a week and a half ago now.
We are now waiting for my AF to come back so we can start trying again, will give it 3 months naturally before doing IVF.
Although it feels very different losing at 16 to the 8+2 I had most recently, (least for me it was), I find myself having tearful moments at the most random of times.
Anyway, thanks for letting me share my story.... hoping to find some support (and give some support) in this forum
Dream- hope you find your rainbow baby soon!
AFM- it was a hard weekend because our dog got really sick (she's better now). I found out I was pregnant the first time 3 days after we brought her home, and she stayed by my side after the miscarriage. This Sunday I completely broke down and couldn't deal, but now she's bouncing around and I've never been happier to see her antics!
AFM- it was a hard weekend because our dog got really sick (she's better now). I found out I was pregnant the first time 3 days after we brought her home, and she stayed by my side after the miscarriage. This Sunday I completely broke down and couldn't deal, but now she's bouncing around and I've never been happier to see her antics!
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I just read up on this as I was unsure what it was. I hope the genetic counsellor will be able to help you and give you best options.
I'm sorry this is another factor on your journey, and I truly hope you overcome this and get youruch awaited rainbow. Xx
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Dream- I am so sorry for your losses I hope that your next pregnancy gives you a happy and healthy baby . Welcome to the forum.
TinyLynne- I am sorry that you guys are going through this. But, I am glad that you are finally getting some answers. I hope you get your appointment soon. I know you must be scared---hopefully the genetic counselor can provide both of you with more answers and you can figure out your next step in TTC. I am sending lots of prayers your way
. Welcome to the forum.TinyLynne- I am sorry that you guys are going through this. But, I am glad that you are finally getting some answers. I hope you get your appointment soon. I know you must be scared---hopefully the genetic counselor can provide both of you with more answers and you can figure out your next step in TTC. I am sending lots of prayers your way
